In this intimate and deeply honest episode of The Power of SelfEVOLution, I visit with my long-term client for a real-time reflection on what truly changes when our relationship with our "Self" begins to heal.

What unfolds is a #RealRawRelatable exploration of anxiety, self-doubt, people-pleasing, and the invisible patterns that invisibly shape our relationships with partners, parents, and children.

"I didn't know who I was, so I couldn't communicate clearly with anyone else." - C.M.

From surviving on the outside while struggling on the inside, to learning how to recognize emotional triggers, set boundaries, and communicate without fear ~ this conversation reveals how inner awareness transforms the way we show up in life.

And, most importantly, transforms how we truly feel deep down in our core being and heart!

My client shares, in her own words, how understanding her unconscious patterns shifted lifelong dynamics with her mother, strengthened her marriage, changed the way she parents, and ultimately restored a sense of calm, trust, and inner safety she had never experienced before.

"Speaking up felt terrifying—I thought it would ruin the relationship. Instead, it made it stronger." - C.M.

This episode is for anyone who:

• Feels reactive, anxious, or disconnected in close relationships

• Struggles to speak up without fear of conflict or loss

• Wants deeper emotional clarity, presence, and self-trust

• Knows there is "more" to life, but isn't sure where to begin

A powerfully enriching reminder that when the relationship with Self transforms ~ everything else miraculously follows.... #KarenLoveLee

If this conversation resonates, I expand on this theme ~ moving beyond reaction and into conscious self-leadership ~ in my latest Substack essay, "The Advantage of Self-Evolution: Elevating Consciousness Beyond Reaction."

#EliteSelfEvolution #EliteInnerMastery #ConsciousLeadership #HighPerformers #UnconsciousMastery #NervousSystemIntelligence #SelfMasteryAtScale

I believe that the internal vibrational frequency we radiate synchronizes with reality gifting us with MIRACLES, and come out of nowhere when we least expect it.....

Death and loss are wake up calls for radical mental, emotional and spiritual growth. But only if we face it, and choose to process the thoughts and feelings associated with such a loss. Our brain wants to keep us on auto-pilot mode, rather than learning new insightful life-worthy lessons!

"I had only two choices on how to deal with yet another Death, wallow in self-pity and guilt or relentlessly search for all the Hidden WISDOM I possibly could find...." ~ Karen Love Lee

As I drew from all the past ENLIGHTENMENT I had gained in the recovery of every death up until this point, I was able to TRUST the healing process....regenerating profound feelings of FAITH.

"The subconscious mind acts first on the dominating desires which have been mixed with emotional feeling, such as faith." "FAITH is the head chemist of the mind." ~ Napoleon Hill, Author of Think and Grow Rich

As I laser focused on elevating self-realization, without being aware that this new wisdom was enhancing my trust and faith, my brain was sending and receiving energetic signals. Napoleon Hill likens this to "radio waves transmitted by the brain."

"Our minds become magnetized with the dominating thoughts we hold in our minds, and these magnets attract to us the forces, the people, the circumstances of the life which harmonize with the nature of our dominating thoughts." ~ Napoleon Hill, Author of Think and Grow Rich

The more consistently we align our mental frequency with a wish or goal the more the universe mysteriously shifts to create what is imagined into the material form.

Poof! Another horse that has been on my wish-list appears, a Friesian Stallion. But, this time it's a new consciousness experience. Granted, manifesting dream horses is typical for me. But what is atypical is the underlying driving force.

In the past I was driven by the unconscious need to bury or hide from pain, not untainted pleasure. This time, I diligently transformed the pain into deeply rooted passion stemming from my soul. Rather than numbing or disguising the problem with a band-aid fix.

In retrospect, I used a lot of horses to mask UNconscious insecurities, and vowed not to repeat this unhealthy self-sabotaging pattern. No matter the cost or sacrifice. Because it only prolongs hidden heartache. Learning from my past history, I was able to make a conscious choice to stop this maddening cycle.

Ta-dah!!!! As a result of this promise to mySELF, I ended up exponentially elevating my mental, emotional and spiritual acuity to the next-level!!!! More said, this time I didn't use something or someone to cover up or mask my deep-seated inner turmoil and grief.

As humans, we are automatically designed to override EMOTIONAL processing in times of crisis, which distorts and deflects us from what eternally matters ~ soulful happiness and fulfillment.

In my particular case, if I had distracted myself by getting a quick-fix, adenaline high from simply replacing my deceased horse with a new dream horse, I would have missed all the empowering Evolutionary Consciousness.

Hence, intensifying my "Infinite Intelligence." As Napoleon Hill describes it, is the all-pervading intelligence of the universe -- a boundless source of ideas, inspiration, and guidance. It communicates through the subconscious and imagination, and it responds when desire, faith, and action are aligned.

"The univers is asking... Show me your new vibration, I will show you miracles." ~ Solancha

Bottom line: I ended up embodying the best of both worlds of the Human Mind. The World of Logic and The World of Mysticism. The Power of Fantasy becoming REAL.

Not only did I get radical wisdom, I miraculously magnetized my next DREAM Horse, Arion Vrai!!!!

#BelieveInMIRACLES #EmpoweringYouThroughUs

After snapshot of the transformaional healing through the death of my beloved purebred Andalusian performance horse, "Angel." It's profoundly more than what meets the eye.....

Part 1 was recorded just 3 days after Angel passed on July 3, 2024. Now, 13 months later, I share all of the empowering wisdom in hopes of empowering you through loss....True sustainable healing is an UNconscious, subconscious and conscious phenomenon!!!!!

My chosen Godmother, Marilyn joins me as we discuss the mental, emotional and spiritual wisdom to be gained when bravely facing our deepest emotional torment in times of the death of not only a DREAM, but of a loved one.

When we experience a heartbreaking loss the last thing our brain wants is to look for the #Enlightenment or #Empowerment or #BlessingsInDisguise ~ Why? Becaues our brain has an emergency override system that causes logic to temporarily trump emotional heartache. The brain is designed to prioritize the ability to function over emotional processing.

If we don't process our emotions they become repressed, meaning unconscious to us, feeding into a cycle of being driven by the need to unknowingly mask pain instead of dealing and healing it.

This is why elevating and evolving consciousness matters!

It's a conscious choice to take the time to feel and process our emotions which brings healing and empowerment. Ultimately, feelings of peace and meaningfulness to enrich our Sense-of-Self, our heart, soul and spirit....

If we don't allow ourselves to dig deeper into the inner workings of the human mind for the sake of self-understanding, acceptance and love, we end up reinforcing the mental patterns that instill pain. The scariest part is that it's NOT obvious.

The solution and remedy is to look for what you can't see....for the miracles are actually happening in real time!!!!! Listen to this podcast as I share my journey and why digging deep creates a whole new inner-world..........Fulfilling happiness and gratitude stem from within.

#KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs