Episodes

  • 82. It Sucks To Be a Sex Addict, As You Will Be Judged By Others

    82. It Sucks To Be a Sex Addict, As You Will Be Judged By Others
    Oct 30 2025
    Sex addiction sucks because it's the one you’re not allowed to have. You can struggle with most every other problem… but not this problem. Compassion will be hard to come by given the trauma you will cause your wife and family. Society has its view of what a “sex addict” is. A pervert, a freak, a weirdo, someone who is unsafe to have around kids, etc. And, there certainly can be career consequences. I personally have experienced a loss of professional opportunities due to publicly announcing what my wife and I were dealing with. It sucks to have a problem that people will not let you have. And, because compassion and understanding will be in rare supply, you need to find a peer-support group that you can lean on through this. Otherwise, relapse is a realistic possibility. If you’re a successful guy looking for a group of other high-achieving men to recover with, head to my website: successfuladdict.com
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    16 mins
  • 81. What is Gaslighting? And, How Betrayed Partners and Sex Addicts Can Navigate The Harm It Causes A Relationship

    81. What is Gaslighting? And, How Betrayed Partners and Sex Addicts Can Navigate The Harm It Causes A Relationship
    Oct 25 2025
    Sarah Morales is the founder of Deconstructing Gaslighting. In this episode, we define gaslighting. What it is, what it isn’t, and what to do about it. Sex addicts often gaslight their partners before, during, and after discovery. Recovering from this form of deception can be very challenging for betrayed partners, especially in the midst of betrayal trauma. In this episode, Sarah and I deconstruct gaslighting in a way that both sex addicts and betrayed partners can understand. We also provide couples with some clarity on how to move forward. If you want to discover more about Sarah's work, visit her website heret: https://www.sarahmoralescoaching.com/ If you’re a high-achiever, executive, or entrepreneur looking for a recovery group full of like-minded men. Visit my website at successfuladdict.com
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    57 mins
  • 80. Are My Sex Addiction Groups Full Of Narcissists?

    80. Are My Sex Addiction Groups Full Of Narcissists?
    Oct 20 2025
    It's a common assumption… “Roland, don't you think that these men need to hang out with men who are NOT like them? Don’t you think this adds to their ego and narcissistic traits?” No… I strongly disagree. In fact, the fastest way for them to get over their superiority complex, grandiosity, and narcissistic traits is to be around men who are struggling in the same way. Yes, these traits are largely responsible for their sex addiction. Therefore, they need to be a HUGE focus in their recovery. This episode discusses why it’s essential to prioritize addressing these unwanted traits at the top of your recovery list. If you are a high-achiever looking for a recovery group full of like-minded men, visit our website to apply: www.successfuladdict.com
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    9 mins
  • 79. Her Story: How a Father’s Sex Addiction Impacted The Family

    79. Her Story: How a Father’s Sex Addiction Impacted The Family
    Oct 15 2025
    This episode is much different than anything I’ve done. It’s a personal story of the pain that sex addiction can bring to a family. Kendra agreed to share her story with my audience. As you will clearly hear in her voice, sharing this was not easy for her. Sex addiction and betrayal trauma are more than just mental health diagnoses… these are people's lives that are being affected. Kendra shared her story here to help those who have been and are currently being affected by sex addiction and the pain that follows discovery. Her hope was that this episode might help families out there who are feeling similar pain. You’re not alone. And, there’s a way forward. I honor Kendra for sharing this deeply personal story with us. And, I ask that when you listen to this episode, you hold it in an honorable and respectful place. If your family has been personally affected by sex addiction or compulsive sexual behavior, Kendra is a therapist and may be able to help you. Send me an email if you’d like to be connected to her.
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 78. Entitlement, Narcissism, Grandiosity, and Superiority Complexes. Do These Traits Describe A Sex Addict?

    78. Entitlement, Narcissism, Grandiosity, and Superiority Complexes. Do These Traits Describe A Sex Addict?
    Oct 10 2025
    Successful men with a sex addiction often get criticized for their entitlement, grandiosity, or their superiority complex. But, where do these traits come from? I’ll be the first to admit that my sex addiction stems from these traits. But, I wasn’t always that way. How did this happen to me? I have my theory. And, I present it in this podcast. I would love to hear your perception of WHY men are becoming entitled and develop the desire to be superior. Head to my website to send me a message via the contact form: successfuladdict.com If you want to dive deeper into this topic of entitlement, superiority, and attention seeking, read my book. You can find it here on Amazon or Audible for the audiobook: https://a.co/d/dEkZbHC
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    9 mins
  • 77. A Neurological Approach to Sex Addiction Treatment with Laura Childers

    77. A Neurological Approach to Sex Addiction Treatment with Laura Childers
    Oct 5 2025
    In this episode, we introduce a unique approach to sex addiction treatment. Laura Childers uses neuromodulation to help sex addicts and betrayed partners get unstuck. Laura and I talk about how this treatment works, why it works, and who would benefit. On this podcast, Laura talks about what she sees in the brains of addicts, betrayed partners, and high-achieving men. You can find more information about Laura's work and her intensives at https://houstonneurosolutions.com/ If you are a high-achiever looking for a recovery group full of like-minded men, visit my website: https://successfuladdict.com Recovery is different for high-achieving men. Their addiction presents differently, and their recovery will need to cater to these unique thought processes. Visit my website for more information.
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    47 mins
  • 76. Why Did You Become a Sex Addict? And How To Use Your “Why” To Recover

    76. Why Did You Become a Sex Addict? And How To Use Your “Why” To Recover
    Sep 30 2025
    When it comes to sex addiction… your “why” matters. It exposes the perceived value of the behavior that you’re chasing. In my opinion, you cannot be in good recovery until you understand what it is that you need to recover from. While this is called “sex addiction” and “porn addiction,”… it’s rarely about sex or porn. So, what is it about? Listen to this episode to find out what your brain wants. Because sex addiction is so different from person to person, it helps to find a group of men who have a similar addiction to yours that you can recover with. If you are a high achiever, executive, or entrepreneur and you are looking for a group of like-minded men to recover with, visit my website at www.successfuladdict.com
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    19 mins
  • 75. Long-term Sex Addiction Recovery with Marnie Ferree

    75. Long-term Sex Addiction Recovery with Marnie Ferree
    Sep 25 2025
    Sobriety and recovery are two different things. Sobriety is needed before you can truly recover. But can sobriety alone take you the distance? Marnie Ferree is the founder of Bethesda Workshops in Nashville, Tennessee. She speaks to long-term recovery, both from personal and professional experience working with sex and porn addicts. In this episode, she and I discuss the ins and outs of long-term sex addiction recovery. This journey rarely comes without some bumps along the way. But how you navigate these bumps will determine if you relapse or stay on the road to sexual integrity. To learn more about Marnie and her story, visit https://bethesdaworkshops.org/about-us/our-team/marnie/marnies-story/. If you’re looking for a recovery group that can assist in helping you maintain and achieve long-term sex addiction recovery, visit my website here: successfuladdict.com
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    55 mins