Episodes

  • Stonewalling - A Relationship Killer
    Sep 11 2025

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    Dive deep into the concept of 'stonewalling,' the fourth horseman of relationship breakdowns as identified by John Gottman. We discuss the emotional and physiological reasons behind stonewalling, its impact on relationships, and predominantly why men are more prone to it. We also explore strategies and antidotes to counteract this behavior to foster healthier communication and conflict resolution in marriages. With insights from Gottman's research and personal anecdotes, we aim to provide actionable advice to improve relationship dynamics and prevent long-term dissatisfaction.


    00:00 Introduction and Marriage Counseling

    00:21 The Four Horsemen of Divorce

    01:29 Understanding Stonewalling

    03:49 The Impact of Stonewalling

    04:59 Why Stonewalling Happens

    08:51 Antidotes to Stonewalling

    10:11 Recognizing and Addressing Stonewalling

    12:31 Personal Anecdotes and Emotional Awareness

    13:30 The Pursuer's Perspective

    18:40 Final Thoughts and Practical Tips

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    21 mins
  • Best Sports and Physical Activities for Longevity
    Aug 28 2025

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    Discuss the latest research on how different sports and physical activities impact longevity. They explore a study from the British Journal of Sports Medicine that identifies racket sports, swimming, and aerobics as top activities for reducing mortality. The hosts delve into why these sports are so effective, emphasizing the roles of social connection, cardiovascular benefits, and cognitive engagement. They also touch on the importance of consistent exercise and the benefits of strength training, offering practical advice for incorporating these activities into your routine to enhance lifespan and quality of life.


    00:00 Introduction to the Rich Life Podcast

    00:13 The Impact of Sports on Longevity

    01:38 Key Findings from the Study

    02:46 The Benefits of Racket Sports

    04:47 Why Racket Sports Are Effective

    10:13 Swimming: A Low-Impact Lifesaver

    13:53 Group Activities and Their Social Benefits

    20:32 Strength Training and Longevity

    22:13 Exercise Recommendations for Longevity

    24:19 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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    26 mins
  • Balance Wealth and Health with These Proven Mindsets & Habits!
    Aug 14 2025

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    We delve into the interconnectedness of wealth, health, and personal development. They emphasize the importance of mindset and consistent habits that contribute to success in both financial and physical health. Key topics include the principles of consistency over intensity, delayed gratification, risk management, automation, mindfulness, and regular reviews. The hosts offer actionable advice to help listeners apply successful financial habits to their health and vice versa, encouraging a holistic approach to a rich and fulfilling life.


    00:00 Introduction to the Rich Life Podcast

    00:36 Defining a Holistic Rich Life

    00:59 Mindset and Habits for Success

    02:00 Consistency Beats Intensity

    06:30 The Importance of Delayed Gratification

    09:42 Risk Management and Resilience

    10:59 Automation and Systems for Success

    15:51 Mindful Inputs and Regular Reviews

    20:42 Final Takeaways and Action Items

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    23 mins
  • Navigating Relationship Pitfalls: Understanding Contempt and Its Antidotes
    Jul 31 2025

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    In this episode of the Rich Life Podcast, we delve into critical aspects of relationships, focusing on the concept of 'contempt' as one of the 'Four Horsemen' outlined by the Gottman Institute. The hosts discuss how contempt can escalate conflicts and is a significant predictor of relationship breakdowns. Using a case study of a couple named Lisa and Mark, they explore the detrimental effects of contempt, its signs, and provide practical antidotes such as 'I feel' and 'I need' statements, building a culture of appreciation, and seeking professional help. The episode emphasizes the importance of awareness and intentional efforts to cultivate healthier relationships.


    00:00 Introduction to the Rich Life Podcast

    00:20 Understanding Contempt in Relationships

    00:29 Case Study: Lisa and Mark

    01:11 The Impact of Contempt

    02:49 Identifying Contempt in Relationships

    06:17 Antidotes to Contempt

    07:35 Building a Culture of Appreciation

    08:33 Personal Experiences and Advice

    08:59 The Importance of Professional Help

    17:00 Final Thoughts and Resources

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    19 mins
  • The Spoon and the Oil: Life's Balance Between Achievement and Fulfillment
    Jul 17 2025

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    In this episode, we delve into the ancient fable of 'The Spoon in the Oil,' exploring its deep metaphorical relevance to our modern lives. The story, set in an ancient village, teaches the importance of balancing life's achievements with appreciating its many joys. The hosts discuss how this balance applies to both personal and professional spheres, drawing on their own experiences and reflections. They highlight the significance of not letting financial security obsessions rob you of life's inherent pleasures while also considering the realities of responsibly planning for the future. The discussion becomes a meditation on finding clarity, setting boundaries, and living intentionally. Tune in to hear how they navigate this delicate equilibrium and the practical ways you can apply these insights in your own life.


    00:00 The Spoon in the Oil Story Begins

    01:03 The Wise Man's Challenge

    02:48 The Secret to Life Revealed

    03:16 Applying the Metaphor to Real Life

    04:31 Balancing Achievement and Fulfillment

    08:09 Reflections and Personal Insights

    12:46 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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    13 mins
  • The Power of Vulnerability: Overcoming Walls to Form Deep Connections
    Jul 3 2025

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    In this episode, Po and I discuss the importance of vulnerability, especially among men, and how the professional norm of masking weaknesses can hinder deeper, more authentic connections. We chat about societal expectations, share personal stories, and explore the challenges and benefits of being open and honest. We also touch on our upcoming retreat in Hawaii, where participants can practice vulnerability in a supportive environment. Emphasizing the significance of owning our stories and sharing them, we delve into how vulnerability can lead to profound relationships, whether in networking settings or personal life.


    Introduction to Vulnerability

    The Professional Mask

    Challenges in Building Deep Connections

    Retreats and Vulnerability

    Personal Stories of Vulnerability

    The Power of Sharing

    Overcoming Insecurities

    The Value of Camaraderie

    Taking Risks in New Situations

    Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    11 mins
  • The Hidden Trauma Behind High Achievement: Balancing Success and Well-Being
    Jun 19 2025

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    In this episode of Rich Life, we explore the complex backgrounds of high achievers, discussing how early life traumas and hardships often fuel traits like determination, resilience, and a strong work ethic. We delve into the double-edged sword of success driven by trauma, its psychological ramifications, and the importance of balancing accomplishments with personal fulfillment and social relationships. Learn why some individuals harness adversity to achieve great heights while others struggle, and discover practical insights on fostering healthier mindsets and relationships. Don't miss key discussions on personal stories, coping mechanisms, and the pivotal role of supportive networks.


    00:00 Introduction and Personal Backgrounds

    00:50 Exploring High Achievers' Traits and Origins

    02:29 Outcome-Driven Mindset and Its Implications

    09:07 The Double-Edged Sword of Trauma

    15:03 Personal Development and Overcoming Adversity

    21:05 Reflections on Personal Journeys and Parenting

    23:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    26 mins
  • Mastering Relationship Conflict Resolution with the Gottman Method: A Skit Analysis
    Jun 5 2025

    In this week's podcast, the hosts reenact a common marital conflict skit inspired by the Gottman Institute, focusing on conflict resolution. They examine common points of contention, criticize and defend techniques, and provide tips on improving communication in relationships, such as using 'we' instead of 'you' and 'I feel' statements to deescalate fights. They also debate whether it's best to resolve conflicts before bed or wait until morning. The episode highlights the importance of learning effective conflict resolution for maintaining healthy relationships.


    00:00 Introduction and Skit Setup

    00:53 Reenacting a Common Argument

    01:24 Analyzing the Argument

    03:01 Tips for Better Communication

    06:34 Real-Life Examples and Gottman Method

    11:49 Conflict Resolution Techniques

    16:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    18 mins