What if the patterns that keep us stuck in pain, overwork, or disconnection could finally be healed? I speak with Nicola Beer, an international relationship transformation coach who helps individuals and couples heal from trauma, addiction, and burnout. Nicola shares her personal and professional journey: how she went from struggling in her own relationships to guiding others through profound transformation.

We discuss the hidden emotional wounds behind workaholism, the toll of unhealed trauma, and how burnout is often a sign that something deeper needs attention. Nicola’s compassionate yet practical approach shows us that real healing is possible—and that it starts with self-awareness, self-compassion, and a willingness to rewrite the story we’ve been living.

We explore:

• How unhealed trauma shapes our patterns in love and work
• The connection between addiction (including workaholism) and emotional avoidance
• Practical steps for breaking free from burnout cycles
• Why self-worth is the foundation for lasting relationship change
• The role of daily habits and boundaries in protecting emotional health
• How to approach conversations about change with a partner
• Stories of individuals who rebuilt connection and trust after years of disconnection

Whether you’re navigating a challenging relationship, recovering from burnout, or seeking a path to emotional healing, this episode offers both hope and tangible tools.

Connect with Nicola Beer:

• Website: https://nicolabeer.com
• Podcast: Relationship and Marriage Transformations

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Serena speaks with Betsy Pepine, a best-selling author, speaker, and founder of Pepine Realty, one of the Inc. 5000 Fastest-Growing Private Companies in the USA. Betsy shares her journey from being the “black sheep” in a family of physicians to building a thriving real estate empire — and how embracing her introversion became a superpower rather than a setback.
She also opens up about breaking free from family expectations, the courage to choose authenticity over approval, and how her philosophy of “who, not how” helps her lead and scale as an introverted CEO.

Key Takeaways

• Breaking the Boxes We Inherit

Betsy explores how invisible “boxes” — from family, gender, and culture — shape who we think we’re supposed to be, and how freeing ourselves from them can open the door to real purpose and joy.

• Redefining Introversion

Discover how reading Quiet by Susan Cain helped Betsy see introversion not as a weakness, but as a strength rooted in self-awareness and energy management.

• Boundaries and Authentic Leadership

Betsy shares how honoring her need for downtime has made her a more effective leader — and how setting clear boundaries gives permission for her team to do the same.

• From Corporate Layoff to Entrepreneurial Success

Learn how a layoff and a divorce became the catalysts that propelled Betsy into entrepreneurship and eventually toward national recognition in the real estate industry.

• Introverts in Sales

Contrary to popular belief, introverts can thrive in sales. Betsy explains how empathy, deep listening, and genuine connection are what make clients trust and return.

• Building a Business That Honors Your Energy

Betsy shares her “Who, Not How” philosophy — focusing on what you do best and delegating what drains your energy. For early-stage entrepreneurs, she offers creative ways to build support, from bartering to joining mastermind groups.

Memorable Quotes

“When you say yes to something, you’re saying no to something else. If I said yes to being a physician, I was saying no to me.” — Betsy Pepine

“Introverts are not less than — we just derive energy from within.” — Betsy Pepine

“If we’re not going to stand up for ourselves, how can we expect others to?” — Betsy Pepine

“Embrace where you are on the spectrum — honor it, and set boundaries so you can operate at your best.” — Betsy Pepine

Connect with Betsy Pepine
Website: betsypepine.com
Social Media: @betsypepine on all major platforms
Book: Breaking Boxes — available via her website


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Meet Nic Nierras, founder of the Worthy, Authentic, and Abundant Method — a framework that merges quantum consciousness, spiritual science, and somatic reprogramming to help people unlock their highest potential.

A former chartered accountant turned transformation catalyst, Nic shares how a life-altering divorce, a global pandemic, and an awakening of self-worth propelled her from the corporate world into a journey of soul-aligned entrepreneurship.

We explore what it truly means to detach self-worth from achievement, navigate the tension between control and surrender, and embrace the beauty of living life with no regrets. Nic also opens up about the importance of feminine energy, cycles, and reclaiming our worth in a world that prizes productivity over presence.

Key Themes & Takeaways

• Redefining success: How Nic’s Asian upbringing shaped her drive — and how she redefined success on her own terms.
• From corporate to consciousness: The pivotal moment that led her to leave accountancy and embrace spiritual entrepreneurship.
• The illusion of control: Letting go of rigid timelines and trusting divine timing.
• Feminine and masculine energy balance: Why burnout is often a symptom of ignoring our natural rhythms.
• Living without regrets: What it means to choose courage over comfort and purpose over predictability.
• Collapsing timelines: The quantum concept of becoming your future self now.

Memorable Quotes

“If I’m not attaining something, that doesn’t mean I’m not worth anything.” — Nic Nierras

“Our intuition is the higher intelligence that is always there to guide us — if only we take time to listen.” — Nic Nierras

Connect with Nic Nierras

• Website: https://thenicnierraswholisticlifestyle.com/
• LinkedIn: Nicolette Nierras
• Podcast: Worthy, Authentic, and Abundant
  
  

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Serena Low speaks with Kanika Vasudeva, a Radiant Empowerment Coach and Akashic Records Reader who helps spiritual entrepreneurs, leaders, and changemakers break through invisible ceilings and embody more — more radiance, more freedom, and more soul.

Kanika opens up about the personal tragedy that became the turning point in her journey — the stillbirth of her daughter — and how it awakened her to the vastness of life, the illusion of control, and the unconditional love of Spirit. Through her story, she shares how she learned to find peace, forgiveness, and purpose by connecting with her soul and understanding her soul contracts.

Together, Serena and Kanika explore how our deepest pain can become the portal to transformation, how to free ourselves from “good girl” conditioning, and why surrendering to the universal flow allows us to live with more authenticity, joy, and trust.

This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken — it’s about coming home to who you truly are.

Key Themes & Takeaways

• Turning Pain into Awakening – Kanika shares how the loss of her daughter became her soul’s wake-up call and how pain, when faced with grace, becomes a teacher of light.
• Soul Contracts & Akashic Records – What they are, how they influence our relationships and life experiences, and how understanding them helps us heal at the deepest level.
• The “Good Girl” Conditioning – How cultural expectations to please and conform can keep women trapped in unhappiness, and what it means to choose your own happiness as an act of courage and love.
• Healing Triggers and Inner Children – Why we get triggered by others, how every person in our life mirrors what needs to be healed, and how to reclaim lost energy by meeting our younger selves with compassion.
• The Power of Surrender – Letting go of control, trusting the universal flow, and allowing life to unfold with ease and alignment.
• Grounding Practice for Self-Love – Kanika guides listeners through a soothing earthing meditation to release heavy emotions and reconnect to unconditional love and safety.
  

Memorable Quotes

“Our first duty, our first karma, is to ourselves — to live our purpose and choose happiness.” — Kanika Vasudeva

“Healing begins when we stop blaming others and look within. Everyone in our life is a mirror showing us where we need to grow.” — Kanika Vasudeva

“The more we heal ourselves, the more energy and light we bring back into our lives.” — Kanika Vasudeva

Connect with Kanika Vasudeva

• Website:artoflifecenter.com
• Book a session: artoflifecenter.com/call
• Instagram / LinkedIn:@kanikaenergycoach

Connect with Serena Low

• Newsletter:The Visible Introvert
• Website:serenalow.com.au

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In this deeply reflective conversation, Louis Kim shares his journey from chronic burnout and emotional numbness to becoming a heart-centered leader who blends business acumen with soulful awareness.

Born to Korean immigrants in the United States, Louis grew up navigating two worlds, channeling discipline and drive into building and exiting over $50 million in businesses across healthcare, real estate, and technology. Yet beneath his success was exhaustion — until he chose to pause, heal, and redefine leadership on his own terms.

Now as the founder of Yusan Capital, Louis leads with values of principled equity, radical collaboration, and abundant prosperity. In this episode, he opens up about how introversion, curiosity, and stillness shaped his leadership philosophy — and why the ability to sit in silence can be the ultimate power move.

Key Takeaways

• The evolution from introvert to expansive leader: How Louis reframed his identity and learned to use curiosity as a catalyst for growth.
• Reclaiming stillness as a strength: Why silence and observation are powerful tools in leadership and negotiation.
• The long game of mastery: Lessons from bodybuilding, business, and life — success is built one rep, one decision at a time.
• Immigrant grit and generational influence: How his mother’s courage and quiet strength became a blueprint for his entrepreneurial spirit.
• Creating safety in collaboration: How radical honesty and shared intent allow diverse personalities to thrive in business and teams.
• Quiet leadership in action: Redefining what strength, authority, and impact look like for introverts and reflective leaders.

Connect with Louis Kim

• Website: loukim.com
• Instagram / TikTok: @partsoflou
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louis-k-3a8539140/

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In this insightful episode of The Quiet Warrior Podcast, I speak with Susan Barber — a leadership visibility coach, former Fortune 500 executive, and author of The Visibility Factor and the upcoming Your Journey to Visibility Workbook.

Susan shares her powerful journey from sitting quietly in the back of corporate meeting rooms to becoming a visible, influential leader who helps others do the same. Drawing from 25 years at Kraft Heinz, she opens up about overcoming imposter syndrome, reframing self-doubt, and learning to take small, consistent actions toward visibility — all while staying true to her introverted nature.

If you’ve ever wondered how to be seen and heard without being loud, this conversation will inspire you to start your own journey — one micro-action at a time.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

• Evolving from invisible to visible: how Susan went from hiding in the back of meetings to sitting confidently at the executive table.
• Reframing imposter syndrome: why feeling unsure can actually be a sign of growth — and how humility can work in your favor.
• Preparation over panic: how introverts can replace the fear of “freezing up” with calm readiness and self-trust.
• Feedback as fuel for growth: Susan’s practical advice for exploring — not fearing — feedback, and using it as a leadership superpower.
• Little experiments, big impact: how to build confidence through small, strategic steps instead of giant leaps.
• Owning your narrative: why it’s essential to define how you want others to perceive you — and how to start embodying that version of yourself today.

Key Takeaways:

• Visibility isn’t about self-promotion; it’s about sharing value and contributing meaningfully.
• Every interaction is an opportunity for visibility — from meetings to everyday conversations.
• Being visible can start with something as small as offering help, asking a thoughtful question, or sharing your team’s wins.
• You were hired for a reason. Your voice and ideas matter.
• Confidence grows from trusting yourself, trying new things, and staying curious.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Visibility Factor
• Your Journey to Visibility Workbook (upcoming)
• Free resource: The Introvert’s Guide to Visibility and Influence in the Workplace

Connect with Susan on LinkedIn

Visit Susan’s website: www.susanmbarber.com


Quote Highlights

“Every interaction is an opportunity for visibility — don’t waste it.”

“You were hired for a reason. You have a voice that matters.”

“Sometimes visibility begins with one small, bold move.”

Connect with Me
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How do introverts and quiet achievers move past shyness, own their accomplishments, and confidently present themselves in their careers?

In this episode of The Quiet Warrior Podcast, I sit down with Amy Adler, President of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts, Certified Master Resume Writer, and author of Courageous Career Change: Fearlessly Earn the Executive Role You Deserve.

Amy shares her personal journey of overcoming stage fright, the surprising truth about why speaking to a roomful of people sometimes feels easier than one-on-one conversations, and how introverts can prepare for career success by documenting and owning their achievements. With compassion and clarity, she explains how she helps clients—often quiet achievers—see their brilliance reflected back to them through resumes and career stories that feel both authentic and empowering.

Whether you’re preparing for a job search, an annual performance review, or simply learning to speak about your value with confidence, Amy’s insights will inspire you to step forward with courage and clarity

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The difference between introversion and shyness—and how practice and exposure can shift your confidence.
  
• Why many introverts find public speaking easier than small talk or one-on-one conversations.
  
• The challenges quiet achievers face in “boasting” about themselves, and how to reframe this as sharing the truth.
  
• Amy’s process for creating psychological safety so clients can tell their authentic career stories.
  
• The C-A-R (Challenge, Action, Results) framework and how introverts can use it to capture their accomplishments in real time.
  
• Why documenting your career wins regularly is essential—and how it can prevent panic when opportunities arise.
  
• The pitfalls of AI-generated resumes and why your authentic voice matters most.
  
• A powerful reminder: people aren’t scrutinizing you as much as you think—so share your achievements, because no one else will.
  
  

About Amy Adler

Amy Adler is the President of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts, a Certified Master Resume Writer, Certified Executive Resume Master, and Nationally Certified Online Profile Expert. She has won awards at the annual Toast of the Resume Writing Industry competition and is the author of Courageous Career Change: Fearlessly Earn the Executive Role You Deserve. Amy is passionate about helping executives and professionals craft authentic, compelling resumes and career portfolios that reflect their true value.

Connect with Amy:

• Website:fivestrengths.com
• LinkedIn:Amy L. Adler

Introvert Resource:

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What if money wasn’t just about numbers, but a mirror reflecting your inner world? In this conversation, I sit down with Monica Kaufman, trauma-informed financial planner and founder of Harmony Wealth Academy, to explore how our personal histories, traumas, and inherited money stories shape the way we save, spend, and invest.

Monica shares why she believes that mastering money begins with healing what’s inside. From financial imposter syndrome to the shame many introverts feel about asking for help, Monica offers both compassion and practical wisdom for anyone ready to reclaim control over their financial life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why money is a reflection of our inner emotional state, not just a financial tool
• The hidden connection between trauma, control, and financial abuse
• How financial imposter syndrome keeps high achievers stuck—and what to do about it
• The difference between “earned dopamine” and “bad dopamine” in spending habits
• Why introverts often struggle to ask for financial help and how to build confidence
• Practical steps to rewrite old money stories and create affirmations that work
• The role of micro-steps and community support in achieving lasting financial change
  
  

About Monica Kaufman

Monica Kaufman is a trauma-informed financial planner and the founder of Harmony Wealth Academy. She helps high-earning professionals—especially women—gain confidence and clarity in their money decisions without shame or overwhelm. Through her academy, she teaches not just the American financial system, but also the mindset shifts necessary for lasting financial freedom.

Connect with Monica:

Website: harmonywealthacademy.com

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