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Former athlete turned pastor Sam Gonzalez unpacks what it really means to surrender your life to God. From growing up in a broken household to placing identity in sports, Sam shares how faith became real — not just a routine.

✝️ Topics We Cover:

Finding identity beyond sports and statistics

The difference between belief and surrender

Healing father wounds through Christ

Wrestling with God (Genesis 32)

What 1 Corinthians 9 says about discipline and faith

Being forgiven even when you feel unworthy

Chapters:
00:00 – Meet Sam Gonzales
01:00 – Childhood, Faith, and a Divided Household
03:00 – Belief vs. Surrender to God
06:00 – First Encounter with the Holy Spirit
10:00 – Identity Crisis After Injury
13:00 – The Church Conference That Changed Everything
16:00 – Wrestling with Past, Forgiveness, and Identity
21:00 – Finding Peace Beyond Performance
24:00 – The High School Hockey Game That Changed Everything
30:00 – Dealing with Anger and Healing from Family Wounds
34:00 – The Power of Forgiveness in Christ
38:00 – Hebrews 10:14 and the Weight of Grace
41:00 – Why Church Isn't a Building — It’s the Relationship
45:00 – Genesis 32 & 1 Corinthians 9 Explained
48:00 – The Purpose Behind Kingdom Athletes Podcast
52:00 – Final Message to Anyone Struggling with Identity

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In this episode, filmmaker and business owner Brian Kuenn joins Paul Martinez for an open exchange about faith, fatherhood, and finding purpose in chaos. From Best Buy coworkers to family men and creators, the two reconnect to explore questions many men are silently asking:

Why do we drift from faith?
Can success and spirituality coexist?
How do we lead our families when we feel lost ourselves?

Brian shares how he balances business, belief, and burnout as a new father while running Kuenn Productions with his wife. Paul opens up about spiritual doubt, judgment, and his journey back to clarity.

🎧 Topics Include:

The “drifter” mindset from Outwitting the Devil

The role of distractions in spiritual life

How men lead (or get lost) in fatherhood and business

Breaking down storytelling and film structure

Daily habits that keep you spiritually and mentally grounded

0:00 - Reconnecting & Old Best Buy Days
3:05 - Why So Many People Drift from Faith
7:30 - Idolatry, Distractions & The Phone in Our Pocket
13:50 - Paul’s Dream of Walking on Water
18:00 - The Tension Between Obedience & Enjoyment
21:10 - Hypocrisy in Modern Christianity
26:20 - David’s Story & Grace in the Bible
30:00 - Faith, Chaos, and Fatherhood
35:00 - Study Bibles, YouTube Sermons & The Bible Project
38:30 - Building a Business with Your Spouse
43:00 - Turning Hobby into Career: Short Films & Cinematics
46:30 - Storytelling 101: Conflict, Action, Resolution
49:00 - Final Reflections on Faith, Creativity & Growth

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In this episode of The Open Exchange with Paul Martinez, Tyler Gonzales returns to share the raw truth behind his transformation from a struggling young business owner to a community leader balancing faith, family, sobriety, and success.

We dive deep into Tyler's personal manifesto — a self-written guide that helps him stay grounded through the chaos of fatherhood, business ownership, and past trauma. Tyler opens up about facing alcohol abuse, burnout, and criticism, while building TMG Disaster Services into one of the most trusted names in emergency plumbing and mitigation services.

We discuss:

How to lead others by first leading yourself

The danger of chasing dopamine through money or substances

What it means to be a present father while working 20-hour days

Using faith and mindset shifts to rebuild from setbacks

The power of daily habits, mentors, and self-discipline

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, father, or someone on a journey of self-discovery, this episode will challenge you to go deeper, stay consistent, and redefine what success truly means.

0:00 – Writing a Personal Manifesto
2:00 – Struggling with Faith & Alignment
4:45 – Detaching Success from Money
7:00 – The Importance of Mental Health in Leadership
10:00 – What Tyler’s Daily Routine Looks Like Now
12:30 – Building a Team That Can Operate Without You
14:00 – Balancing Family, Fatherhood & Business
17:00 – Getting Honest About Mistakes & Alcohol Abuse
21:00 – Facing Yourself: The Power of Reflection
25:00 – Kids, Legacy & the Myth of Work-Life Balance
30:00 – Why Tyler’s Still Pushing Himself Hard
34:30 – Mentors, Systems & Staying Grounded
38:00 – The Role of Faith & Spiritual Health
41:00 – Final Thoughts on Growth, Branding & Impact



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Men are silently battling pain—and this episode unpacks why that has to change.

Jordan Smith "Smitty", host of Daily Dimensions Podcast and a mental health advocate, shares his personal story of father wounds, faith, and forgiveness. We talk about trauma, therapy, grief, the impact of mentors, and his mission to get 500 men into therapy by 2030.

🎧 In this raw and emotional conversation, we explore:
– Growing up without a father
– How unresolved trauma shapes adulthood
– Why therapy isn’t enough without action
– The purpose behind the Men’s Mental Health Cookout 2025
– Forgiveness when you never get an apology

📍 The Men's Mental Health Cookout
🗓️ July 19, 2025 | 3:00 PM - 6:30 PM📍 129, Bull Hill Lane, West Haven, CT
🎟️ Tickets at jordanspeaking.com

00:00 - Intro
01:00 - Jordan's Journey
04:30 - Growing Up in Bridgeport
09:00 - The Father Wound & Anger
17:00 - Forgiveness Without an Apology
22:00 - Starting a Podcast During Grief
33:00 - Mentorship & Legacy
41:00 - The Mental Health Cookout Vision
47:00 - Final Reflections

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In this episode of The Open Exchange, Paul Martinez sits down with Kevin Power, a veteran home inspector and founder of Sunrise Home Inspections, to unpack the overlooked truths behind real estate purchases.

With over 16 years of experience, Kevin has seen it all—from rushed decisions and waived inspections to costly oversights that haunt homeowners for years. Together, they discuss:

The emotional trap buyers fall into

Why home inspections are essential in today’s housing market

What most people get wrong about roofs, plumbing, and maintenance

How to balance confidence and caution in any big purchase

Whether you're buying your first home or advising clients as a realtor or insurance agent, this episode is a masterclass in protecting what matters most—your investment and your peace of mind.

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00:00 – Intro: Are We the Bad Guys in Real Estate?
02:00 – Kevin’s First Inspection: What Went Wrong
05:00 – Why Home Inspections Still Matter in 2025
08:00 – Buyers Skipping Steps: The Hidden Cost
11:00 – Roof Age, Insurance, and Industry Shifts
15:30 – Attention Spans & Education vs. Advising
19:00 – Avoiding Costly Mistakes as a Buyer
23:00 – Paul’s Real-Life $1,500 Plumbing Lesson
28:00 – What Makes a Good Home Inspector
32:00 – Starting Sunrise: Confidence & Risk
37:00 – Tech, AI, and What Kevin Refuses to Automate
41:00 – Would You Let Your Kid Buy This House?
45:00 – Realtor Pressure & Waiving Inspections
50:00 – Final Thoughts: Protect the Buyer, Protect the Dream



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In this episode, Paul talks with professional bowler and father of three, Matt Brockett, about the hidden trauma that shaped his youth — and the sport that saved his life.

Matt shares how childhood abuse led him to bowling as a way to escape, and how years later, fatherhood, therapy, and faith helped him find healing. From competing in PBA events to building his coaching brand, Matt's story is one of resilience, accountability, and growth.

Topics covered:

• Childhood trauma and survival
• Using bowling as therapy and motivation
• The role of fatherhood in healing
• Building R&B Bowling
• Vulnerable reflections on forgiveness and personal growth

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Kevin Mace, known as the "Mortgage Magician," sits down with Paul to reflect on 21+ years in the mortgage industry. From surviving the 2008 housing crash to uncovering an undiagnosed gluten allergy and ADHD diagnosis, Kevin opens up about the highs, lows, and life lessons that reshaped his personal and professional journey. This conversation is real, relatable, and packed with insight about resilience, people-first business, and personal reinvention.

🎧 Topics:

Subprime crash & mortgage ethics

ADHD and mental health in business

Life pivots, parenting, and purpose

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In this episode of The Open Exchange, Realtor, Broker, and Content Creator Rob Wallace joins the show to talk about the unseen struggles behind success. From a childhood spent moving internationally to facing devastating personal loss, Rob shares how discipline, faith, and self-growth reshaped his life. The conversation touches on building mental toughness, overcoming distractions, redefining success, and navigating today's noisy world with purpose. This raw and open discussion offers a refreshing look at what it truly means to grow, persevere, and lead with intention.

Connect with Rob:
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Email: Robwallacere @gmail.com

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Chapters:
00:00 - Welcoming Rob
03:00 - Rob’s Early Life: Growing Up Around the World
08:30 - Learning Hustle Early: Becoming the Man of the House
14:00 - The Real Impact of Loss and Grief
20:30 - Fitness, Discipline, and the Power of 75 Hard
27:00 - Faith Journey: Finding God Again
34:00 - Blocking Out the Noise: Media, Politics, and Distractions
41:30 - Redefining Success and Freedom
48:00 - Entrepreneurship and Authenticity in Content Creation
53:00 - Final Reflections: Discipline, Faith, and Staying Rooted

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