In this essential and honest episode, Cat and Yvette—both survivors of childhood domestic violence—confront the reality of abuse, the lasting impact of trauma, and the personal work required to finally break the cycle.

They define domestic violence (DV) as much more than just physical abuse; it includes a wide spectrum of harm like coercion, financial control, and emotional abuse. They discuss the insidiousness of the cycle of abuse, including the love-bombing phase that keeps survivors trapped.

This conversation offers deep insight into why survivors sometimes gravitate toward chaotic relationships, showing how that drama can feel 'normal' to a nervous system raised in it.

The hosts share the powerful tools they used to heal:

• Forgiveness as Release: Understanding that forgiveness is about releasing the burden the trauma holds on you, not justifying the abuser's actions.

• Building Strength: Investing in personal growth to build self-esteem and self-love. They stress that becoming strong makes you less likely to attract abusers.

• Healing the Scars: Viewing recovery as an ongoing process of "peeling back the layers" and repairing old wounds.

If you are a survivor or currently experiencing a controlling relationship, this episode offers validation, hope, and the steps you need to move From Pain to Power.

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Are you tired of feeling stuck, frustrated, or like your life is dictated by old pain? This episode is your guide to taking back control by changing the conversation happening in your head!

Yvette and Cat dive deep into how your thoughts and belief systems are the single biggest factor that moulds your experiences and creates your reality.

In this episode, you will discover:

• The Power of a 1% Shift: Learn how changing your belief or thought by just 1% can dramatically change your life.

• The Cause & Effect of Karma: We redefine "karma" not as destiny, but as the rebound effect from your environment based on what you think and believe about yourself. Your thoughts ARE your karma.

• The Reticular Activating System (RAS): Understand the science behind "what you focus on is what you see"—and how this system is currently mirroring your negative self-talk.

• Breaking the Thought Spiral: Learn the actionable steps to audit your beliefs and ask the crucial question: "Does this thought serve me?"

• Moving Beyond Fear: How to cultivate the mindset of expectation over belief to ensure you reach your goals.

• The Importance of Joy: Why true growth happens in the joy of the doing, and why coming from a place of "want" signals lack.

Your life is totally in your control. It's time to stop the thought spiral and start living the life you deserve!

What's your biggest takeaway from this conversation? Let us know in the comments!

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• (00:00:00) - Introduction and Exciting Updates from New Zealand
• (00:03:13) - The Power of Thoughts and Beliefs
• (00:06:09) - Overcoming Negative Thinking Patterns
• (00:09:05) - The Role of Environment and Associates
• (00:12:09) - Expectations vs. Beliefs in Achieving Goals
• (00:15:05) - The Cycle of Change and Personal Growth
• (00:18:04) - Embracing Change and Adjusting Mindsets
• (00:26:31) - The Power of Self-Reflection
• (00:28:07) - Understanding Karma and Its Impact
• (00:31:04) - The Role of Self-Talk in Personal Growth
• (00:33:56) - The Importance of Accountability
• (00:36:48) - Cultivating a Fertile Mindset
• (00:40:16) - Embracing Change and Overcoming Fear
• (00:45:02) - The Pain of Growth and Self-Discovery

• (00:00:00) - Understanding Deep-Seated Hurt and Trauma
• (00:03:11) - The Impact of Trauma on Life
• (00:06:16) - Moving Beyond Trauma: Tools and Strategies
• (00:09:09) - The Role of Support in Healing
• (00:12:09) - Recognizing and Changing Negative Thought Patterns
• (00:15:13) - The Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth
• (00:18:09) - Breaking Free from the Past
• (00:21:08) - Living Authentically Beyond Trauma
• (00:24:49) - Understanding Trauma and Its Impact
• (00:26:11) - Awareness and Self-Reflection
• (00:27:45) - Coping Mechanisms and Dysfunction
• (00:29:07) - The Journey of Healing
• (00:30:40) - Reframing Trauma and Forgiveness
• (00:33:08) - Creating New Pathways for Growth
• (00:34:51) - Self-Care and Compassion
• (00:36:48) - Setting Intentions and Visualization
• (00:38:24) - The Importance of Compassion
• (00:42:16) - Forgiveness as a Healing Tool