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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

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 SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.Copyright 2020 The Blackson Group LLC Alternative & Complementary Medicine Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success
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  • 403: Real Love vs Trauma Bonding: How To Tell The Difference And Heal

    403: Real Love vs Trauma Bonding: How To Tell The Difference And Heal
    Jun 25 2025

    "Just because it feels intense does not mean it's love. Sometimes it’s simply your wounds shaking hands."

    What if the intense connection you keep chasing… isn’t actually love?

    In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep into the difference between true, soul-aligned love — and trauma bonding disguised as passion. So many of us have been conditioned to equate emotional chaos with chemistry. But real love? It doesn’t spike your anxiety. It soothes it.

    I break down how early wounds shape our patterns in relationships, why we confuse familiarity with fate, and how the nervous system plays a hidden role in who we’re drawn to. I’ll also share personal stories, raw truth, and grounded spiritual insights to help you recognize when you’re stuck in a trauma loop — and how to finally break free.

    If you’ve ever asked:
    “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of relationship?”
    “Why does love feel so exhausting?”
    …this episode will give you clarity — and a path to healing.

    You’ll learn how to rewire your nervous system, reconnect with your inner child, and feel the difference between drama and devotion. This isn’t about blame. It’s about liberation.

    Tune in now and discover what real, healthy, soul-nourishing love actually feels like — and how to stop calling chaos your soulmate.

    Timestamps:

    • (00:03:36) - Why Intensity Isn’t Always Love.
    • (00:06:32) - Nervous System Conditioning: Why We Choose Familiar Pain.
    • (00:09:01) - What a Trauma Bond Really Feels Like.
    • (00:12:07) - The Truth: Trauma Bond ≠ Love.
    • (00:14:10) - Real-Life Story: Kute’s Experience Meeting His Wife.
    • (00:16:44) - How to Recognize Real Love. And What it's not.
    • (00:20:11) - Reparenting: Healing the Inner Child.
    • (00:21:18) - Breaking the Cortisol Loop and Restoring Safety.
    • (00:25:39) - When Ordinary Moments Feel Sacred.

    Some questions I ask:

    • Is the love you feel calming or chaotic?
    • Are you truly in love or addicted to feeling wanted?
    • How can you tell if you’re stuck in a trauma loop disguised as passion?
    • Why does love have to be hard?
    • Is your “type” truly your preference or just your nervous system’s conditioning?

    In this episode, you will learn about:

    • How to recognize the difference between real love and trauma bonding to stop confusing emotional chaos for a soul connection.
    • Why intense chemistry isn't always true love and how your nervous system may be drawn to familiar pain.
    • The key signs that you're trapped in a trauma loop and how to break free from toxic relationship patterns.
    • What secure, grounded love feels like, so you can attract healthy, lasting relationships.
    • How to reparent your inner child to heal emotional wounds and stop choosing emotionally unavailable partners.
    • Powerful tools to calm your nervous system and create the safety needed to experience real intimacy.

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    • Resources with Kute Blackson:
    • Kute’s Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com

    • Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com
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    29 mins
  • 402: Debra Silverman on How to Align with Your Soul’s Blueprint and Change Your Destiny

    402: Debra Silverman on How to Align with Your Soul’s Blueprint and Change Your Destiny
    Jun 17 2025
    “You can evolve your destiny. That’s why we study astrology, to take the high road of your nature.” What if the reason you're stuck, frustrated, or forcing life… isn’t because something’s wrong with you — but because you’re out of alignment with your soul’s true design? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I’m joined by renowned astrologer, psychotherapist, and spiritual teacher Debra Silverman, author of I Don’t Believe in Astrology. Together, we explore how astrology isn’t about superstition or prediction — it’s about gaining deep permission to be who you were always meant to be. Debra breaks down how your rising sign reveals the keys to your destiny, the real difference between fate and free will, and what happens when you ignore your soul’s contract. We talk about the signs of misalignment, why burnout and confusion are often spiritual wake-up calls, and how reconnecting with your unique energetic blueprint can unlock greater clarity, peace, and purpose. This conversation will give you a radically compassionate lens to understand yourself and others. You’ll walk away with practical insights into how to stop chasing, forcing, and second-guessing—and instead start trusting your inner compass, living in sync with divine timing, and aligning with the life your soul intended. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing everything “right” but something still feels off… this episode is for you. Timestamps: (00:01:42) - Debra’s background and her new book: I Don’t Believe in Astrology.(00:03:30) - What is astrology, and how much of life is destined?(00:04:30) - Kute’s full moon birth chart reading live on air.(00:07:00) - Free will vs soul contract explained through the rising sign.(00:14:50) - Understanding the Saturn Return and its role in destiny.(00:19:50) - Navigating tragedy and suffering (Gaza, illness, injustice).(00:23:01) - Why some people succeed and others don’t, destiny vs discipline.(00:26:10) - How to activate your destiny line practically.(00:35:00) - Debra's magical story of meeting Sting and trusting intuition.(00:38:30) - Kute shares how intuition led him to meet his wife.(00:41:55) - If you feel lost: practical actions to realign with your soul.(00:43:55) - Debra’s honest astrological forecast for the future of humanity.(00:46:00) - Debra’s school and how you can learn to read your chart. Some Questions I Ask: What exactly is astrology, and how much does it define our lives?Can you change your destiny, or is it fixed?How can someone know they’re on their soul’s path?Is suffering (like illness or global tragedy) predestined?What separates people who succeed from those who don’t?Can you shift your timeline?What role does discipline play in spiritual evolution? In This Episode, You Will Learn: How your birth chart reveals the keys to your personality, purpose, and prosperity.Which parts of your life are divinely scripted and which are yours to shape with conscious intention.What is the sun, and how your sun and rising signs hold the secret to living with power, purpose, and peace.How to say yes to your divine path, even when it challenges logic or comfort.How consistency, gratitude, and integrity are key to activating your destiny and calling in your abundance.Grounded, practical tools to reconnect with your inner wisdom and open the flow of guidance.A real-world example of what happens when you trust the voice of your soul. LINKS DEBRA SILVERMAN’S URL: https://debrasilvermanastrology.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.comVisit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Free masterclass: Learn the Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attracting the Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com
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    49 mins
  • 401: How to Navigate the Void: When You’re Not Who You Were, But Not Yet Who You’re Becoming

    401: How to Navigate the Void: When You’re Not Who You Were, But Not Yet Who You’re Becoming
    Jun 10 2025

    "You must resist the temptation to go back and to cling to what you know because it's comfortable".

    What do you do when nothing makes sense anymore, when you’ve let go of who you were but haven’t yet become who you’re meant to be?

    In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I explore the void, that sacred, often painful space between life chapters where transformation is quietly unfolding. Maybe you feel stuck, tired, uninspired, or disconnected. You're not broken. You're not lost. You're simply in the space between stories.

    I’ll guide you through how to embrace the unknown, trust the timing of your soul, and stop forcing clarity before it’s ready. The void is not the end, it’s the sacred pause before the beginning.

    Tune in and learn how to navigate the void with grace, surrender, and trust, so you can emerge renewed, realigned, and ready for your next level.

    Timestamps:

    • (00:05:34) - What is the void, and why does it feel so terrifying.
    • (00:07:25) - The ego’s temptation to cling to the familiar.
    • (00:09:47) - The void as a sacred space of transition.
    • (00:12:09) - Differentiating the void from depression, burnout, or failure.
    • (00:15:10) - The void is not a punishment, it’s a portal.
    • (00:17:05) - Why the void is so intense: ego panic, identity loss, warped time.
    • (00:18:08) - The nervous system’s reset and transformation during the void.
    • (00:20:34) - Practical steps to navigate the void: rest, grieve, feel.
    • (00:23:59) - Deepening your spiritual practice during the void.
    • (00:25:37) - The void is not the end, it’s the space before the beginning.

    Some questions I ask:

    • What is the void, and why is it such a sacred yet uncomfortable space?
    • Why do we resist the void, and what happens when we try to rush through it?
    • How can we navigate the void with trust, grace, and spiritual depth?
    • What are the practical steps we can take when we’re “in between” lives?

    In this episode, you will learn about:

    • What “the void” really is, and why it’s one of the most sacred and transformational spaces in your life.
    • Why the void can feel terrifying, confusing, or unproductive, and how to navigate it without losing yourself.
    • How to resist the ego’s urge to cling to the past or rush into action just to feel safe.
    • Why the void is not a punishment or failure, but a powerful pause where your soul rewires and resets.
    • How to honor the emotions that arise in the void, grief, confusion, fatigue, and process them with compassion.
    • A simple 3-minute daily technique Kute uses to rewire the subconscious and raise your vibration.
    • How surrendering to the unknown blows your true self.

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    • Resources with Kute Blackson:
      • Kute’s Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com
      • Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com
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    29 mins

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