Episodes

  • What Happens to Your Money When Love Ends?⎟Ep. 2
    Mar 24 2026

    Nobody wants to think about their relationship ending. But Nefe and Stevie have sat across from enough women caught off guard by the legal and financial reality of a split — and this episode exists so that doesn't happen to you.

    In this episode:

    • The 3-year rule: what it means for de facto couples and why moving in together starts the clock
    • What actually counts as relationship property in NZ — including your KiwiSaver
    • Real stories of women who didn't know the rules until it was too late
    • Stevie gets personal: keeping an investment property with an ex — what worked, what didn't
    • The do's and don'ts of Relationship Property Agreements, and why you need one before you need one
    • Money Mirror: the clients who made Nefe and Stevie proud — and what set them apart
    • Hot Take: why every woman needs financial visibility, even if she trusts her partner completely
    • Cold Truth: if you change nothing, you'll be in exactly the same place in ten years
    • This week's challenge: have a money date with your partner

    This one will hit home. Relationship property is something every NZ woman should understand before she needs it.


    Reach out to us on Instagram @SheOwnsThispodcast

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    28 mins
  • Why Girls Need to Own More of NZ⎟Ep. 1
    Mar 17 2026

    Welcome to She Owns This.

    Stevie and Nefe are financial advisers who believe women should own more of New Zealand — and this show is how they're going to help make that happen.

    The numbers are stark. NZ women want to own property more than men — but they're falling behind.

    In this episode:

    • Why Gen Z women own property at nearly half the rate of Gen Z men — despite wanting it more
    • The income and knowledge barriers holding NZ women back (and how to break through them)
    • Adviser confessions: the unfiltered, anonymous money stories from a decade on the frontlines
    • Hot Take: why investing is way simpler than the finance industry wants you to think
    • Cold Truth: you probably know Elon Musk's net worth better than your own

    This is episode one. This is who they are. And this is why it matters.

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    14 mins