Welcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Patti Britton, who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age.

In this heartfelt conversation, Patty traces the winding path from her “little girl named Patty” to the globally known “Dr. Patty.” She opens up about the matriarchs who modeled sexual confidence, the traumas she survived, and the counter-culture influences that called her to sexology. You’ll hear how writing her memoir became a race against time to preserve her stories, and why she now gifts readers “52 Lessons for Life” drawn from those pages.

Dr. Patti Britton is a nationally board-certified, world recognized Clinical Sexologist, known as the “Mother of Sex Coaching”. She’s the author of hundreds of articles, book chapters, forewords, and five major books in sexology. She is a proud member of the LA writers’ community, having studied Method Writing for over 20 years. She is published in several anthologies with a variety of her stories. Her memoir, Chasing Sex, Wanting Love, Finding Myself was released in 2024 from Balboa Press.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Dr. Patty Britton’s Matriarchal Role Models

· From Trauma to Thriving: Finding an Authentic Sexual Voice

· Why She Wrote Chasing Sex in Her Seventies

· Pleasure Framed as a Fundamental Human Right

· The Five-Level Touch Continuum Explained

· Transcendent Sex vs. “Good Enough” Sex

· Aging, Orgasm, and Embracing New Erotic Scripts

· Tips for Men: Shift From Performance to Sensation

· Keeping Desire Alive Through Novelty and Play

· Patty’s Free “52 Lessons for Life” and Ongoing Legacy

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Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent.

Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films.

In our conversation, Inka opens up about growing up in an Austrian commune that devolved into an authoritarian sex cult. She describes the rigid hierarchy, the separation of children from parents, and the constant pressure to conform to cult-mandated ideas of “free love.” We discuss the lingering impact of early exposure to sexual activity, the leader’s eventual arrest, and the complex process of unraveling trauma, reclaiming agency, and seeking reparations decades later.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Childhood In Authoritarian Sex Cult

· Leader’s Arrest & Commune Collapse

· Processing Trauma Through Therapy

· Documentary Mirror Of Lived Reality

· From Fashion Design To Erotic Filmmaking

· Defining The Female Gaze On Screen

· Consent-Driven, Performer-Led Scenes

· Holistic Porn As Sex Education

· Debunking Porn “Addiction” Myths

· Empowering Women’s Pleasure & Fantasy

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Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration.

In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.

Best known for her contributions to Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, trauma informed,pleasure centric, culturally relevant erotic education is Darshana's sweet spot. Supporting women & queer community, individually or alongside their partners, is her deepest passion She's a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner & Sexological Bodyworker, guiding & serving through her private practice, public speaking & online offerings.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Mindful Masturbation

· Neural Pathways And Habit Loops

· Intentional Rituals For Solo Sex

· Full-Body Touch Before Genitals

· Navigating Boredom And Plateaus

· Sensate Focus Vs. Visual Stimulation

· Fantasy As A Creative Arousal Tool

· Scheduling Familiar And New Practices

· Challenging Inner Critic Narratives

· Pleasure As Personal And Collective Liberation

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