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This week on Rom-Com Rescue, we are diving headfirst into the internet-melting, emotionally devastating, wildly addictive rom-com series Heated Rivalry starring Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie (2025), now streaming on HBO Max.

Hockey rivals.
Secret lovers.
A decade-long slow burn.
One cottage that changed everything.
And yes — some of the most talked-about butts on screen.

We’re breaking down why Heated Rivalry has taken over timelines, group chats, and late-night thoughts — and why this story hits so deeply for so many people.

On the surface, this is a sexy rivals-to-lovers romance between Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov. But underneath? This show taps directly into anxious attachment, avoidant coping, long-distance fantasy, secrecy, and the very human desire to be chosen — fully and openly.

In this episode, Kira and Dr. Isabelle Morley unpack:

• Why long-distance + time creates powerful fantasy bonds
• How secrecy intensifies intimacy (and where it goes wrong)
• The anxious–avoidant push/pull dynamic at the heart of the story
• Why sex can feel like closeness — even when emotional intimacy is missing
• What makes this show feel emotionally safe in a way so many romances don’t

We also talk about:

• Why this story resonated so strongly with women
• What it means to feel wanted vs. chosen
• Healthy vs. unhealthy longing
• Representation without trauma
• And why so many of us are still thinking about the cottage

This is not a recap podcast.
This is a relationship dynamics deep dive — and Heated Rivalry gives us a LOT to work with.

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House swapping, hot drunk Englishman, personal movie trailers, and Mr. Napkinhead!

That's right, we are watching the 2006 rom-com series THE HOLIDAY, with Kate Winslet, Cameron DIaz, Jude Law and Jack Black.

In this episode of RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Isabelle go deep into the cozy chaos of The Holiday—house swaps, emotional avoidance, unrequited “love,” and why Jasper is the human equivalent of a walking red flag.

You’ll hear us unpack:

• Iris, Jasper, and the myth of unrequited love
  • Why Iris’s “epic love story” with Jasper is actually a long-term crush with terrible ROI
  • How we confuse attention with intention
  • What it really costs you to keep hanging on to someone who will never fully choose you
• Crush vs. Love (a.k.a. Love-Adjacent Feelings)
  • What makes a crush different from genuine love
  • How fantasy can feel safer than real intimacy
  • Questions to ask yourself if you’ve been stuck on someone for months (or years)
• Amanda, emotional avoidance, and finally crying in the car
  • Why some people literally can’t cry and what’s underneath that
  • How emotional unavailability shows up in relationships
  • The difference between calling someone out vs. weaponizing their coping skills
• Graham, kids, and complicated timing
  • The rush into “I love you” after two weeks (with children involved)
  • What a healthier “I have feelings for you” might sound like
  • Why step-parent energy needs more than a holiday montage to work
• Miles, green flags, and why friendship-first relationships matter
  • Why Miles is basically a walking green flag (with one big misstep)
  • The tension between prioritizing romantic partners vs. friendships
  • How both Iris and Miles are recovering from lopsided relationships
• Best friends vs. leading ladies
  • Arthur’s iconic line about being the leading lady in your own life
  • Why we’re done equating being “the best friend” with being less deserving of love
  • How to stop sidelining yourself in your own story
• Sex, foreplay & bad messages we don’t want you absorbing
  • Why “foreplay is overrated” is a terrible love (and sex) lesson
  • What good, enthusiastic, mutual intimacy actually looks like
• Holiday comfort, nostalgia, and a little trivia
  • Nancy Meyers house porn, Blackberry sightings, and OG house swapping
  • The real-life history between Kate Winslet and Rufus Sewell
  • Why this is one of Isabelle’s all-time favorite rom-coms and Kira’s go-to holiday rewatch

Finally, we rate The Holiday on both movie joy and love lessons—with Isabelle wildly breaking the 5-star system and Kira pretending to enforce it.

Join us next for 2025 Holiday Rom-Com - My Secret Santa

Currently streaming on Netflix.

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Ring mix-ups. NYC holiday magic. Fresh bread and cornettos for days.
This week on RomCom Rescue, we’re breaking down Something From Tiffany’s (2022) — the cozy, charming, slightly chaotic holiday rom-com currently streaming on Amazon Prime.

We get into:
💍 The Tiffany’s ring mix-up that launches the whole story
🎄 Why NYC at Christmas is basically its own character
🚩 The red flags that are NOT festive — Gary, we’re looking at you
❤️ When holiday magic blinds us to very real relationship issues
🧠 Why you should never be shocked by a proposal in 2025
👧 Daisy: the most emotionally mature person in this entire movie
🔥 And whether Ethan & Rachel have an actual shot… or if we’re just rom-com magic blind

We’re talking chemistry, timing, boundaries, intention, emotional availability, and why “it’s complicated” usually just means no one is steering the damn ship.

If you love:
— Cozy NYC streets
— Pastries as a love language
— Holiday rom-coms with actual nuance
— And characters who are charming and a little chaotic

…this episode is your December comfort watch in podcast form.

📺 Watch Something From Tiffany’s on Amazon Prime
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Because at the end of the day…
💫 We create our own happily ever afters — and yes, order the cornetto.

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