• Episode 20: The Hidden Work Behind Parenting a Special Needs Adult
    Aug 26 2025

    ✨ New Episode of Rockin’ the Difference ✨ Being a special needs parent means carrying an invisible load that most people never see. In this solo episode, I take you behind the scenes of my life as a single mom to my adult son—sharing the scheduling, the driving, the advocacy, and the emotional weight of planning for the future, all while balancing a full-time job and trying to care for myself, too. 💙

    🎧 In this episode, I talk about:

    • The hidden daily work of special needs parenting
    • Navigating doctors, schools, and government agencies
    • The long-term planning no parent wants to face, but has to

    This one’s for every caregiver who feels unseen—you are not alone. 💙

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    17 mins
  • Episode 19: Beyond Borders: Our Brazil Journey; Challenges and Big Wins
    Jul 31 2025

    In this episode of Rockin the Difference, host Chandra Neal shares the behind-the-scenes story of preparing for international travel with her adult son, Ryan, who is blind and autistic. From a frustrating passport battle that required the help of her congressman, to packing with intention and securing disability accommodations, Chandra walks listeners through the real challenges — and the powerful surprises — she encountered while traveling to Brazil.

    This episode is a must-listen for any caregiver who’s ever wondered if big adventures are even possible. They are — and sometimes, they open doors to unexpected growth.

    🎯 Topics Covered:

    • Navigating the passport process with a special needs adult

    • How to advocate with government agencies (and when to call your congressperson)

    • Travel accommodations in Brazil for individuals with disabilities

    • Emotional growth moments during long-distance travel

    • Hidden Disabilities Sunflower Lanyard and other helpful tools

    • Encouragement for caregivers to embrace travel and dream bigger

    🧳 You don’t have to keep life small just because it’s hard. Let this story encourage and equip you for your own adventures — near or far.

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    25 mins
  • Episode 18: Defying the Odds: A Father’s Fight for His Son and the Rare Disease Community with Christopher Velona
    Jun 20 2025

    In this powerful episode of Rockin’ the Difference, I sit down with my dear friend Chris Velona — a devoted father, rare disease advocate, and founder of Project Sebastian, a nonprofit inspired by his son Sebastian, who was diagnosed with Batten disease, a rare and terminal neurodegenerative disorder.

    Chris shares his family’s emotional journey, the heartbreaking diagnosis, and how he chose to turn pain into purpose by creating a platform for awareness, connection, and hope. We talk about the emotional toll of caregiving, and what it's like to live day by day when the future is uncertain — yet still filled with love.

    Chris also introduces us to tools and communities that have been a source of support, including:

    🔗 Project Sebastian: A nonprofit raising awareness and funding for Batten disease and other rare conditions 👉 www.projectsebastian.org

    ⚡️ BioRecharge Energy Enhancement Systems: Alternative wellness technology supporting cellular healing and energy 👉 www.biorecharge.net

    💊 Mila’s Miracle Foundation: Advocating for individualized, gene-targeted medicine to treat rare genetic disorders 👉 www.milasmiracle.org

    This episode is for any parent walking a rare or uncertain path — and for anyone who needs a reminder that purpose can rise from even the darkest days.

    💬 Connect & Share

    If this episode moved you, please rate, review, and share. You never know who needs to hear this story.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Episode 17: What I Would Tell My Younger Self
    May 18 2025

    In this episode, I open up about the early years when first learned my son had special needs—and all the emotions that came with it: grief, fear, uncertainty. If I could sit with that younger version of myself, I’d tell her this...

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    19 mins
  • Episode 16: Love Beyond Limits: A Family’s Journey Through Life, Loss, and Legacy"
    Apr 6 2025

    In this heartfelt episode of Rocking the Difference, I sit down with an incredible mom Becky, and her two adult daughters, Hannah and Nicole, to honor the life and legacy of Breanna—their daughter and sister who had multiple disabilities, including blindness and mobility challenges, and who passed away three years ago. Together, we explore the deep love, joy, and challenges they experienced as a special needs family, and how Breanna’s presence shaped their bond.

    We talk about the funny memories, the hard days, the strength Breanna unknowingly gave them, and what life looks like now without her physical presence—but with her spirit still very much alive. This emotional and uplifting conversation is a tribute to unconditional love, sisterhood, and the resilience of families who walk this unique path.

    Tune in for a story that will move your heart and remind you that the love we give and receive knows no limits.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Episode 15:Helping Special Needs Kids Advocate for Themselves – When They Don’t Speak Up
    Mar 10 2025

    Today we’re talking about something so many special needs parents struggle with—helping our kids learn to advocate for themselves.

    I’ve personally been dealing with this forever with my son, who is now 21-year-old, who is blind and autistic. He has a hard time voicing his needs—whether it’s letting me know if he’s hungry or not feeling well, asking for help, or even just problem-solving in everyday situations.

    Today, I want to share some real-life examples of the challenges we face, explore why this happens, and—most importantly—open up the conversation to see what has worked for you as fellow parents and caregivers.

    I would love to hear your stories or strategies you've used to help your kid advocate for themselves. You can find me on Instagram @rockin_the_difference and leave a DM or comment. Or email me at rockingthedifference@gmail.com

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    16 mins
  • Episode 14: Breaking Free: Overcoming Shame, Embracing Identity, and Rising Strong with Amanda Casarella
    Feb 5 2025

    On today’s episode of Rocking the Difference, I am honored to welcome an incredible guest whose story is one of resilience, transformation, and the power of self-belief. Amanda Casarella grew up facing challenges that many of us can relate to—struggling with a learning disability, battling debilitating migraines that kept her out of school, and navigating the stigma of being placed in special education. On top of that, she endured shame and abuse that made her believe her identity and worth were tied to her disability.

    She made the courageous choice to reclaim her narrative, break free from the limitations placed on her, and step into the truth of who she is. Today, she embraces her journey, knowing that every challenge shaped the powerhouse woman she’s become. She’s now a passionate actress and entrepreneur, using her experiences sharing her journey to inspire others, proving that our past does not define us—our determination does.

    You can find Amanda Casarella here:

    Instagram: @Amanda.Casarella and @alittlehouseorganized

    www.amandacasarella.com

    www.alittlehouseorganized.com

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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • Episode 13: Reconnecting
    Jan 25 2025

    After the busyness of the holidays, I wanted to get back in touch with you all and talk about intention, creating community and upcoming changes and challenges this year.

    Here is a quick episode to get reconnected!

    Some great Podcasts to check out: The Special Needs Mom Podcast - Episode: Stabilizing After Winter Break and Moms Talk Autism Podcast

    You can find me on Instagram @Rockin_the_Difference Email: rockinthedifference@gmail.com

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    14 mins