Seth Gehle is a motivational speaker, author, military veteran, and family man. As a child, he endured many years of neglect and severe sexual abuse. Seth joins Zuby to explore his journey of healing from childhood trauma. He explains why he chose to open up about his experiences, the consequences of overusing the 'trauma' label, and the difficult road toward forgiveness. With insights on empathy, accountability, and manifesting positivity, this conversation is a powerful reflection on resilience and the transformative power of storytelling.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:25) The Catalyst for Sharing Seth Gehle’s Story

(03:40) Therapeutic Moments and Emotional Challenges

(05:20) The Reality of Abuse and Trauma

(13:39) The Problem with Labelling Trauma

(17:43) The Importance of Perspective

(37:10) Forgiveness and Moving Forward

(40:57) Understanding the Roots of Hurt

(42:30) The Power of Forgiveness

(44:05) Manifesting Positivity

(45:17) The Non-Linear Path to Healing

(47:53) Balancing Empathy and Accountability

(57:17) The Impact of Sharing Your Story

(1:05:43) Parenthood and Breaking the Cycle

(1:13:08) Future Plans and Final Thoughts

(1:15:55) Outro

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Stephen Ridley is a professional pianist who has performed in dozens of countries. He shares the deeply personal journey that led him away from a high-powered banking career towards a life of creativity and authenticity. From the early days of musical training to the devastating loss of his father, Stephen recounts the key moments that shaped his path. He talks about overcoming fears, the joy of street performance, and the freedom found in following one’s passion. For the first time, he also publicly shares the story of his kidnapping in Brazil.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:50) Stephen Ridley's Musical Journey Begins

(02:28) Formal Training and Losing Passion

(03:38) A Turning Point: The Loss of a Father

(06:13) Complex Relationship with His Father

(15:16) Struggles and Determination

(17:31) The Banking Career and Realization

(29:11) The Decision to Leave Banking

(32:50) A Life-Changing Moment

(33:38) Seeing the World with New Eyes

(34:24) Exploring New Opportunities

(34:37) First Major Decision

(35:25) The Adventure Begins

(36:05) Street Performance and Stage Fright

(37:14) Facing Fears and Finding Freedom

(39:18) The Turning Point

(41:47) From Street Performer to Global Musician

(49:48) The Power of Saying Yes

(54:20) Performing Around the World

(54:53) Cultural Reflections and Favourite Places

(57:48) Kidnapped in Brazil

(01:02:09) Arrival in Rio: First Impressions

(01:03:34) Meeting Eva: A New Connection

(01:04:11) Beach Volleyball and Brazilian Culture

(01:07:47) Night Out in the Favela

(01:08:40) Kidnapped in Rio

(01:15:46) Stockholm Syndrome and Escape

(01:24:58) Reunion with Eva

(01:29:10) Future Plans and Reflections

(01:29:18) Outro

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Zuby is joined by former NBA player and human rights activist Enes Kanter Freedom. Enes shares his journey from a young boy in Turkey to becoming an outspoken advocate for freedom and justice. They discuss the origins of his activism, the intense backlash he’s faced, and his commitment to calling out human rights violations, especially in China. The conversation also explores the responsibilities of athletes, empathy, and how faith fuels Enes’s mission.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:19) Life as an Activist

(03:52) Challenges & Consequences

(11:33) Speaking Out Against China

(26:07) Impact of Activism

(29:53) Role of Athletes in Social Issues

(33:55) Power of Empathy and Education

(39:20) Faith & Activism

(41:05) Human Rights Violations in China

(51:19) Challenges and Responsibilities of Activism

(1:00:40) Personal Sacrifices and Future Goals

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Gary Arndt is a seasoned traveler who has explored over 200 countries and territories. He shares what inspired him to leave his conventional life behind and pursue full-time travel, recounting some of his most eye-opening and transformative journeys. Zuby and Gary discuss the economics of full-time travel, different cultures, and the contrasting travel philosophies between Americans and Europeans. Gary also shares surprising observations, overlooked destinations, and how travel has shaped his current pursuits and outlook on life.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction and Guest Welcome

(01:32) Gary’s Background and Journey

(03:24) Early Travel Experiences

(04:38) Deciding to Travel Full-Time

(06:25) Traveling to 200+ Countries & Territories

(09:43) Cost of Full-Time Travel

(12:31) Importance of Traveling

(17:27) American vs. European Travel Perspectives

(23:18) Surprising Travel Observations

(27:08) Unique and Fascinating Destinations

(29:12) Fascination with the Stan Countries

(30:27) Traveling in Central Asia

(31:41) Language Barriers in Travel

(33:49) Unvisited Destinations

(35:47) Challenges and Restrictions in Travel

(38:31) Unique Places to Visit

(48:15) Memorable Travel Experiences

(50:51) Lessons from Traveling

(52:50) Current Projects and Future Plans

(54:52) Outro

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Nick Huber is an American entrepreneur and real estate investor, known for promoting the power of 'boring businesses'. We explore the nature of entrepreneurship, how struggle and privilege shape success, and the cultural divides within the USA. Nick also shares 25 provocative opinions on the future of society, tech's impact on kids, health, parenting, education, and more.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Embracing Boring Businesses & The Myth of Entrepreneurship

(00:48) Nick Huber: Background, Family, and Early Ventures

(03:47) Are Entrepreneurs Born or Made?

(09:01) Privilege, Struggle & The Role of Hardship

(14:31) Cultural Divides and Political Shifts

(17:34) Nick's Controversial Predictions for the Future

(44:57) How Short-Form Content and TV Affect Kids

(47:27) Plastics, Non-Stick Pans & Soft Drinks: Everyday Health Risks

(52:37) Alcohol, Pit Bulls & Other Hot Takes

(55:47) Recycling: Scam or Saviour?

(56:48) Fitness: Sauna, Strength Training, and Running

(1:03:44) Heart Health, Obesity, and the Rise of GLP-1s

(1:07:37) Traditional Business vs. Startups & the AI Debate

(1:14:04) Bitcoin, Altcoins & Crypto Skepticism

(1:15:26) Social Media, Parenting & Optimism for the Future

(1:16:28) Most Concerning Issues Right Now

(1:31:22) Nick's New Book: The Sweaty Startup

(1:32:27) Outro

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Marni Kinrys, widely known as 'The Wing Girl', is a veteran dating coach with over 20 years of experience helping men navigate the complex world of attraction and relationships. Marni shares her journey to becoming the first female voice in the male-dominated pickup artist community. Zuby and Marni discuss gender differences in communication, coaching, and romantic expectations, as well as delusion, body image, and the role of honesty in dating. The conversation also covers how technology and social media have shifted dating dynamics, the decline in marriage, and predictions for the future of gender relations.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:41) Marni’s background & coaching journey

(04:39) Entering the PUA world

(06:46) Transforming dating advice

(08:31) Reactions to her work & motivation

(13:19) Meeting her husband & family life

(16:10) Raising boys & coaching men vs women

(18:29) Insights from coaching men

(21:06) Childhood & emotional dynamics

(22:21) Coaching styles & communication

(25:25) Lies, delusion & body image

(56:22) Tech’s impact on dating & gender roles

(1:19:51) Future of relationships & uplifting men

(1:27:35) Outro

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Zuby speaks with Nate Lewis, founder of The Innocent, an organisation dedicated to protecting children from exploitation and abuse. Nate shares how he began his journey and reveals the staggering scale of child sexual abuse in the United States, including shocking statistics on victim numbers. They discuss the dangerous role smartphones and social media play in facilitating these crimes, and the lackluster response from law enforcement. Nate discusses how predators operate, what motivates them, and what steps individuals and society must take to combat this abuse.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:02) How Nate began his career

(03:03) The scale of child exploitation in the US

(06:05) 46M in the US have experienced SA?

(10:43) Social media safeguards

(14:52) Smart phone & social media age restrictions

(17:31) Are these crimes related to smart phones & social media?

(21:03) Where are law enforcement?

(32:26) The Innocent/law enforcement work

(39:43) What drives humans to commit these crimes?

(47:46) Priorities of individuals & society to reduce SA

(58:08) Where to find The Innocent and support Nate’s work

(59:09) Outro

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Pastor Douglas Wilson is an American theologian and pastor at Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho. He joins Zuby to discuss his five decades of ministry and the sweeping cultural transformations he has seen in the USA. The conversation covers the societal impacts of the technological revolution, the erosion of personal responsibility, the rise of victimhood, and the pivotal role of the 1960s in shaping modern culture. They also share predictions for America’s future in 2025.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:53) Pastor Douglas Wilson’s background

(03:41) 50 years of pastoring: a changing country

(27:08) The technological revolution and its societal impacts

(31:01) Lack of personal responsibility in the West

(36:20) Victimhood mentality

(38:26) 5 decades of cultural change in America

(45:41) The 60s was the inflection point

(52:30) What changes do you see in 2025?

(54:17) Will Republicans/the right fracture?

(57:38) Optimism with the Trump administration

(59:35) Learn more about Pastor Douglas Wilson

(1:01:06) Outro

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