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A conversation about dating can turn serious fast when you stop performing and start telling the truth. That’s exactly what happens when I call Rae (aka “Sexy Rae”) and we go from playful questions to the stuff that actually shapes your standards: cheating, trust, loyalty, and what it means to grow up through hard experiences without letting them harden you.

Rae opens up about being single, believing in fate, and why “trying too hard” can backfire when you’re looking for a real relationship. We talk red flags, green flags, and the weird middle ground where healthy people can feel “boring” if you’re used to chaos. From there, we get into what attraction really looks like, why deep connection matters more than surface level talk, and how long-distance relationships change the way you show up for someone.

Then we swap stories that take a sharp turn: a terrible restaurant moment, broken bones, a spring break injury in Mexico, and one of the wildest experiences I’ve ever lived through. We also get into my journey from Chicago to Minnesota, the hustle mindset, and why seeing the podcast grow and reach listeners around the world becomes one of my proudest moments. We close with real talk about settling down, marriage, kids, and the kind of partner who brings peace instead of problems.

If you’re into raw storytelling, dating advice without the fake rules, and honest relationship talk about trust and growth, tap in. Subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review with the biggest lesson you took from our conversation.

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