• #176: Austin Netzley: The Lie Entrepreneurs Chase Until It Breaks Them
    Dec 21 2025

    Most entrepreneurs aren’t chasing success, they’re chasing relief.

    They chase revenue, seven-figure milestones, exits, and status believing that once they arrive, they’ll finally feel calm, fulfilled, and free. But for many high performers, hitting the goal doesn’t bring peace, it exposes a deeper misalignment.

    In this episode, I’m joined by Austin Netzley, serial entrepreneur, investor, and author who has built, scaled, and exited multiple businesses, and now works with founders who look wildly successful on paper yet feel trapped, burnt out, or disconnected inside their lives. Austin supports founders to double their income while reclaiming their time, energy, and life, without sacrificing health, relationships, or freedom.

    Together we unpack the lie that more money equals more fulfilment, how entrepreneurs slowly lose themselves through invisible “micro-movements” of hustle and comparison, and why most people don’t actually want a seven-figure business, they want space to breathe, time with their family, and peace in their body.

    We talk about why becoming a millionaire can be the least climactic moment of all, how burnout becomes a wake-up call rather than a failure, the difference between financial freedom and emotional freedom, and how to build a business that supports your life, not one that consumes it.

    If you’re ambitious, capable, in a transition period, or quietly wondering “Why doesn’t this feel the way I thought it would?” - our conversation will hit home.


    Timestamps

    00:00 Why success is personal (and comparison ruins it)
    01:17 What entrepreneurs actually want: freedom
    02:38 The slow way people lose themselves
    03:23 Why “seven figures” isn’t the real goal
    05:10 Burnout, anxiety & the cost of hustle
    06:28 Money trauma and chasing safety
    10:40 When actions don’t match desired freedom
    22:14 Not everyone should be an entrepreneur
    27:02 The three freedoms that actually matter
    29:12 Why becoming a millionaire felt empty
    41:24 Build your business around your life

    Connect with Austin:

    Instagram: @austinnetzley

    Connect with Me:

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

    Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

    Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • #175: Phillip Solomon: Become Impossible to Ignore
    Dec 14 2025

    As a kid, he was the one finishing the mile alone while the whole class waited, the one who didn’t see anyone who looked or sounded like him on TV, the one told by a speech teacher to find a life where he “wouldn’t need to talk.”

    Today, Phillip Solomon is a primetime reality star, a sought-after trainer, and a man who knows exactly what he brings into any room — even when the room wasn’t built with him in mind.

    We unpack what it means to walk through the world as “too much” and “not enough” at the same time, to navigate prejudice on dating apps and in real life, to live with a stutter in a culture obsessed with smooth delivery, and to still decide: I will be seen. I will be heard. I will build my own space if you don’t make one.

    Expect to learn why knowing your essence changes how you date, work, and walk into every room, how to turn rejection into fuel, what reality TV really revealed about his identity, and why, if there’s no seat for you at the table, you bring your own wood, hammer and nails — and extend the table yourself.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Growing up “too much” in a world that didn’t see him

    04:12 The moment he realised people saw him as a threat

    08:01 “You’d be hot… if I was into people who look like you”

    13:02 From overweight, lonely kid to 45 pounds down and hungry for more

    17:40 Why he chose teaching and fitness as his arenas of impact

    22:18 Deal or No Deal Island: using reality TV as a platform, not a peak

    28:54 Love, hate and death threats in the DMs

    35:29 Bringing his energy into Barry’s and owning what he adds to the room

    45:02 Passion, purpose and why most adults can’t answer “What do you bring?”

    49:50 When there’s no seat for you… Becoming the person who extends the table

    Connect with Phillip: Instagram: @phillipsolomon_

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

    Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

    Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci


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    1 hr
  • #174: Why a Woman’s Voice is the Key to Her Power
    Dec 7 2025

    Women talk about wanting to step into their power, yet most of us are terrified of being fully seen, heard, or expressed. In this conversation with vocal liberation guide Leah Free, we explore why a woman’s voice is the most direct pathway to her power… and the one she’s been taught to fear the most.

    We break down why women are scared to speak; centuries of being punished for our truth, social conditioning to be agreeable, the fear of being “too much,” and the internalised belief that our desire or depth might cost us belonging.

    Expect to learn how sound and breath regulate the nervous system, why real power lives in quiet everyday moments, how the “throat–womb” link amplifies feminine expression, and how vocal liberation reshapes confidence, sex, love, and the life you’re willing to claim.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Are women afraid of their own power?
    04:10 The truth about suppressed feminine power
    08:18 Real power vs external, performative power
    12:40 The micro-moments where power actually lives
    17:13 What we’re really hunting for: resonance & truth
    22:04 Surrender, prayer & asking for help
    31:25 How to know when you’re at capacity
    36:12 “Good things take time”: patience & power
    49:28 Why most women hate their own voice
    57:02 What vocal liberation really unlocks

    Connect with Leah:

    Instagram: @leahlivefree
    Work with Leah: Click here

    Connect with Me:

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

    Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

    Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci


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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • #173: The Million-Dollar Goal That Broke Me Open
    Nov 30 2025

    At the start of the year, I told this podcast I’d hit my first One Million Dollar year. And here’s the reality: I did not make a million dollars this year. My business grew by 1.55%, and seeing that number forced me to confront the pressure, the ego, the stories and the expectations I’ve been carrying around money, success and self-worth.

    In this episode, I break down the money shame no one talks about, the cost of chasing goals for validation, and why “half a million but happier” might be a far better life than the million I thought would finally make me feel safe. I share what shifted when I stopped letting Stripe define me, why dating highly successful men reframed my view of what a true provider actually is, how going viral for a controversial clip strengthened my resilience, and why I’m done setting income goals that disconnect me from the life I deserve to live, and the woman I deserve to be.

    Timestamps

    00:00 — I didn’t hit $1M
    04:45 — Money shame & “half a million but happier”
    09:50 — The trap of month-to-month metrics
    15:20 — Facing the inner critic
    21:40 — Rethinking the “provider”
    28:30 — Dating wealthy men & missing depth
    36:40 — Viral hate, shame & resilience
    44:30 — Letting go of rigid goals


    Connect with Me:

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

    Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

    Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci

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    50 mins
  • #172: How To Heal Heartbreak Through Your Nervous System with Salim Najjar
    Nov 23 2025

    What if heartbreak isn’t psychological, but physiological?

    Salim Najjar, engineer, HRV expert and creator of the A.R.T. of the Heart framework, explains how breakups imprint on your fascia, your breath, and your nervous system, and why intellectual insight won’t save you if your body is still bracing for impact.

    Expect to learn what heartbreak does to your stress response, why jealousy feels like inflammation, how HRV can reveal emotional patterns you can’t see, what actually regulates a dysregulated nervous system, what bankruptcy taught Salim about identity and freedom, how to train emotional resilience like an athlete, why sensitivity is a strength rather than a liability, and why presence (not money) is the real currency of a good life.

    Timestamps

    00:00 — Is heartbreak required for a full life?
    04:51 — The A.R.T. of the Heart
    08:26 — HRV, burnout and emotional data
    14:40 — Training resilience like an athlete
    18:43 — The accident, injury and slowing down
    21:21 — Letting go, bankruptcy and rebuilding
    33:33 — Choosing to rise after collapse
    37:53 — Tools for jealousy and anxiety
    41:09 — Sensitivity, masculinity and depth
    53:21 — Money, energy and living richer with less

    Connect with Salim:

    Instagram: @thathrvguy

    Discover your HRV Archetype and receive a Free HRV Guide tailored to you: https://thathrvguy.com/

    Connect with Me:

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a connection call with my Head Coach and we’ll make it happen.

    Want to connect with me on socials? Say hi over on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • #171: Cal Callahan: Why Money Won’t Save Your Marriage
    Nov 16 2025

    Cal had the life most people fantasise about: retired at 41, wealthy, travelling, surrounded by high-status circles. But behind the highlight reel, his marriage was breaking, his kids felt the hidden weight of privilege, and success wasn’t touching the real problems underneath.

    In this conversation, Cal shares what actually woke him up. The moments that forced him to confront the disconnection that money had been masking for years.

    This is an episode for the man who’s done all the work, has the house and the bank account to show for it… and still feels empty. And for the woman who loves him, but is starving for his heart, not his hustle.

    We cover:

    Why money and status can’t create emotional connection

    The little boy energy that sabotages grown men in relationships

    Validation vs defensiveness

    The Vegas shooting that became Cal’s wake-up call

    The emotional cost of raising kids with privilege

    Intimacy when a man drops performance and comes home to his body

    What actually makes a life feel “rich”

    Timestamps:

    00:03 — Rich, retired and completely disconnected
    00:12 — The “I’m in trouble” wound men carry
    00:21 — When he finally stopped defending and started listening
    00:32 — The Vegas mass shooting that changed everything
    00:44 — How wealthy kids quietly suffer
    00:58 — Why his marriage almost ended
    01:06 — Men as the bass player: the pressure no one sees
    01:14 — Letting his wife into his financial fears
    01:22 — Intimacy after awakening
    01:28 — What money can never buy


    Connect with Cal:

    Cal Callahan – @cal.callahan

    Want to work with me? Click this link to book a connection call with my Head Coach and we’ll make it happen.

    Want to connect with me on socials? Say hi over on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci


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    1 hr and 30 mins
  • #170: Why So Many Successful Women Are Still Single
    Nov 14 2025

    Why do so many smart, successful, self-aware women still find themselves single, stuck in situationships, or repeating the same painful relationship cycles?

    In this unapologetically honest episode of Sex, Love & Money, Rebecca Antonucci sits down with Anna Krystyna and Megan Thoma for a deep, no-filter conversation about the hidden patterns that keep high-achieving women unfulfilled in love.

    From cheating and shame to codependency, nervous system work and self-abandonment, this conversation goes far beyond dating advice. It’s about healing the parts of us that learned love meant losing ourselves.

    Together, they unpack what it really means to be ready for love, not just want it, and how to stop waiting for the man and start dancing in your own aliveness.

    They cover:

    Why successful women often struggle to attract healthy love

    The truth about cheating, shame and feminine conditioning

    How independence can become emotional avoidance

    Why your nervous system decides who feels “safe”

    The difference between wanting love and being ready for it

    The feminine wound of control, rage and resentment

    What true emotional readiness looks like in the body

    How to soften without losing your power

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Why so many successful women are still single
    06:45 The illusion of “readiness” and how high-achieving women block love
    12:20 Cheating, shame and the nervous system truth about self-betrayal
    21:55 The patterns that keep women in self-abandonment
    33:30 The problem with independence and control in relationships
    41:42 The 3x3 dating rule and breaking unhealthy attraction loops
    53:18 He doesn’t want the worker… he wants the dancer
    01:04:07 Why women are too hard on men (and how it mirrors their own wounds)
    01:15:30 Would you date you? The mirror every woman needs to look into
    01:22:44 The beauty of falling in love with your own life

    Connect with Anna and Megan:

    Anna Krystyna – @iamannakrystyna

    Megan Thoma – @megan_thoma


    Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my Head Coach and let's get started.

    I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci


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    1 hr and 28 mins
  • #169: Why Your Wound With The Masculine Is Keeping You Single
    Nov 2 2025

    Women say they want a man who leads, then bristle when he opens the door. Today we unpack the resentment, the armour, and the nervous system truth behind why so many high-achieving women struggle to receive love, provision and masculine leadership without abandoning their own power.

    This week I’m joined by Sigrid Tasies, feminine embodiment mentor and facilitator. We go deep on somatics, safety, and the art of letting yourself be led without losing your power.

    Trigger notice: This episode references sexual assault, domestic violence and trauma. Please listen with care.


    We cover:

    The paradox: Wanting a devoted, leading partner while resenting men (and how that blocks intimacy).

    Generalising ≠ safety: Why “all men are X” feels protective, and how it quietly kills the relationship you say you want.

    Nervous system reality: You can’t think your way to safety and why you must feel your way there.

    Feminine vs masculine leadership: Strategy and structure create the container; presence, sensation and intuition fill it.

    Strong-independent identity: Why putting down the sword can feel like weakness and how to do it without losing self-respect.

    Double courage: Being vulnerable and staying open when your partner doesn’t meet you perfectly.

    Sex, love, money after embodiment: How coming home to your body amplifies pleasure, softens love, and makes receiving abundance far easier.


    Time-stamped guide

    01:07 – The stories we carry: Subconscious resentment towards men and how it shows up.

    03:08 – Accountability wars: Internet outrage, chivalry, and the cost of collective blame.

    06:55 – Why we generalise: False safety and the risk-avoidant brain.

    08:11 – Reclaiming safety: Somatics, self-trust and refusing to abandon yourself.

    10:26 – Boundaries without armour: Becoming a safe presence for you, first.

    12:14 – Letting him lead: Power couples explained.

    14:58 – The difference between masculine and feminine leadership

    31:20 – Vulnerability reps: How to speak your truth before you’re “perfect” at it.

    32:13 – Double courage: Staying open when you aren’t met.

    34:23 – Living open-hearted: What it actually feels like.

    36:15 – Why ‘strong & independent’ is hard to drop: Safety, armour, and the little girl within.

    38:00 – Receiving provision: Saying yes when your partner offers to lead and provide.

    48:35 – Money & ease: Abundance beyond effort and grind.


    Connect with Sigrid:

    IG: @sigridtasiesWork with Sigrid: Explore her programs and offerings

    Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my head coach and let's get started.


    I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

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    52 mins