Episodes

  • Ep. 258 — How to Help Your Daughter Open Up Emotionally

    Ep. 258 — How to Help Your Daughter Open Up Emotionally
    Aug 21 2025
    Is your daughter shutting down emotionally—retreating behind “I’m fine” and silence when life feels too big? In a world that often confuses resilience with repression, many girls grow up without the tools or trust to process their emotions in a healthy, God-honoring way. This episode is here to help change that. Join co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden as they explore how to build emotional bridges with your daughter, not barriers. From personal stories of girlhood to faith-rooted wisdom, this episode will equip you with simple, practical ways to create a safe space for vulnerability—while still pointing your girl toward Christ. You’ll learn: Why girls often repress emotions—and how to respond with grace How to model emotional openness without oversharing Conversation strategies that draw her out instead of shutting her down What Scripture teaches about emotional honesty and trust You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay on why emotional intelligence is vital to true resilience—and how the Bible affirms the value of naming our emotions, not burying them. This is a conversation for every parent who longs to connect with their daughter’s heart—and guide her toward the God who understands and cares for her completely. Scriptures Referenced in This Episode: James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” 1 Peter 5:7 – “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
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    27 mins
  • Ep. 257 — Emotional Intelligence for Moms and Daughters

    Ep. 257 — Emotional Intelligence for Moms and Daughters
    Aug 19 2025
    Emotions can feel overwhelming—both hers and yours. So how do you raise a Godly girl who’s emotionally wise, not just reactive? In this episode, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore how emotional intelligence (EQ) can shape your daughter’s spiritual maturity—and your parenting too. You’ll hear practical ways to help her name her feelings, respond with grace, and grow in wisdom from a Biblical Worldview. Discover how Jesus modeled empathy and self-control, why EQ is more than a buzzword, and how God uses emotions to shape both moms and daughters into His likeness. Plus, hear this week’s Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay as she reminds us that emotions aren’t flaws—they’re God-designed tools for growth. Scripture References in This Episode: Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Galatians 5:22-23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and gentleness Ecclesiastes 3:4 – “A time to weep and a time to laugh…” James 1:19-20 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…” Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin…” John 11:35 – “Jesus wept.” (A powerful example of Christ’s emotional expression) 2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” Whether you’re navigating a meltdown or simply want to parent with more patience and purpose, this episode will equip you with Biblical insight and practical tools to grow both your daughter’s emotional intelligence—and your own. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
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    26 mins
  • Ep. 256 — From Self-Absorbed to Selfless: Guiding Girls Toward Christlike Character with Jill Garner

    Ep. 256 — From Self-Absorbed to Selfless: Guiding Girls Toward Christlike Character with Jill Garner
    Aug 16 2025
    How do we raise daughters who reflect the humility of Christ in a world that rewards self-promotion? How do we steer their hearts away from “me first” and toward “others first”? In this powerful weekend episode, Raising Godly Girls host and American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes character education expert and author Jill Garner to explore how parents can guide girls from self-absorption to selflessness through intentional heart training. Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, brings decades of insight on shaping young hearts through respect-based education rooted in Biblical truth. As the author of Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World and StrongHeart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child, Jill offers a clear and compassionate voice for parents seeking to raise daughters of integrity—girls who are resilient, gracious, and grounded in their identity in Christ. Together, Patti and Jill explore the cultural currents pulling girls toward vanity, entitlement, and independence from God—and contrast them with a Spirit-led path of humility and service. With practical advice, personal testimony, and a heart for transformation, this conversation is a must-listen for parents raising daughters in today’s me-centered world. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why selfishness begins early—and what it reveals about the heart What “Heart Education” is and how it can be a game-changer in your parenting How to cultivate Christlike humility and respect in your daughter’s everyday life Encouraging tools and Scriptures that anchor your family in a God-honoring character journey How to partner with schools, churches, and AHG to reinforce selflessness and servant leadership Key Scriptures Highlighted: Philippians 2:3–4 – “In humility, value others above yourselves…” Proverbs 11:25 – “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” James 3:16 – The warning against selfish ambition and its impact on community If you’ve ever asked, “How do I lead my daughter to think of others first—and love them well?” this episode will equip you with both the truth and the tools to begin that work today. Learn more about Jill’s work and explore helpful parenting resources at mannersoftheheart.org. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
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    42 mins
  • Ep. 255 — Teaching Your Daughter That It’s Not About Her

    Ep. 255 — Teaching Your Daughter That It’s Not About Her
    Aug 14 2025
    From toddler tantrums to teen drama, it’s easy to spot the signs of self-focus in our daughters—but it’s harder to correct that trajectory in a culture that rewards self-obsession. This episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast gently but boldly tackles the uncomfortable topic of selfishness and entitlement, equipping moms with Biblical tools to shepherd their daughters into a Christ-centered life of humility and service. Co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose offer heartfelt insight, Scripture-based truth, and real-life reflection on how selfish habits form—and how to break them with grace. From the sassy toddler mimicking grown-up behavior to the teen seeking praise and power, this conversation walks alongside moms who want to train up daughters who reflect Christ, not the culture. You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a timely Raising Godly Girls Minute, pointing parents to Proverbs and practical ways to help girls become refreshers of others rather than rulers of their own tiny kingdoms. If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries, discipline with love, or navigate your girl’s “attitude,” this episode will meet you right where you are—and call you higher in your parenting. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why early entitlement, if left unchecked, leads to lasting relational damage How to guide your girl from “what I want” to “what others need” using empathy and training Biblical wisdom from Philippians 2 and James 3:16 that redefines confidence as Christlike humility Practical parenting phrases and questions to use when disciplining or redirecting selfish behavior How service and discipleship lead girls out of self-focus and into Kingdom purpose Scriptures Highlighted: Philippians 2:3-4 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition…” James 3:16 — “Where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder…” Proverbs 11:25 — “A generous person will prosper…” If you’re ready to raise a girl who shines for Christ, not for the applause of the crowd, this episode will help you lay the groundwork. It’s not about squashing her confidence—it’s about redirecting her heart toward something greater: a life lived for others, rooted in the example of Jesus. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
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    22 mins
  • Ep. 254 — Freeing Your Girl from the Being-Liked Addiction

    Ep. 254 — Freeing Your Girl from the Being-Liked Addiction
    Aug 12 2025
    The desire to be liked is natural—but left unchecked, it can quietly shape your daughter’s identity in unhealthy, even addictive ways. From the playground to the group chat, the pressure to earn approval can steal her joy, distort her view of self, and distance her from the truth of who she is in Christ. In this must-listen episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the social and spiritual undercurrents of girls' need for affirmation. Together, they unpack how a girl’s early development can fuel her craving for praise—and how loving, intentional parenting can redirect that desire toward the One whose love never wavers. You’ll hear candid personal stories from both hosts, powerful Scriptural truths, and timely insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in the Raising Godly Girls Minute. You’ll also learn how to reframe your daughter’s attention-seeking behavior, not as manipulation, but as a longing to be seen, known, and loved. This episode doesn’t just name the problem—it offers the Christ-centered path out. In this episode, you’ll explore: How girls’ early need for affirmation can spiral into an identity crisis if left unaddressed The “Hawthorne Effect” and what it reveals about your daughter’s desire to be seen The difference between “fitting in” and standing out for Christ (Philippians 2:15, Romans 8:5) How to help your girl root her confidence in Colossians 3:2 living—setting her mind on things above Practical steps to break the approval addiction and reestablish her identity in Christ Scriptures Referenced: Philippians 2:15 — “...shine like stars in the sky.” Romans 8:5 — “Those who live according to the flesh...” Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above...” John 15:5 — “Abide in me and I in you...” This episode reminds you that your daughter’s desire to be liked isn’t the problem—it’s where she looks for that affirmation that matters most. Help her turn from the fleeting approval of the world to the everlasting love of her Heavenly Father. And as a mom, be encouraged: your voice, your presence, and your daily words of truth are shaping the next generation of confident, Christlike women. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.
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    29 mins
  • Ep. 253 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Peace at Home: Teaching Conflict Resolution to Girls with Dr. Danny Huerta (Focus on the Family)

    Ep. 253 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Peace at Home: Teaching Conflict Resolution to Girls with Dr. Danny Huerta (Focus on the Family)
    Aug 9 2025

    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Danny Huerta from Focus on the Family to discuss practical strategies for achieving peace at home through effective conflict resolution. The average family experiences around 2,100 arguments a year. That's nearly 49 minutes of daily conflict! But how we handle these inevitable clashes can make all the difference in fostering a loving and harmonious home environment.

    Dr. Huerta shares his expertise on the most common sources of family conflict and offers insights on how parents can identify and address these issues early on. Discover practical advice on managing sibling rivalry, teaching your children effective communication skills, and the vital role of forgiveness and reconciliation in resolving disputes. Learn how parents can mediate conflicts without being overly controlling, and how to turn everyday arguments into opportunities for growth and understanding.

    Join us as we get to the heart of family dynamics, exploring ways to transform conflict into connection and maintain a peaceful, supportive atmosphere in your home. With Biblical wisdom and practical tips, this replay episode is designed to help you raise resilient, Godly girls equipped to navigate life's challenges.

    To learn more about Dr. Huerta’s work with Focus on the Family, visit focusonthefamily.com/parenting

    Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org

    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

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    36 mins
  • Ep. 252 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: From Conflict to Connection: Effective Communication in Parent-Daughter Arguments

    Ep. 252 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: From Conflict to Connection: Effective Communication in Parent-Daughter Arguments
    Aug 7 2025

    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig deep into the often-challenging terrain of parent-daughter arguments. While sibling spats can teach valuable lessons in conflict resolution, parent-daughter disagreements require a different approach to foster healthy, respectful communication.

    Join us as we explore practical strategies and Biblical wisdom to navigate these conflicts, transforming moments of disagreement into opportunities for connection. In this episode, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay shares insightful advice on overcoming conflict and creating lasting bonds with your daughter.

    Discover the power of understanding different perspectives, using "I" statements, and knowing when to take breaks during heated arguments. Through real-life anecdotes, scriptural guidance, and practical tips, we aim to equip you with the tools to foster open, respectful dialogue with your daughter, strengthening your relationship in the process.

    Don't miss this insightful conversation designed to help you and your daughter build a foundation of love, patience, and effective communication. Tune in now and learn how to turn conflicts into connections that last a lifetime.

    Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org

    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

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    22 mins
  • Ep. 251 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Grace in Times of Disagreement: Guiding Your Girl Through Sibling Arguments

    Ep. 251 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Grace in Times of Disagreement: Guiding Your Girl Through Sibling Arguments
    Aug 5 2025

    Join co-hosts Rachael and Melissa in this “best of” episode as they discuss the complexities of sibling arguments and how to guide your daughters through them with grace and wisdom. In this replay episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, we discuss practical strategies rooted in Biblical principles to help your daughters navigate disagreements with their siblings. Featuring insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, we explore the importance of cultivating a heart filled with the Fruit of the Spirit and the power of gentle, kind communication.

    Tune in as we share personal anecdotes, Biblical examples, and effective ways to foster healthy conflict resolution in your home. Learn how to equip your daughters with the tools they need to handle disagreements gracefully, ensuring they build strong, loving relationships with their siblings. Don't miss this insightful and encouraging episode designed to support you in raising Godly girls who can navigate the challenges of sibling rivalry with faith and wisdom.

    Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org

    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

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    21 mins