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  • Episode 228: Mary Read Interview - When You Pastor in Your Childhood Church

    Episode 228: Mary Read Interview - When You Pastor in Your Childhood Church
    Dec 22 2025

    In this episode, we sit down with Mary Read, a pastor’s wife, mom of three energetic boys, and lifelong learner with a heart for faith, family, and connection. Mary opens up about what it was like returning to the church she grew up in—yes, the very same pews, hallways, and people she knew as a kid—and navigating the unique mix of nostalgia, expectations, and change that came with it.


    Mary shares about the challenges of stepping back into familiar spaces, how past relationships evolve, and the importance of confidence in ministry. She offers practical encouragement for new pastors’ wives, emphasizing mentorship, healthy boundaries, and the grounding truth of Scripture. We also chat about her life outside ministry—long walks, fiction books, home-cooked meals, and her newfound tradition of Friday date days with her husband, Pastor Matt.


    This episode is full of wisdom, warmth, and real-life insight for pastors' wives in every season.


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    42 mins
  • Spill the Tea: Christmas Traditions & Holiday Favorites

    Spill the Tea: Christmas Traditions & Holiday Favorites
    Dec 18 2025

    In this delightfully unhinged Christmas episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we ask each other rapid-fire holiday questions and accidentally reveal way too much about our chaotic Christmas traditions. We’re talking favorite songs, family rituals, foods we could eat year-round, and why cookie-decorating might actually be a spiritual discipline. We finish with heartfelt holiday wishes and a Christmas carol sing-along that absolutely no one asked for—but you’re getting it anyway.


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    JESSICA:

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    Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

    Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠


    JENNA:

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    Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

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    STEPHANIE:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    13 mins
  • Episode 227: Hannah Kurtz Interview - Divine Detours From College Campus to Church Home

    Episode 227: Hannah Kurtz Interview - Divine Detours From College Campus to Church Home
    Dec 15 2025
    In this episode, we sit down with Hannah Kurtz, a pastor’s wife, homeschool mama, and soon-to-be mom of six, to share the twists and turns of her family’s ministry journey. Hannah and her husband, Thor, began full-time ministry in 2017, eventually following a mission-trip “divine detour” to Lincoln, Illinois, where Thor now serves as the youth pastor at Open Arms.Hannah opens up about their transition to a new church—including the unique challenge of living on a college campus in the middle of being converted into their church campus. She shares honestly about grieving the move, navigating ministry on unfamiliar ground, and the quiet emotional weight pastors’ wives often carry.With humor (yes, Thor collects strange items just to scare people), warmth, and deep faith, Hannah talks about community support, prayer, and the unexpected joy of watching God’s provision—like her son praying for a baby brother before they even knew one was coming. Her story is full of resilience, hope, and the reminder that ministry transitions are hard… but never walked alone.Key TakeawaysA mission trip led them to an unexpected new calling in Lincoln, IL.They lived on a college campus while it was being transformed into the church campus.Transitioning to a new church brought emotional challenges and grief.Community support is essential for pastors and their families.Prayer played a major role in their family’s story—from ministry decisions to a son praying for a baby brother.Having a strong network of pastors’ wives makes all the difference.God’s faithfulness is evident in every twist, detour, and new beginning.Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreatTo purchase the BOOK, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠To shop our MERCH, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/pastorswivestellall ⁠⁠SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!CONTACT US: ⁠hello@pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠FOLLOW US:Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠JESSICA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠JENNA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠STEPHANIE:Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    37 mins
  • Spill the Tea: Holy Land Travels & Fish Eyeballs Talk

    Spill the Tea: Holy Land Travels & Fish Eyeballs Talk
    Dec 11 2025
    In this travel-happy episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we sit down with our globe-trotting friend Amy to talk about all things travel — including her epic trips to Israel, which are basically the spiritual Olympics of tourism. We kick things off with rapid-fire questions that reveal way too much about all of us (as usual), then dive into stories about eating local foods, navigating intense-but-amazing Holy Land tours, and trying not to cry at biblical sites… but failing spectacularly.We also chat about safety (because, you know… travel), swap stories about leading tour groups without losing people, and dream about future adventures — including a Northern England and Scotland tour that we are absolutely inviting ourselves on. By the end, the only thing clearer than Amy’s love for travel is the fact that we desperately want to travel together… even though it may be a mild disaster.Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreatTo purchase the BOOK, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠To shop our MERCH, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/pastorswivestellall ⁠⁠SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!CONTACT US: ⁠hello@pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠FOLLOW US:Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠JESSICA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠JENNA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠STEPHANIE:Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    9 mins
  • Episode 226: Amy Gordon Interview: When the Pastor Gets Sick - Finding God’s Faithfulness in Crisis and Chronic Illness

    Episode 226: Amy Gordon Interview: When the Pastor Gets Sick - Finding God’s Faithfulness in Crisis and Chronic Illness
    Dec 8 2025

    In this week’s episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we chat with our dear friend Amy Gordon, a pastor’s wife and mama who opens up about walking through health crises, chronic illness, and the unexpected ways those seasons deepened her family’s faith. She shares how “staying long and going deep” in ministry has shaped her perspective, why community is absolutely essential, and how sometimes the holiest thing we can do is let people carry us to Jesus. Amy’s honesty, humor, and hard-earned wisdom offer hope for any pastor’s wife—or anyone—navigating uncertainty and leaning on God in the middle of the mess.


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    JESSICA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

    Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠


    JENNA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠


    STEPHANIE:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    51 mins
  • Spill the Tea: Restaurant Mishaps with the Elderly

    Spill the Tea: Restaurant Mishaps with the Elderly
    Dec 4 2025

    In this laugh-filled episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we are joined by the always delightful Tara Sun—and let’s just say things get real fast. From an unforgettable (and slightly mortifying) restroom mishap to swooning over the beauty of the Oregon coast, this conversation is equal parts hilarious and heartwarming.


    The ladies also swap book recommendations—Habits of the Household and Emotionally Healthy Boys—and talk about everything from women’s health to gospel-centered family rhythms. It’s the perfect mix of laughter, learning, and a little too much honesty (the best kind, of course).


    Whether you’re looking for a good chuckle, travel inspiration, or your next great read, this episode has you covered!


    Connect with Tara:

    Website

    Instagram: @misstarasun


    Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:

    https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat


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    JESSICA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

    Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠


    JENNA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠


    STEPHANIE:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    8 mins
  • Episode 225: Tara Sun - Stop Being Overbooked & Overwhelmed, Pastor's Wife

    Episode 225: Tara Sun - Stop Being Overbooked & Overwhelmed, Pastor's Wife
    Dec 1 2025
    In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we sit down with Tara Sun to talk about what it really means to find balance, rest, and peace in the middle of ministry chaos. Drawing from her own experiences of burnout and healing, Tara shares her story of hitting a breaking point—mentally, physically, and emotionally—and how God led her into rhythms of true rest and dependence on Him.Through stories from her new book, Overbooked and Overwhelmed, Tara helps pastors’ wives and women in ministry redefine productivity, learn the power of saying no, and embrace the abundant life God offers—one marked by peace and intentionality instead of constant overcommitment. Together, they discuss the importance of community support, asking for help, and letting others carry the load during seasons of grief and exhaustion.This episode is a reminder that rest isn’t laziness—it’s obedience. You’ll walk away with practical encouragement to slow down, reconnect with God in creative ways, and find joy in the simplicity of daily faithfulness.Takeaways:Burnout often comes from good intentions but misplaced priorities.True rest is found in connection with God, not just time off.Learning to say “no” can protect your peace and strengthen your ministry.Community and accountability are essential for lasting health.Redefining productivity allows space for God’s presence.It’s okay—and necessary—to ask for help and receive care.Simple daily rhythms can rekindle faith and joy.Connect with Tara:WebsiteInstagram: @misstarasunGet all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreatTo purchase the BOOK, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠To shop our MERCH, head here: ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/pastorswivestellall ⁠⁠SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!CONTACT US: ⁠hello@pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠FOLLOW US:Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠JESSICA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠JENNA:Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠STEPHANIE:Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    49 mins
  • Episode 224 : The Closed Doors That Changed Our Lives

    Episode 224 : The Closed Doors That Changed Our Lives
    Nov 24 2025

    In this Thanksgiving episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we share our favorite holiday traditions, personal stories, and the deeper lessons God has taught us through gratitude. From funny family moments to unexpected “closed doors,” we reflect on how God’s redirection often leads to greater blessings than we ever imagined.


    The conversation dives into gratitude for unanswered prayers, the joy found in life’s inconveniences, and the beauty of recognizing God’s hand in every season. Whether it’s relationships that didn’t work out, changes that felt uncomfortable, or prayers that seemed to go unheard, we remind you that every “no” can lead to a better “yes.”


    Join us for laughter, reflection, and a reminder that God’s plan is always worth thanking Him for—even when it looks different than we expected.


    Takeaways:

    • Thanksgiving traditions can look different for everyone.
    • Closed doors often lead to unexpected blessings.
    • Gratitude for unanswered prayers reveals God’s greater plan.
    • Even inconveniences can carry joy and purpose.
    • Recognizing God’s provision deepens spiritual growth.
    • Being present and thankful in every season brings peace and perspective.


    Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:

    https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat


    To purchase the BOOK, head here:

    ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠


    To shop our MERCH, head here:

    ⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠


    Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron:

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    SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!


    CONTACT US:

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    FOLLOW US:

    Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠


    JESSICA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

    Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠


    JENNA:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠


    STEPHANIE:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

    Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠
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    27 mins