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Our TFMR Stories

Our TFMR Stories

By: Sabrina Fletcher Pregnancy Loss Doula
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Pregnancy loss support and connection in the heartbreak of terminating a wanted pregnancy for medical reasons (TFMR). Interviews with real TFMR parents & grief support and stories from professionals, released bi-monthly. To join our support community go to: https://www.thetfmrdoula.com/facebookgroup.htmlSabrina Fletcher, Pregnancy Loss Doula Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • Finally a space where TFMR parents can say everything out loud | Circles open now
    Sep 15 2025

    When TFMR parents find out about Ascend, they don't ask about the curriculum or the healing frameworks. They ask: "Will there be other people like me? Can I finally say everything out loud? Will someone understand when I talk about my baby?"

    Other parents like you share what they're most looking forward to in our grief circle: They were about connection in this tough abortion baby loss, having permission to speak their baby's name without explaining themselves and being able to SHARE their TFMR stories without judgement.

    TFMR GRIEF CIRCLE PROGRAM:
    If you're longing for intimate, ongoing group support, apply now for the Ascend TFMR Grief Circle
    💜 Small, intimate groups of 5–6 people
    💬 Honest conversation, healing practices, and community support
    🌿 Next Wed. 7pm Eastern time round begins Spe. 24th 2025
    👉 Learn more & apply: http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/ascend-apply

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    Want early access to new podcast episodes and a chance to ask questions live? Join our private Facebook group, the TFMR Support Circle. You'll get to witness the raw, unedited version of my solo episodes before anyone else. You can also join in live and share your comments and get your questions answered to shape the episodes.

    Application only, free membership:
    http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup

    🎙 Want to share your story?
    Email Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: sabrina [at] theTFMRdoula [dot] com

    Music credit:
    Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
    Creative Commons License
    Links: https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=usuan1300036
    License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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    20 mins
  • YES back to school IS as hard as it feels after TFMR baby loss
    Sep 8 2025

    If the back-to-school season has you feeling like you’re drowning, this episode is for you.

    If September is hitting you like a freight train of grief, you're not imagining alone. Even if your baby's condition was fatal, even if you live somewhere without fall school starts - this season carries a weight that others can't see. The anger, the longing, the guilt over feeling joy while grieving the school years that will never come for THIS BABY…all of those feelings are valid, and all of it makes perfect sense.

    There's a reason why back-to-school grief cuts so deep for TFMR families, and it has everything to do with a truth about love that death can't touch. When you understand what's really happening in your heart during these triggered moments, the pain doesn't disappear, but finally, FINALLY, it makes sense. Listen in to hear WHY back to school time IS as hard as it feels after termination baby loss.

    TFMR GRIEF CIRCLE PROGRAM:
    If you're longing for intimate, ongoing group support, apply now for the Ascend TFMR Grief Circle
    💜 Small, intimate groups of 5–6 people
    💬 Authentic connection with TFMR parents, healing practices, and community support
    🌿 Next Wed. 7pm Eastern time round begins Sep. 24th, Thurs. 11am Eastern/4pm U.K. begins Sep. 25th
    👉 Learn more & apply: http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/ascend-apply

    ....

    Want early access to new podcast episodes and a chance to ask questions live? Join our private Facebook group, the TFMR Support Circle. You'll get to witness the raw, unedited version of my solo episodes before anyone else. You can also join in live and share your comments and get your questions answered to shape the episodes.

    Application only, free membership:
    http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup

    🎙 Want to share your story?
    Email Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: sabrina [at] theTFMRdoula [dot] com

    Music credit:
    Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
    Creative Commons License
    Links: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4193-pamgaea
    License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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    19 mins
  • Jessica Correnti - "Supporting Surviving Siblings after TFMR"
    Aug 25 2025

    When you’re going through your own TFMR grief while trying to protect and support your living children, it can feel impossible to know what's "right." How much do you share? What's too much? What if you say the wrong thing?

    Jessica Correnti, Certified Child Life Specialist, author and fellow baby loss mom, joins us to talk through the tender territory of supporting surviving siblings after TFMR. If you've been walking on eggshells around your kids, wondering how to honor their baby sibling while protecting their innocence, this conversation will give you both permission and practical tools.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • The surprising ways children process grief (hint: it might look nothing like adult grief)

    • Why kids need repetition and play to work through loss

    • Age-appropriate ways to talk about the baby who died without overwhelming young minds

    • One gentle first step overwhelmed parents can take today to support their child's grief journey

    • What TFMR parents need to hear most when supporting living children through this loss

    Jessica's wisdom will help you trust your instincts while giving your surviving children the space and support they need to process this profound loss in their own way.

    Resources mentioned:

    • The ABCs of Grief by Jessica Correnti

    • The ABCs of Grief: Emotions & Feelings by Jessica Correnti

    • Forever Connected by Jessica Correnti

    • Por Siempre Conectados (Spanish translation) by Jessica Correnti

    More about all her books here: https://www.kidsgriefsupport.com/childrensgriefbooks


    MORE TFMR GRIEF SUPPORT RESOURCES:

    www.thetfmrdoula.com/resources to see guides, meditations, courses and current group offerings


    🎙 Want to share your story?
    Email Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: sabrina [at] theTFMRdoula [dot] com

    Music credit:
    Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
    Creative Commons License
    Links: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4193-pamgaea
    License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/


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    37 mins
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