We’ve all been there—checking our phones, rereading the last message, wondering why he hasn’t texted back yet. But here’s the truth: sitting around waiting for his text isn’t just frustrating—it’s a waste of your time and energy. In this episode, we’re talking about how to shift your focus away from your phone and back onto you. From staying busy and investing in yourself to setting healthy communication expectations, we’re covering everything you need to break the habit of waiting around and start living your best life.

Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating should be fun, exciting, and full of potential—but sometimes, we sabotage ourselves without even realizing it. Whether it’s texting too much, overanalyzing every interaction, or ignoring red flags, small missteps can add up and get in the way of building a real connection. And let’s be honest, dating can already be challenging enough—you don’t need to make it harder on yourself. The good news is most dating mistakes are completely avoidable. In this episode, we’re breaking down the most common pitfalls that can derail a great connection and how to steer clear of them. Whether you’re new to dating or looking to refine your approach, we’ve got you covered.

Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating a man with kids is a completely different experience than dating someone without them. His priorities, schedule, and lifestyle will always revolve around his children, as they should. If you’re considering a relationship with a father, you need to manage your expectations and understand what comes with it—both the challenges and the rewards. In this episode, we’re breaking down everything you need to know before dating a man with kids. From understanding where you fit into his life to navigating potential complications with an ex, we’ll help you decide if this is the right path for you.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We’ve all had that nightmare scenario—you run out for a quick errand in your worst sweats, messy hair, no makeup… and then boom—you run into your ex. Even worse? He’s with someone new, and you’re standing there looking like you just rolled out of bed. This episode is all about why looking presentable isn’t just about him—it’s about you. When you look good, you feel good, and that confidence changes how you carry yourself. Whether you’re running errands or heading to brunch, we’re talking about how to always feel put together, effortlessly stylish, and ready for whatever (or whoever) comes your way.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

You’ve moved on, life is good, and then suddenly—your ex reaches out. Maybe they lost a job, a loved one, or are just going through a rough patch. The question is: What do you do? Do you offer support, ignore them, or set clear boundaries? In this episode, we’re talking about how to navigate this tricky situation. The answer isn’t always black and white—it depends on the circumstances of your breakup, your current relationship status, and what they’re asking of you.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

What does the best version of you look like? How does she feel? How does she carry herself? Becoming the woman of your dreams isn’t about chasing perfection—it’s about stepping into the life you truly want and becoming the most confident, fulfilled version of yourself. In this episode, we’re breaking down how to build yourself up, prioritize self-care, cultivate confidence, and create a life that feels aligned with who you really are. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to level up, this is your sign to take action.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We all have a past—things we’ve done, experiences we’ve had, and moments we’re not necessarily proud of. But when you start dating someone, how much of that past should you share? And more importantly, when should you share it? In this episode, we’re breaking down the do’s and don’ts of revealing personal information in relationships. From knowing what’s appropriate to share early on to understanding when full transparency is necessary, we’ll help you navigate this tricky conversation without oversharing or keeping unnecessary secrets.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Women today are more independent and capable than ever, and that includes choosing to have children on their own. Whether it’s through IVF, sperm donation, or adoption, more women are deciding not to wait for the “perfect” partner to start a family. But how do men feel about this? In this episode, we’re breaking down what guys really think about dating a woman who had kids on her own, how it impacts relationships, and why for some men, it’s actually easier than dating a single mom with an ex. If you’re considering having kids on your own—or just curious about how it plays into dating—we’ve got you covered.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography