I revisit my 2020 conversation with Charlie Kirk, recorded during a time when we discussed pressing issues around masculinity, responsibility, and the future of our culture. In light of the tragic news of Charlie’s passing after the horrific shooting at Utah Valley University on September 10th, 2025, I share this episode in his honor.

We cover topics such as the hyper-feminization of boys, the need for strong male role models, and the responsibility men carry to lead with courage and conviction. Let’s honor Charlie’s legacy by carrying forward the work he dedicated his life to.

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In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle questions from the Order of Man community around productivity, energy management, and living with greater intention. From balancing family responsibilities with work, to eliminating distractions and staying aligned with long-term goals, they dive deep into practical strategies men can apply right now.

They also cover tools for planning, handling setbacks with resilience, and the value of family meetings. Plus, updates on the Iron Council and the importance of choosing growth over mere compliance.

00:00 News headlines – Phillies “crazy Karen”
08:32 Shifting AMA format & topics
09:18 Work-life balance & energy
19:07 Refocusing after interruptions
22:36 Full alignment in planning
31:22 Income and spending trackers
32:15 Writing vs. digital planning
34:39 Recommended tools
42:48 Weekly family meetings
47:03 Best time to plan
51:19 Mindset when plans go off track
01:00:29 Iron Council promotion & Facebook group

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If you’ve ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don’t know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children.

My guest today, Attorney David Pissara, has made it his life’s work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law.

00:17 – Introduction and Context
01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce
02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership
08:33 – Marriage as a Contract
12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements
17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women
20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment
21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation
25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice
28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations
31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences
36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment
37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce
39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships
43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders
46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders
49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces
52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House?
54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles
57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities
59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact
01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce
01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges
01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy
01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions

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In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down what it really means to be vulnerable “like a man.” He challenges the popular narrative that vulnerability is strength in itself and instead explains how it should be used as a tool for growth. Ryan outlines why discernment matters, how goals must shape openness, and why solutions must accompany weakness.

Listeners will walk away with a sharper, more practical understanding of vulnerability—stripped of fluff and grounded in responsibility. This episode is a call for men to embrace honesty without falling into the trap of empty exposure.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Rethinking vulnerability
02:30 – Vulnerability as weakness
04:40 – Exercising discernment
09:00 – Setting goals for openness
11:20 – Pairing vulnerability with solutions
18:00 – Vulnerability plus solutions equals results
20:20 – Iron Council promotion
22:45 – Closing thoughts

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In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler dives into daily efficiencies, planning systems, and the power of structure in building a productive life. He answers listener questions on balancing flexibility with discipline, handling unexpected events, creating rituals around planning, and becoming an early riser.

Ryan also shares practical tactics like using buffers, after-action reviews, and categorizing different types of days to stay consistent and effective. Whether you’re aiming for better routines or long-term growth, this conversation offers actionable strategies you can apply immediately.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Introduction and episode setup
02:14 – Balancing flexibility and structure
06:59 – Consistency with non-traditional work schedules
11:44 – Daily tactics for continual growth
16:30 – Handling the unexpected in planning
21:10 – Becoming an early riser
25:50 – Making daily planning a ritual
33:57 – Closing thoughts and resources

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Over time, it’s likely that you have drifted off course. Like a boat without a navigator, it’s easy to let the current of reality, overwhelm, and frustration take you off course. My guest today, Larry Hagner has been a father for over two decades and knows firsthand what the drift looks like as a dad and how to steer yourself back on course.

Today, we talk about staying awake and vigilant when it comes to leading your wife and kids, the first “domino” to fall before things go horribly wrong, how to get your wife back on course if she starts to drift, in what ways do you become lethargic, monotonous, and bland in your life (and, what to do about it), and learning to build “conversations of curiosity.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up
00:11 - Larry’s Knee Injury Discussion
04:33 - The Forge Event Recap
04:57 - The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood Book Launch
07:47 - Understanding the Drift
09:17 - Introducing Lance: The Avatar of the Drift
15:30 - Helping Your Spouse Overcome the Drift
16:12 - Getting Out of the Drift as a Man
23:51 - Coaching Consistency in Men
29:57 - Being a Man of Your Word
31:02 - Motivating Your Wife Respectfully
36:56 - Impact of Kids on Relationships
38:02 - Motivating and Guiding Children
41:50 - Creating Psychological Safety for Kids
47:22 - Building Trust Through Questions
53:30 - Navigating Single Fatherhood
55:09 - Finding Common Ground with Your Child
59:35 - Connecting with Larry and The Forge Event

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional life. Drawing from his own recent experiences, Ryan offers practical strategies and hard-earned insights to help men navigate betrayal with strength, clarity, and integrity. He emphasizes respect, self-control, and learning valuable lessons rather than succumbing to anger or despair. This episode is a call for men to rise above hardship, establish healthy boundaries, and move forward with resilience and purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Introduction
02:15 – Facing betrayal in life and business
04:37 – Responding with respect and rationality
06:50 – Treating innocent bystanders gracefully
09:12 – Learning the lessons from betrayal
11:32 – Recognizing red flags early
13:54 – Building strong boundaries
18:43 – Final thoughts and encouragement

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging AMA episode of the Order of Man podcast. They kick off with light-hearted banter on Labor Day plans and "fake holidays," then dive into a headline sparking debate: Cracker Barrel's logo change and why people fixate on trivial issues.

Listener questions cover helping kids handle bullies, pacing new relationships, picky eaters, prioritizing battle plan tactics, monetizing podcasts, hard-fought life lessons, and staying focused amid chaos. Packed with practical advice on masculinity, family, and self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Opening Banter and Setup
00:58 - Weekend Plans and Labor Day Discussion
02:45 - Headline: Cracker Barrel Logo Controversy
11:50 - Helping Kids Navigate Bullies
25:11 - Pacing a New Relationship
37:23 - Dealing with Picky Eaters
40:38 - Prioritizing Battle Plan Tactics
43:23 - Monetizing Podcasts and Iron Council Origins
45:45 - Biggest Hard-Fought Lessons
01:07:22 - Maintaining Focus in Crises
01:21:49 - Episode Wrap-Up and Calls to Action

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