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Order of Man

Order of Man

By: Ryan Michler
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Failures, victories, wins, and losses. We're exploring, uncovering, and unpacking the most valuable life lessons learned from the most successful men on the planet. Conversations include Jocko, Chris Williamson, Ben Shapiro, Dave Ramsey, David Goggins, Tim Tebow, Shawn Ryan, Cam Hanes, Terry Crews, Matthew McConaughey, Adam Carolla, Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, Mark Manson, and so many more. If you want to learn how to be a better man, we've got you covered.Copyright © Order of Man 2024 Economics Social Sciences
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  • How Inflation, Scarcity, and Vanity Destroy Your Wealth | ASK ME ANYTHING
    Dec 17 2025

    In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the number one issue facing men today: money. From scarcity mindset and debt to retirement planning, investing, and raising financially responsible kids, the conversation blends practical financial wisdom with deeper insights on discipline, self-belief, and values.

    Ryan breaks down Dave Ramsey's baby steps, explains Roth vs. traditional IRAs, challenges popular budgeting rules, and shares how to instill abundance thinking in your family. A must-listen for men looking to build wealth without losing perspective.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 Financial stress and the current economy
    03:46 Physical baseline and discipline
    08:59 Scarcity vs. abundance mindset
    19:23 Dave Ramsey's seven baby steps
    26:01 Roth IRA vs. traditional IRA
    34:45 The 50-30-20 budgeting rule
    37:29 Building wealth in an underpaid career
    45:08 Teaching kids financial discipline
    56:18 Iron Council and end-of-year call to action

    Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

    Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

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    1 hr
  • JACK DONOVAN| Why Outrage Culture Undermines Masculinity
    Dec 16 2025

    Too many men today aren't struggling because they lack information. They're struggling because they're drowning in noise. And, I think it's time we start unpacking why the "modern masculinity" space has become obsessed with hot takes, call-outs, online outrage, and performative "accountability" - and why none of it builds strong men, meaningful connection, or lasting improvement.

    Today I'm joined by my friend, Jack Donovan, to talk about why gossip masquerades as moral authority, how "calling men out" often replaces real accountability, the difference between integrity, honor, and reputation, why social media rewards division, not leadership, the dangers of pedestalizing others—and why men need a code to live by.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
    00:00 - Studio Setup & Creative Work
    02:24 - Why the Right Needs to Create Culture
    04:22 - The Problem With Hot Takes
    06:06 - Engagement vs. Building a Movement
    08:17 - Writing as Intellectual Discipline
    10:16 - AI Art, Aesthetics, and Snobbery
    12:01 - Giving People the Benefit of the Doubt
    14:11 - Funding Art and Leaving a Legacy
    17:07 - Storytelling as Masculine Power
    19:33 - Integrity as Aesthetic Congruence
    21:09 - Integrity vs. Disintegration
    23:14 - Faith, Ritual, and Mental Wholeness
    25:16 - Philosophy as a Code of Conduct
    26:50 - Honor as Reputation
    30:13 - Tribalism and Dehumanization
    33:18 - Why Men Gossip
    36:49 - Malicious Gossip vs. Accountability
    41:14 - Reality TV Culture and Privacy
    44:43 - Judging Without Context
    46:22 - The Danger of Moral Pedestals
    49:32 - Hubris and Public Failure
    52:31 - The Trust Recession
    55:29 - Projection and False Narratives
    58:51 - Redemption and Change

    Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

    Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

    For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

    Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Your Standards > Your Goals | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
    Dec 12 2025

    Most men obsess over goals - the outcomes, the achievements, the shiny targets. But goals don't build men. Standards do.
    In today's Field Notes, Ryan breaks down why standards define your identity, how they outperform goals in every way, and why your life only changes when you elevate the rules you live by. He shares powerful examples, including recovering from a major injury, why men fail when they rely on motivation, and how to build standards that make you unshakable.

    Ryan also outlines a four-step framework to reset your identity, eliminate weak standards, and cement the behaviors that transform your life. If you want 2026 to be different, this episode explains exactly where to start.

    Key Takeaways
    Goals are emotionally dependent, standards are identity-based.
    Standards keep you anchored in the present - goals keep you trapped in the future.
    Goals collapse under adversity; standards strengthen you because they're non-negotiable.
    A man becomes powerful when he lives by a code with zero negotiation.
    Your life changes when your identity upgrades, not when your goals get bigger.

    Four-step framework to build standards that stick:
    -Identify the man you refuse to be.
    -Build non-negotiables in all four quadrants (Calibration, Connection, Condition, Contribution).
    -Build accountability.
    -Enforce consequences when you violate your own standards.

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:09 - Why Most Men Get Goals Backwards
    01:20 - Goals Don't Build Men — Standards Do
    02:33 - Examples of Weak vs. Strong Standards
    04:34 - Ryan's Pec Tear: Standards in Adversity
    06:24 - A Man Rises or Falls to His Standards
    07:50 - Why Goals Fail Men
    09:33 - How Goals Delay Action and Keep Men Stuck
    11:23 - Goals Collapse Under Stress
    12:57 - Standards Create Structure and Strength
    14:38 - How Standards Transform a Man
    16:10 - Standards Prevent Moral Drift
    17:32 - Building Trust Through Consistency
    18:57 - Standards Make Men Anti-Fragile
    21:03 - Stop Waiting for "All Green Lights"
    22:43 - Identity Before Action
    23:28 - Fast Progress Comes From Identity Shifts
    24:26 - The "Light Yourself on Fire" Lesson
    25:14 - Reverse Engineering Goals Into Standards
    25:57 - Step 1: Identify the Man You Refuse to Be
    27:38 - Making Weak Behaviors Repulsive
    29:31 - Step 2: Non-Negotiables in the Four Quadrants
    31:32 - Step 3: Accountability
    33:00 - Step 4: Enforce Consequences
    33:42 - Final Challenge: Raise Your Standards
    35:45 - Iron Council Promotion
    36:33 - Preview Call Details

    Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

    Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

    For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

    Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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    39 mins
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