I revisit my 2020 conversation with Charlie Kirk, recorded during a time when we discussed pressing issues around masculinity, responsibility, and the future of our culture. In light of the tragic news of Charlie’s passing after the horrific shooting at Utah Valley University on September 10th, 2025, I share this episode in his honor.

We cover topics such as the hyper-feminization of boys, the need for strong male role models, and the responsibility men carry to lead with courage and conviction. Let’s honor Charlie’s legacy by carrying forward the work he dedicated his life to.

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In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle questions from the Order of Man community around productivity, energy management, and living with greater intention. From balancing family responsibilities with work, to eliminating distractions and staying aligned with long-term goals, they dive deep into practical strategies men can apply right now.

They also cover tools for planning, handling setbacks with resilience, and the value of family meetings. Plus, updates on the Iron Council and the importance of choosing growth over mere compliance.

00:00 News headlines – Phillies “crazy Karen”
08:32 Shifting AMA format & topics
09:18 Work-life balance & energy
19:07 Refocusing after interruptions
22:36 Full alignment in planning
31:22 Income and spending trackers
32:15 Writing vs. digital planning
34:39 Recommended tools
42:48 Weekly family meetings
47:03 Best time to plan
51:19 Mindset when plans go off track
01:00:29 Iron Council promotion & Facebook group

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If you’ve ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don’t know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children.

My guest today, Attorney David Pissara, has made it his life’s work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law.

00:17 – Introduction and Context
01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce
02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership
08:33 – Marriage as a Contract
12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements
17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women
20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment
21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation
25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice
28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations
31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences
36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment
37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce
39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships
43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders
46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders
49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces
52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House?
54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles
57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities
59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact
01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce
01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges
01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy
01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions

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Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

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