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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

By: Ruan Willow
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Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.© 2025 Ruan Willow Pink Infinity Publishing LLC and Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Hygiene & Healthy Living
Episodes
  • Two Hot Santa Stories, Excerpt Santa Gives An Erotic Gift, and Unwrap Me The Full Story
    Dec 23 2025

    Season 5, Episode 702: Two Hot Santa Stories, An Excerpt from Santa Gives An Erotic Gift (get the full story on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/posts/naughty-santa-75274414 and Unwrap Me (The Full Story is in the episode).

    Santa Gives An Erotic Gift:

    Join a woman, let's call her Mrs. Claus, on a sensual erotic journey in this sexy story where her lover dresses up as Santa. He intends to give her what she's always wanted because she's been a good girl. She's waiting for her lover to return home for their annual Santa-spanking intimate holiday date. He instructs her to dress up in Mrs.Claus lingerie and put on a blindfold. She is to sit on the couch to wait for her sexy surprise. She's so horny and excited that she can hardly contain herself. Her holiday joy explodes when she realizes the erotic gift her lover has gifted her; she gets just what she wants for Christmas.

    The story is told in first person from the woman's perspective in mostly internal monologue style.

    Unwrap me by the tree:

    A fun loving spicy Christmas tale of an at home HOT date where she gets unwrapped by the tree, and she's wearing the paper! Told in 2nd person.

    Other Holiday Erotic Fiction Stories:

    Holiday Smut: Santa Gives 12 Orgasms of Christmas

    The Smutty Little Holiday Audiobook Smutty Spicy Holiday Stories

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    Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! Thanks for listening!

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    43 mins
  • From Compulsion to Connection, One Man's Recovery from Sex Addiction
    Dec 19 2025

    Season 5, Episode 701: Topics include Relationships, Confessions, Personal story, sexuality and intimacy.

    Guest: Gallo Chingon

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/gallo.s.chingon/ Reddit https://www.reddit.com/user/gallo-s-chingon/

    Have you ever wondered where the line falls between enjoying sex and using it as an escape?

    Gallo Chingon sat through Celebrate Recovery meetings out of boredom, supporting a friend, when someone else's addiction story struck him with unexpected force. By mentally replacing "drugs" with "sex" in the speaker's words, he suddenly recognized his own patterns—nineteen out of twenty behaviors driven purely by pursuit. For nearly twenty years, he'd measured his masculinity by numbers, treating women disposably and manipulating without remorse (behavior that eventually contributed to homelessness). When his ex-wife revealed his betrayals to their daughter at age twelve, it severed their relationship for over twenty years.

    Through therapy and programs like Celebrate Recovery, Gallo learned the crucial distinction between sex and intimacy. "They're fundamentally different experiences," he explains. While he now maintains a polyamorous relationship and works actively with therapists to build emotional connection, he still struggles to link physical intimacy with genuine feelings. His damaged dopamine and oxytocin systems leave him emotionally numb during sex, even as he pursues healthier long-term partnerships.

    By understanding the difference between using sex as stress relief and creating meaningful connection, it transformed everything.

    Listen how recognizing addiction patterns can open pathways to genuine intimacy and personal growth.

    Key Takeaways:

    • **Sex addiction operates identically to substance addiction, though are not the same because no substance is involved** — Gallo's compulsive sexual behavior triggered the same dopamine-seeking cycle as drugs, revealing that behavioral addictions can be neurologically equivalent to chemical dependencies rather than mere moral failings.

    • **Chronic sexual compulsion creates emotional numbness** — Rather than seeking pleasure, his addictive patterns actually dulled his capacity to feel, making genuine intimacy impossible and trapping him in a paradoxical cycle where more sexual activity meant less actual sensation.

    • **Recovery doesn't eliminate the struggle** — Even within a polyamorous relationship with therapeutic support, Gallo continues wrestling with integrating physical and emotional connection, demonstrating that healing is ongoing rather than a destination, and structured recovery alone cannot solve the deeper relational work required.

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt
    Dec 16 2025

    Season 5, Episode 700: By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt. We are by the bonfire one steamy night and things get extra hot. Enjoy this sexy bonfire sex game told in the second person, so "you" participate in this sexy scene where pretending to be horny fireflies turns into kinky intense hide and seek.

    This story is a yummy display of consensual desires and a rendering of delicious exciting masculine dominance and alluring lush feminine submission.

    Contains light BDSM elements, language, and rich moaning.

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    16 mins
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