In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Veteran Advocate, Toni Moses about the complexities of navigating VA benefits for veterans and their families. Toni shares her personal journey as a Service-Disabled Veteran and emphasizes the importance of understanding available resources, including the role of Veteran Service Officers. The conversation covers essential documentation needed for claims, recent legislative changes affecting veterans, and the significance of support for caregivers. Toni provides valuable insights and case studies to illustrate the impact of advocacy on veterans' lives.

Takeaways

• Toni Moses is a Service-Disabled Veteran and advocate for veterans.
• Navigating the VA benefits system can be complex and overwhelming.
• Veteran Service Officers are crucial for assisting with claims.
• Documentation like the DD214 is essential for filing claims.
• Recent legislation has expanded benefits for veterans and their families.
• The VA has expedited processes for elderly or terminally ill veterans.
• Caregivers can access benefits for in-home care assistance.
• Many veterans may not know they are eligible for service-connected benefits.
• Disabled American Veterans provide comprehensive support for veterans.
• It's important for families to stay informed about changes in veteran benefits.

Resources

Disabled American Veterans - Office Locator

https://www.dav.org/find-your-local-office/

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In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with David MacMahan, founder of FairSplit.com, about the emotional complexities of dividing personal belongings during estate settlements. David shares his personal experiences that led him to create FairSplit, a platform designed to help families navigate the often difficult process of estate division with transparency and fairness. The conversation covers the importance of estate planning, the emotional attachments to belongings, and how AI technology can streamline the inventory process. David explains the FairSplit system, which allows families to list items, express their preferences, and ultimately divide belongings in a way that minimizes conflict. The episode emphasizes the need for open conversations about aging and estate planning, providing listeners with valuable insights and resources to prepare for these challenging discussions.

Takeaways

• David MacMahan founded FairSplit to help families divide belongings peacefully.
• Personal experiences with loss inspired David to create a better system for estate division.
• Transparency in estate planning can prevent conflicts among heirs.
• AI technology significantly reduces the time needed to inventory belongings.
• Emotional attachments to items can complicate the division process.
• Families often underestimate the overwhelm of estate division without a system.
• FairSplit allows for a structured and fair way to divide personal property.
• The emotional value of items often outweighs their monetary value.
• Open conversations about aging and estate planning are crucial for families.
• Utilizing technology can ease the burden of estate management.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to FairSplit and David MacMahan
01:43 The Emotional Dynamics of Estate Division
04:50 Personal Stories Behind the Passion
06:16 The Importance of Estate Planning
08:45 Utilizing AI for Home Inventory
10:22 Legal Considerations in Estate Division
11:29 The Value of Sentimental Items
14:24 Understanding True Value in Estates
19:19 How FairSplit Works
23:56 Navigating Family Divisions and Fairness
25:17 The Role of AI in Estate Management
26:51 Overcoming the Overwhelm of Moving
27:34 Engaging Family in the Process
29:19 Utilizing Technology for Inventory Management
30:48 Setting Expectations and Responsibilities
32:56 Avoiding Conflicts in Estate Division
33:51 Resources for Executors and Families
38:10 Promoting Transparency and Fairness
42:44 Proactive Planning for Family Assets

Resources

PROMO Code NRYTRYAI for the Starter Inventory ($79.99 value) found here: https://www.fairsplit.com/plans/home-inventory/

Resources Page for Sample Letter of Instruction and 5 Tips to avoid conflict in estates: https://www.fairsplit.com/helpful-tips-and-videos/

YouTube Channel for Dividing Things with David and other tips: https://www.youtube.com/@DivvyMaster

Printable flyers on this page: https://www.fairsplit.com/resources/printables/


Keywords

FairSplit, estate planning, emotional attachments, AI inventory, family conflict, personal belongings, estate division, downsizing, family resources, transparency

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In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a profound conversation with C. Vicki Gold, PT, MA, a semi-retired physical therapist, about the aging journey. At 81 years young, Vicki truly is a lifelong student of transformation. She has woven together science, movement, and personal growth in such a unique way. Vicki shares her insights on the importance of learning the ABCs of aging, which encompass alignment, breathing, and centering. She emphasizes the significance of self-talk, intentional living, and the role of feet in maintaining balance. Vicki also discusses her personal experiences with aging and offers practical advice for adult children on how to communicate effectively with their aging loved ones. The conversation is rich with strategies for enhancing quality of life as we age, encouraging listeners to embrace the journey with curiosity and resilience.

Takeaways

• Aging is a journey that can be embraced with curiosity.
• The ABCs of aging include alignment, breathing, and centering.
• Self-talk significantly impacts our mindset and actions.
• Feet play a crucial role in maintaining balance as we age.
• Intentional living is essential for a fulfilling life.
• Communication with aging loved ones should be open and respectful.
• Small, consistent actions can lead to significant changes.
• Aging can bring a sense of freedom and opportunity.
• It's important to challenge negative beliefs about aging.
• Practicing mindfulness and awareness can enhance quality of life.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Aging Conversations
01:43 The ABCs of Aging Safely
05:21 Mind-Body Connection in Aging
07:27 The Importance of Self-Talk
11:45 Challenging Aging Myths
16:27 The Power of Intention and Visualization
21:27 Understanding the Alexander Technique
25:09 The Central Cylinder and Postural Alignment
28:40 The Importance of Conscious Breathing
31:45 Breathing Techniques for Better Health
33:54 Embracing Aging and Personal Freedom
37:06 Effective Communication with Aging Parents
39:18 Encouraging Active Lifestyles in Loved Ones
41:10 The Book and Its Benefits

Resources

Link to Book: https://thera-fitness.com/the-book/

Email Vicki: vicki@thera-fitness.com

Social Media Links:
o Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheraFitness
o LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cvickigoldptma/
o Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/c.vicki.gold/

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