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Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey

Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey

By: Lisa Harper
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Helping to change the conversations we have with our loved ones about aging and life decisions. Each episode contains information to help you and your family work through the "not ready yet" conversation of aging.

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  • Interview with Marty Stevens-Heebner, Expert Senior Move Manager, Author, and Podcast Host
    Aug 26 2025

    In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Marty Stevens-Heebner, an expert in Senior Move Management. They discuss the emotional complexities of moving for older adults, the role of Senior Move Managers, and the importance of effective communication with aging parents. Marty shares insights on the CLEANSE method for downsizing, the significance of estate planning conversations, and practical tips for organizing and navigating family dynamics during moves. The conversation emphasizes the need for resources like AgeWise Alliance to support families in the aging process and highlights the importance of creating a supportive environment for older adults during transitions.

    Takeaways

    • Moving is emotionally complex, especially for older adults.
    • Senior Move Managers help navigate the logistics and emotions of moving.
    • The CLEANSE method provides a structured approach to downsizing.
    • Starting the downsizing process early can reduce stress later.
    • The older generations often have strong attachments to their belongings.
    • Effective communication is key when discussing moves with aging parents.
    • Estate planning conversations should be approached with sensitivity.
    • Creating a supportive environment can ease the moving process.
    • Understanding family dynamics is crucial during a move.
    • Resources like AgeWise Alliance can help families find support.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Senior Move Management
    01:16 Understanding the Emotional Impact of Moving
    05:59 The Role of Senior Move Managers
    09:44 Navigating Family Dynamics During Moves
    11:13 Proactive vs. Reactive Moves
    12:38 Empathy in Conversations About Aging
    14:50 Estate Planning and Legacy Conversations
    17:57 The Importance of Collaborative Decision-Making
    21:42 Addressing Emotional Attachments to Belongings
    23:45 The Value of Giveaway Parties
    27:21 Final Thoughts on Moving and Downsizing
    28:54 The Cleanse Concept: Organizing Your Space
    32:49 Understanding the Downsizing Process
    35:37 Timelines and Strategies for Moving
    39:57 The Role of Move Managers
    43:29 Introducing AgeWise Alliance
    49:01 Embracing the Process of Aging

    Resources

    • Clear Home Solutions: https://clearhomesolutions.com
    • Book link for "How to Move Your Parents (and still be on speaking terms)": https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9LLLFXM/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?
    • Podcast link for "How to Move Your Mom (and still be on speaking terms afterward": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-move-your-mom/id1576610243
    • National Association of Senior & Specialty Move Managers (NASMM): https://www.nasmm.org/


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    52 mins
  • Interview with Mark Conacher, Ending Slips in the Shower: The SENSTEC Story
    Aug 12 2025

    In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, host Lisa Harper discusses the critical issue of falls among older adults with Mark Conacher, Managing Director of SENSTEC-USA. They explore alarming statistics about falls, the innovative SENSTEC anti-slip shower tray, and the importance of bathroom safety in aging in place. Mark shares his journey from the kitchen and bath industry to advocating for safer bathroom designs, emphasizing the unique features of SENSTEC's product that enhance safety and comfort. The conversation also touches on the significance of professional installation and the broader implications of aging in place for caregivers and families.

    Takeaways

    - One in four adults aged 65 and older falls each year.
    - Falls are the leading cause of injury and injury-related death for older adults.
    - SENSTEC's anti-slip shower tray is designed to prevent slips and falls effectively.
    - Traditional anti-slip surfaces degrade over time, making them less effective.
    - The SENSTEC tray's unique dimples provide traction and comfort.
    - Confidence in the shower is crucial for older adults to maintain independence.
    - Testing methods like the pendulum test and barefoot ramp test are essential for safety validation.
    - Professional installation is vital for ensuring safety features are effective.
    - Aging in place requires thoughtful design that accommodates future needs.
    - Safety products can be aesthetically pleasing and not look medical.

    Chapters

    00:00 Understanding the Urgency of Falls Among Older Adults
    05:59 Innovative Solutions for Fall Prevention
    12:28 The Science Behind Anti-Slip Technology
    20:16 Installation Standards and Safety in Aging in Place
    29:50 The Importance of Professional Installation
    39:16 Aging in Place: A Personal Journey and Future Vision

    Resources

    https://senstec-usa.com/

    Email Mark: mark@senstec-usa.com

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    47 mins
  • Interview with Dr. Keith Ludwick, Senior Scams Expert - Author and Retired FBI Agent
    Jul 29 2025

    In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, host Lisa Harper speaks with Dr. Keith Ludwick, a retired FBI agent, expert on scams targeting seniors, and author of ScamSmart: An Expert's Guide to Spotting Scams and Living the Fraud Free Life. They discuss the alarming rise in scams, particularly affecting older adults, and the importance of education and awareness in preventing scams. Dr. Ludwick shares his personal journey into this field, the statistics surrounding scams, and practical advice for recognizing and responding to potential scams. The conversation also touches on the emotional and financial impacts of scams on families with aging loved ones and the distinction between scams and financial elder abuse. Dr. Ludwick emphasizes the need for a proactive approach to protect vulnerable populations and offers resources for education and support.

    Takeaways

    • Dr. Ludwick's background includes over 22 years with the FBI.
    • Education is key to preventing scams among seniors.
    • The average loss for seniors due to scams is significant.
    • 95% of scam victims never recover their funds.
    • Seniors are particularly vulnerable due to isolation and trust.
    • Urgency in financial decisions often indicates a scam.
    • It's important to approach concerns about scams with empathy.
    • Creating a scam advisor list can help seniors feel secure.
    • Awareness of different types of scams is crucial for prevention.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Scams and Aging

    02:51 The Impact of Scams on Seniors

    05:10 Understanding Scam Statistics

    07:36 Challenges in Recovering Lost Funds

    10:21 The Broader Implications of Scams

    13:18 Why Seniors Are Targeted

    15:58 The Role of Technology in Scams

    19:15 Recognizing and Responding to Scams

    21:48 Types of Scams and Their Dynamics

    26:21 The Emotional Toll of Scams

    29:31 Recognizing Red Flags in Scams

    32:57 The Role of AI in Modern Scams

    35:39 Protecting Yourself from Scams

    41:20 Understanding Financial Elder Abuse

    46:25 Guidance for Adult Children on Scam Awareness

    Contact Dr. Keith Ludwick

    www.stopscammingme.com

    Book Available Soon on Amazon: ScamSmart: An Expert's Guide to Spotting Scams and Living the Fraud Free Life

    LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/keith-ludwick-ph-d-76360560/

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    50 mins
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