Episodes

  • Unfiltered Obedience Revisit

    Unfiltered Obedience Revisit
    Sep 19 2025

    When you are called to obedience, you will be challenged to be obedient in the most difficult times. God is using that time to cultivate fruit in you, if you notice this, be still and obey. We all need good friends to call us out when they see us struggling to obey. We are grateful to the Fields for walking with us and reminding us what it means to obey. You will be encouraged, challenged, and inspired.

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    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Unfiltered Enneagram Wrap up

    Unfiltered Enneagram Wrap up
    Sep 4 2025

    Type 1 goes to 7 in health and 4 in stress

    Type 2 goes to 4 in health and 8 in stress

    Type 3 goes to 6 in health and 9 in stress

    Type 4 goes to 1 in health and 2 in stress

    Type 5 goes to 8 in health and 7 in stress

    Type 6 goes to 9 in health and 3 in stress

    Type 7 goes to 5 in health and 1 in stress

    Type 8 goes to 2 in health and 5 in stress

    Type 9 goes to 3 in health and 6 in stress

    We can all look to ways God is calling us to be more Christlike by understanding ourselves better and seeking to understand our mates better.

    Please reach out if you would like to meet with Lisa for Coaching

    Further resources:

    www.yourenneagramcoach.com

    Sleeping at last songs about the enneagram

    Enneacast

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • Unfiltered Enneagram Summer Ep 6

    Unfiltered Enneagram Summer Ep 6
    Aug 14 2025

    This week, Lisa and Jeff go rogue again and hit the road! We traveled all the way to Fort Collins Colorado to interview Lisa's Sister and her husband. Eric and Cassy Reeves are a type 1 and 9 respectively. We would like to say sparks fly in this episode, but it is hard for a type 9 to allow sparks to fly...especially if it involves conflict. We had such a beautiful and insightful conversation with this awesome couple! You will want to listen and share it.
    Type 1. Reformer/perfectionist
    Type 2. Peacemaker

    You can hear more from Eric and occasionally Cassy on their Church's podcast linked below.

    The Afterword a Podcast by The Town Church in Fort Collins, Colorado https://open.spotify.com/show/6ExO48oI9XMyh4jSKsQFCK?si=9e2975f02fbd47a1

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Unfiltered Enneagram Summer Ep 5

    Unfiltered Enneagram Summer Ep 5
    Jul 31 2025

    Tom and Susan Knittle will just bless you with their insight on marriage after 36 years. Empty nesters, parents of 4 sons, and a couple restored, the Knittles are a 3 and 8. This is a powerful combination and we know you will be challenged and encouraged by this conversation.

    Enneagram 3: Successful achiever/ Performer
    Enneagram 8: Challenger

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 37 mins
  • Unfiltered Enneagram and Marriage Summer

    Unfiltered Enneagram and Marriage Summer
    Jul 21 2025

    Type 4 is the Romantic Individualist
    Type 5 is the Investigative Thinker
    This week we bring back a guest couple from our talk about adoption November of 2023, Eric and Holli Kounce. We know you will be challenged and encouraged by this insightful conversation.

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 33 mins
  • Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 3

    Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 3
    Jul 3 2025

    We will dig deeper into numbers 6, 7, and 8 since those numbers are represented by Bryan, Lisa and Jeff. Can you relate to anything we say about a number?

    We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.

    1. Loyal Guardian or loyalist (Phobic or counter phobic)
    2. Entertaining Optimist
    3. Protective Challenger
    4. Peaceful Mediator

    Resources found at
    www.myenneagramcoach.com
    www.Enneagramandmarriage.com

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 2

    Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 2
    Jun 26 2025
    Should Christians use the Enneagram?Do your own research please! We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.Moral Perfectionist/ReformerSupportive Adviser/HelperSuccessful AchieverRomantic IndividualistInvestigative ThinkerResources found atwww.myenneagramcoach.comwww.Enneagramandmarriage.comWhat the Bible says about our unique personalitiesPsalm 139:14 - Embracing Your Uniqueness"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."We are wonderfully crafted by God’s hands, each with a unique design and purpose. This verse reminds us to celebrate our individuality and recognize the intricate care God has taken in creating us. Every detail about us is intentional and purposeful. Be encouraged that you are a masterpiece in God's eyes, perfectly made for His plans. [Embrace your uniqueness]with gratitude and confidence.1 Corinthians 12:4-6 - Using Your God-Given Gifts"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”God has given each of us unique gifts and talents. These differences are not just by chance but by God’s design to fulfill various roles in His kingdom. When we use our gifts, we reflect God’s creativity and wisdom. Take heart knowing your unique abilities are valuable and essential to God’s work. Use them to serve others and glorify Him.Jeremiah 1:5 - Your Unique Calling and Purpose"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."God has known us and set us apart for His purposes even before we were born. Our uniqueness is part of His divine plan and He has specific roles for us to play in His story. Feel encouraged that you are uniquely chosen and known by God for a special purpose. Trust in His plan for your life.Ephesians 2:10 - Uniquely Made for Good Works"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."As God’s handiwork, we are designed with intentionality and purpose to do good works. This verse highlights that our creation was not random but purposeful, with good works prepared for us to accomplish. Rejoice in knowing you are created with a divine purpose to fulfill. Step confidently into the good works God has planned for you.1 Peter 4:10 - Serving Others with Your Unique Abilities"Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."We are called to use our unique gifts to serve others, being faithful stewards of God’s grace. Our individuality allows us to reach and impact people in ways others cannot. Be encouraged that your unique gifts can [make a difference in the lives of others]. Serve with joy and faithfulness.Romans 12:6 - Diversity in Gifts"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith;"Each of us is graced with different gifts that reflect God’s creative spirit. This diversity in gifts ensures that all aspects of God’s work are covered. Embrace your unique gifts and use them [confidently] in faith. Your individuality is a crucial part of God’s plan.Exodus 9:16 - The Significance of Your Unique Purpose"But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth."God raises us up for specific purposes to display His power and proclaim His name. Our unique journeys and experiences are part of how God shows His greatness. Find comfort in knowing your life has a powerful purpose in God’s plan. You are part of something much bigger than yourself.Matthew 10:30 - God’s Attention to Detail"And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered."God knows every detail about us, even the number of hairs on our head. This level of care and attention shows just how precious we are to Him. Rest assured that God cares deeply about every aspect of your life. You are intimately known and loved by Him.Isaiah 64:8 - Uniquely Shaped by God"Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand."As clay in the Potter’s hands, we are carefully and lovingly shaped by God. Each of us is molded uniquely, reflecting [God’s creativity] and purpose. Trust that you are being molded into a unique and beautiful creation by God’s hands. Embrace the process, knowing the outcome is wonderfully made.Galatians 6:4 - Find Joy in Your Individual Path"Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in ...
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Unfiltered Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 1

    Unfiltered Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 1
    Jun 19 2025

    Enneagram The Greek word Ennea means 9 and Gram means points. The picture we often see drawn out is a 9 pointed star as a visual way for us to see each type and their tendencies.

    References and resources: Relate Better Enneacast Podcast, Enneagram and Marriage Podcast with Christa Hardin, MA, Becoming Us by Your Enneagram Coach Beth McCord.

    Gut Triad: 8 - 9 - 1

    Heart: 2 - 3 - 4

    Head: 5 - 6 - 7

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    Number 40 married Couple Podcast

    Number 96 in Christian Marriage Podcasts

    We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

    We hope to hear from you!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX
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    58 mins