In the last month, I lost both of my parents, who had been married for nearly 60 years. Their marriage had struggles, just like all marriages, but theirs was marked by deep devotion, rituals of connection, and faithfulness to the very end.

This episode is my tribute to them—and an invitation for you to discover the wisdom in their imperfect but inspiring love story.

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What if true intimacy in marriage isn’t about saying yes—but about having the freedom to choose?

In this honest and eye-opening episode of Marriage IQ, we sit down with relationship coach Amanda Louder to explore what consent, emotional safety, and self-awareness really look like in long-term, faith-based marriages. Amanda specializes in helping religious couples navigate sexual disconnect, and she brings wisdom, warmth, and practical tools to a conversation that’s too often avoided.

We dive into:

✅ Why consent still matters—even in marriage

✅ How to move from accommodation to agency in the bedroom

✅ The role of body awareness and curiosity in building desire

✅ What to do when your partner resists your growth

✅ How to express “no” with love—and keep connection alive

✅ Why desire is something we create, not just wait for

Amanda also shares how to overcome sexual inhibitions, communicate through conflict, and build a marriage where both partners feel safe, seen, and wanted.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old roles, disconnected from your own desire, or unsure how to talk about sex in your marriage—this episode is for you. It’s vulnerable, empowering, and full of hope.

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What if sexual agency isn’t just about saying “yes” or “no”—but about knowing yourself deeply enough to choose with intention? And what does healthy sexuality really look like in marriage—especially when you're navigating faith, family expectations, and years of silence around sex?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage IQ, we’re joined by certified sex and marriage coach Amanda Louder to unpack what it means to create a sexual relationship that aligns with your values and brings real joy. Whether you grew up in a conservative home or just never had the words to talk about sex, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you’ve been looking for.

We explore:

✅ Why self-awareness, agency, and alignment are the foundation of healthy sexual identity

✅ How to navigate cultural and religious messages around sex

✅ The Six Pillars of Sexual Health (including why consent still matters in marriage)

✅ How to develop confident, connection-building language around intimacy

✅ Why broadening your definition of sex can deepen emotional and physical connection

This episode is a gentle but powerful invitation to rethink old narratives, reclaim your voice, and build intimacy that’s honest, mutual, and deeply satisfying.

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This is Part 2 of our two-part series on mastering intimacy by slowing down in the bedroom. Most men rush through love making—yet most women need time to truly feel desire. The result? Frustration, disconnect, and missed opportunities for deeper intimacy.

In this episode of Marriage IQ, we take a deeper dive into the Sloth Strategy—a powerful approach that helps men create more satisfying, connected, and passionate experiences for their partners.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why female arousal works differently—and how to honor her unique rhythm

✅ The science of mental engagement and its role in her pleasure

✅ Practical tools to upgrade intimacy, including sensate touch, mindful gaze, and foreplay mastery

✅ How to overcome common orgasm barriers through communication, confidence, and patience

Plus, take our Masculine Intimacy IQ Test to see if you’re the lover your wife deserves—or if it’s time to channel your inner sloth.

Slow down. Tune in. Create the connection you both crave.

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Most men rush. Most women need time. That gap? It’s where intimacy often breaks down.

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage IQ, we introduce the Sloth Approach—a surprising but powerful analogy for male sexuality. Why a sloth? Because the best lovers move with patience, mindfulness, and purpose—not speed.

You’ll discover:
✅ Why slowing down can skyrocket your partner’s pleasure
✅ The hidden disconnect between female desire and arousal
✅ Why honesty, trust, and vulnerability are the real turn-ons
✅ What research says about submission fantasies, safety, and sexual satisfaction

If you’ve ever wondered why your wife isn’t as responsive as you’d like—or why intimacy sometimes feels rushed—this episode will change the way you think about sex. Learn how to create connection, safety, and passion that lasts.

Hit play, and let’s reimagine intimacy—sloth style.

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What happens when your personal passion becomes a public mission—and your marriage becomes the foundation for something bigger?

In Part 2 of our powerful conversation with Ben and Malissa McKay, Missy opens up about her journey to becoming Mrs. Texas American—and how her platform became a call to protect marriages and children from the devastating impact of pornography. Together, Ben and Missy share what it means to stand united in a world that often pulls couples apart.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

✅ The personal pain that led to Missy’s advocacy

✅ How pornography quietly—and powerfully—damages connection, trust, and intimacy

✅ Why supporting your spouse’s purpose can deepen your own

✅ What couples can do to protect their marriage and their kids

✅ The beauty of standing together in public and private battles

This isn’t just about pageants or platforms—it’s about passion, partnership, and the fight to build something that lasts. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn pain into purpose—or how to protect what matters most—this episode is for you.

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What happens when your dream feels too big—or your spouse’s dream feels like it’s pulling you apart?

In this real and relatable episode of Marriage IQ, we sit down with Ben and Malissa McKay to talk about what it really looks like to pursue personal goals inside a marriage. From beauty pageants and real estate ventures to unexpected babies and emotional breakdowns, their story is anything but picture-perfect—and that’s exactly why it matters.

You’ll learn how to:

✅ Support each other’s dreams without losing your own

✅ Make big decisions as a team (even when the outcome’s uncertain)

✅ Handle failure without blame

✅ Offer real, practical support that goes beyond “I believe in you”

✅ Stay emotionally connected when life gets messy

This episode is your permission slip to dream together—and to discover the kind of marriage that grows through passion, setbacks, and shared purpose.

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What happens when betrayal runs so deep that the very idea of forgiveness feels like a punch in the gut?

In this powerful episode of Marriage IQ, we dive into one of the most emotionally charged topics in relationships—what forgiveness is, what it isn’t, and why it’s so complicated.

From a 70-year-old woman who called forgiveness "the F word" after discovering her husband's double life, to Nobel Peace Prize winner Desmond Tutu’s radical example of grace during South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission, we explore real-life stories and cutting-edge research from Dr. Frank Fincham.

You’ll also hear a deeply personal story from Heidi about finally facing her ex-husband after decades of hurt—and finding unexpected peace. Whether you’re wrestling with resentment, wondering if forgiveness makes you weak, or trying to understand how to let go without forgetting, this episode will meet you where you are.

We’re not here to offer clichés. We’re here for the raw, messy, and deeply human journey of choosing peace over bitterness. Tune in—this might be the most important conversation you hear all year.

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