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Marriage iQ

Marriage iQ

By: Dr. Heidi Hastings and Dr. Scott Hastings
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Most couples were never taught how to build a great marriage. They were just told to work at it. But what actually works? Marriage IQ is a relationship podcast hosted by marriage and sex researcher Dr. Heidi Hastings and physician Dr. Scott Hastings. Each episode blends relationship science, real stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication in marriage, deepen intimacy, rebuild trust, and resolve conflict. If you want a stronger, more connected marriage, this podcast is for you. New episodes every Tuesday.495868 Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Episode 126 - 3 Tiny Fixes For a More Connected Marriage
    Apr 7 2026

    In Part 2 of our happiness series, we break down three more simple habits—eye contact, touch, and prayer—that can instantly deepen connection, boost intimacy, and even rewire your marriage relationship.

    Backed by research from Dr. Arthur Brooks and real-life experience, these small shifts can transform how you and your spouse feel—starting today.

    If you missed Part 1 of this episode, click this link to listen now.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/3V7FHAsRDshyo3Oee1uwPn?si=2abf96a03e8844cf

    👉Episode 7 : Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Hormones & Connection

    👉Episode 31 : From Roommates to Soulmates: Reviving Connection Through Daily Rituals

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  • Episode 125 - Are Happy Marriages Even Real?
    Mar 31 2026

    Are happy marriages actually real—or are most couples just figuring it out as they go?
    In this episode of Marriage iQ, we respond to a powerful listener question and unpack what truly creates a happy, connected, and fulfilling marriage.
    Drawing on insights from Arthur Brooks, we explore why happiness isn’t something you feel—it’s something you do.
    And one of the most overlooked ways to build a happy marriage?
    Having more fun together.
    If your relationship feels a little routine, disconnected, or stuck in logistics, this episode will show you how to bring back energy, laughter, and real connection.
    Because happy marriages don’t just happen—
    they’re built on purpose.
    What You’ll Learn:
    What actually makes marriages happy
    Why couples lose connection over time
    How fun and play rebuild intimacy
    Simple ways to feel close again

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    32 mins
  • Episode 124 - Why Men Are Shutting Down in Marriage
    Mar 24 2026

    Masculinity in marriage is under pressure—and it may be quietly hurting your relationship.

    In this episode of Marriage iQ, we break down the real reason many couples feel disconnected: the loss of masculine and feminine polarity.
    Drs. Heidi and Scott Hastings sit down with gender intelligence expert Andre Paradis, who shares how discovering he didn’t understand his own wife changed everything—and led him to study how men and women are wired differently.

    🔥 In this episode:

    ✨Why many men shut down in relationships
    ✨Why women feel emotionally alone—even when married
    ✨The difference between love and respect in male vs female psychology
    ✨How “nice guy” behavior can kill attraction
    ✨Why polarity—not equality—drives chemistry and connection

    This conversation is honest, provocative, and may challenge what you’ve been taught about relationships.

    👉 If you want deeper connection, stronger attraction, and a more energized marriage—start here.

    CONNECT WITH ANDRE PARADIS:🔗 Website: www.projectequinox.net

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