This episode highlights the warning signs you should consider if you're contemplating engagement but still harboring some lingering doubts. You may be astonished by how many individuals ignore their reservations and dive into an unhealthy marriage with the wrong partner, only to end up in a challenging situation.If the following list raises concerns for you, remember that there’s positive news waiting at the end of this episode.In the spirit of Jeff Foxworthy’s famous, "You might be a redneck if..." phrase, let me introduce: Premarital warnings: You could be on the verge of making a mistake if... Are you ready? Let’s dive in!

John and Jane Doe are experiencing a lack of intimacy in their marriage—it's essentially a sexless union—where they might only connect physically about 6-10 times a year. At first glance, it seems there’s no clear reason for the absence of sex in their relationship. Jane is beginning to think that they may have grown apart or are possibly falling out of love. Meanwhile, John suspects that she might be interested in someone else since she certainly doesn’t seem to be interested in him. However, the reality is that neither of these assumptions, nor any other potential explanations, are accurate. The truth is right in front of them: they have lost their emotional bond. — Perhaps due to unresolved conflicts. — Maybe because they are too preoccupied with other aspects of life. — But the most probable reason they feel more like roommates than a married couple is that they have neglected to nurture their emotional connection, and one of the most obvious signs of this neglect is in their bedroom.

It is tragic and frustrating when poor communication hurts an otherwise good relationship — and it happens more times than one might think. Common errors in thinking are made, leading to couples feeling distant and communicating less or ineffectively.

It is usually simple slip-ups such as, making assumptions about something the other person said, did, or thought—that were never clarified. When questions aren’t asked and clarification isn't sought, people begin to avoid talking things through in order to just “keep the peace!”

Consequently, more mistakes take place causing the distant feeling to grow stronger. I don’t know how many times I have listened to couples explain the details of their “major blowup” only to find it was essentially about nothing of any real substance.

Good communication skills can often eliminate a great deal of heartache in relationships. If you are struggling in this area, consider the following suggestions for promoting good communication between you and the one you love.