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We share what a second run through the STAIR program revealed about PTSD, emotion regulation, and the quiet signs of progress. A poem, a song, and a freezer‑door trick anchor simple tools you can use when the threat system takes over.

• outpatient stay at St John of God and why it helps
• STAIR explained as skills for emotion, communication, and boundaries
• feeling again after numbness and noticing growth
• drive, soothe, threat systems and why soothe shrinks in PTSD
• SUDS check‑ins, naming emotions, and body mapping
• practicing skills in the green zone to use in red
• fast arousal drops with cold, space, and grounding
• upcoming courses on sleep and trauma recovery
• pickleball, Persian food, and a lesson in humility
• season plan, holiday pause, and self‑kindness over comparison

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Song of the Week:

Andra Day - Rise Up

https://youtu.be/lwgr_IMeEgA

Thought of the Week:

"There will be a lot of posts soon from people sharing how much they achieved in 2025. But, in case someone needs to hear this.... It's okay if the only thing you did this year was just get through it"

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Season 1, Episode 32

We unpack a song-fueled habit challenge, explore how Emerge N See supports PTSD recovery with real community, and share honest moments from a week of anxiety spikes, parenting teens, and hard-won coping tools. Hope shows up through small steps, skilled support, and a thought that reframes struggle.

• song of the week and a one-habit challenge
• why Emerge N See exists and who it helps
• Connect Hubs as safe, funded peer connection
• donations and plans to interview the founders
• anxiety during everyday life and sport
• parenting teenagers while protecting recovery time
• coping unmedicated with CBD and THC oils
• outpatient skills program and Remembrance Day support
• craft, joy, and a reflection on post-traumatic growth

If everybody could take the time to share it, that would be amazing as well
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Song of the Weeks:

Kasey Musgraves - Deeper Well

https://youtu.be/TGkMYMxi-hw?si=G3UFnMiqxkxS1R31

Thought of the week:

"one day in retrospect the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful"

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Season 1, Episode 31

We trace a month of real life with PTSD: finding hope in a new Taylor Swift track, fighting a stubborn eye stye, stepping back onto the basketball court, buying a bigger bike, and learning from sleep shifts, med changes, and a comical dosing mistake. The theme running through it all is “choose your hard,” backed by kindness, small wins, and steady practice.

• applying song lyrics as coping tools
• storm to opaline reframing
• stye remedies and listener tips
• return to basketball with braces and tape
• new Kawasaki Versys 300 and group ride
• kindness from a fellow rider pacing safely
• sleep updates without prazosin and cannabis tolerance
• antidepressant pause, nightmares, and tracking
• Wegovy, weight changes, and self-respect
• the weed plus injection mishap and lessons
• fitness gains in pickleball and daily energy
• Black Dog Institute walk progress and pride
• the “choose your hard” mantra and examples

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Song of the Week

https://youtu.be/40l9KE36aNk?si=t3DCa9N72VvLyoXt

Thought of the Week:

"marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your hard. Obesity is hard. Fit is hard. Choose your hard. Being in debt is hard. Beining financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard. Communication is hard. Not communicating is hard. Choose your hard. Life will never be easy. It will always be hard. Choose wisely"