What happens when childhood trauma plants seeds of rejection and abandonment in your life? How do you break free from cycles that have shaped your identity and relationships for decades?

In this deeply moving conversation, Pastor LaToya Chrisman takes us through her remarkable journey from foster care to freedom. Placed in the system at just four years old due to her parents' substance abuse, LaToya shares how growing up in South Central LA led her to join a gang at 14, witnessing violence that no child should experience. Yet through it all, God's hand of protection remained.

LaToya reveals the profound truth that our early experiences create patterns that follow us into adulthood. "We become magnets," she explains, attracting what feels familiar even when it's harmful. Host Mariana connects through her own story of growing up with an alcoholic father who passed away when she was ten, showing how different paths of trauma can lead to similar struggles with identity and belonging.

The discussion ventures into territory rarely explored with such honesty – how the absence of parents creates voids in our understanding of ourselves. "A man is what gives a young girl her identity," LaToya shares, explaining how father wounds impact relationships with men, while mother wounds affect our ability to nurture and process emotions.

What makes this episode especially powerful is the hope it offers. Both women have transformed their pain into purpose, becoming beacons for others still walking through darkness. Their candid exploration of forgiveness reveals a liberating truth: our parents could only give what they themselves received. This understanding opens the door to breaking generational cycles.

The conversation culminates in a challenge about legacy: "What will people say about you when you're gone? How are you showing up day in and day out?" It's an invitation to consider not just healing for ourselves, but the impact our healing journey can have on generations to come.

Ready to transform your pain into purpose? Connect with LaToya through her website or social media to learn more about her books, counseling services, and ministry.

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What does it take to raise boys who respect women, contribute equally at home, and make wise choices? The answer may surprise you.

In this heart-stirring conversation, Mariana welcomes Iranda Chavez, mother of three grown sons, who bravely shares her journey through the challenges of boy-mom life. Kicking off the "She's Bold" series following Mariana's successful women's conference, this episode dives deep into the cultural expectations, faith foundations, and boundary-setting strategies that shaped Iranda's parenting approach.

"Boys will not be boys in my household," Iranda declares, recounting how she refused to accept the double standard many Hispanic families apply to sons versus daughters. Instead, she insisted her boys learn household skills, respect women, and understand accountability for their choices. Through personal stories—including her son's encounter with law enforcement after being in the wrong place with the wrong people—Iranda reveals the delicate balance between protection and allowing natural consequences to teach essential life lessons.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Iranda discusses how faith transformed her family dynamics. After witnessing domestic abuse, she was determined her sons would learn to treat women with dignity and respect. This commitment, coupled with intentional prayer and consistent boundaries, eventually bore fruit as her sons matured and recognized the wisdom in her approach. "Now that they're older, they'll tell me 'Mom, I'm so glad you were on me about these certain things because you're right, not everyone's my friend.'"

Today, Iranda has transformed her parenting experiences into a podcast called "Boy Moms Overcoming Obstacles" and contributed to an upcoming book, "Hearts of a Mother." Her message for listeners facing parenting challenges: "If you're going through chaos right now, just hold on to that faith. Things will come to pass in the Lord's timing. Remain faithful and be still."

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God cares more about your heart than your highlight reel as we explore what it truly means to be a woman after God's heart rather than chasing platforms, positions, or appearances. This episode challenges us to examine whether we're developing private character that can sustain public calling.

• Contrasting David and Saul's stories - one who chased God's heart versus one who prioritized appearances
• Our tendency to strive for validation through accomplishments, appearance, and approval from others
• How God uses seasons of hiddenness to develop our character before placing us on platforms
• The transformation process is like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly - painful but necessary
• Questions to reflect on: Are you striving more than surrendering? What does a heart after God look like in your life?
• Ways to cultivate intimacy with God by surrendering control and trusting His process

Join us for the She's Bold Women's Conference this May 2nd - a powerful Friday night of worship, teaching, community, and healing. And if you're ready to grow in God's word, hang out with us every Wednesday night at 7:30 for "Amiga, Ready to Read Your Bible" where we meet virtually to hear God speak. For deeper investment in yourself, reach out to learn more about the 12-week "Living Victoriously in Christ" program.

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Walking by faith means following God's instructions without always receiving complete explanations. When God speaks, He provides direction and expects obedience rather than offering detailed justifications for His commands.

• Biblical examples like Noah, Abraham, and Moses followed divine instructions without understanding the full picture
• True godly instructions align with scripture and bring peace, not fear or manipulation
• Discerning God's voice requires testing instructions against His word and character
• God looks at our heart posture more than the size of our contribution or action
• Taking steps of faith often means doing something despite fear or uncertainty
• Stepping out in faith for business, ministry, or personal growth requires trusting God's plan
• When you're the daughter of the King, you have everything needed to fulfill His purpose

Remember you are not just a mom, worker, or caretaker - you are God's daughter with unique gifts and purpose. Take that leap of faith today, even if you don't see the full picture yet.

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We dig into the common experience of feeling stuck in a rut while balancing family, career, ministry, and life's unexpected turns, exploring what God says about moving forward and finding renewed purpose.

• Personal story of reconnecting with friends and discovering one friend feeling stuck after transitioning from single life to multiple roles
• Cultural messaging that mothers must abandon personal dreams debunked through biblical examples
• Biblical women who overcame feeling stuck: Ruth, Esther, Hannah, Proverbs 31 woman, and Deborah
• Testimony of personal journey through career changes and discovering God's purpose through detours
• Encouragement that seasons of uncertainty are divine setups for something greater
• Challenge to journal about what's stirring in your heart and take one small step toward that dream

Don't forget our Amiga, Ready to Read Your Bible study group meets every Wednesday night at 7:30, and tickets for She's Bold Women's Conference on May 2nd are still available. Grab a copy of my book "MAMI on a Mission: A Guide Towards Healing, Self-Discovery and Walking in Confidence" on Amazon.

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Sisterhood is a divine gift that requires discernment to know which relationships are meant for a season and which are lifelong connections. We explore how godly friendships sharpen us while helping us recognize when relationships are pulling us away from our purpose.

• Personal journey through domestic violence revealed the critical importance of supportive friendships
• Biblical women like Mary, Elizabeth, Deborah and Esther demonstrate the power of collaboration over competition
• The woman at the well shows how isolation affects us and the difference between feeling alone versus lonely
• Addressing the cultural tendency toward gossip (chisme) and how it damages sisterhood
• Learning to celebrate other women's success instead of feeling threatened by it
• God as our ultimate friend who calls us by name and sees us in our struggles
• Invitation to join Amiga Ready to Read Bible study on Wednesdays at 7:30 pm CST

Join us for the She's Bold Women's Conference! Our current two-for-one special won't last long, so grab your tickets today on Eventbrite and bring your amiga for this transformative event.

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Mariana explores the difference between walking in God's purpose versus keeping busy to avoid dealing with deeper issues, challenging listeners to examine their relationship with busyness and rest.

• Recording from the beach as a deliberate choice to step away from routine
• Reflecting on how busyness can be a way to avoid sitting with uncomfortable thoughts
• The struggle of measuring self-worth by productivity instead of identity in Christ
• Scripture reminder that even God rested (Psalm 46:10)
• Examining if our busyness is purpose-driven or avoidance behavior
• The freedom found in understanding we are enough because of who we belong to, not what we do
• Practical steps for incorporating rest without guilt

Join us for the She's Bold Women Conference on May 2nd, 2025 at 7pm CST in Dickinson, Texas – a night of worship, powerful speakers, and connection with other women stepping into their God-given purpose. Get tickets on Eventbrite through the link in our show notes.

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This episode tackles the battle against negative thoughts and the lies that try to hold us back. Through practical steps grounded in biblical truth, we learn how to take control of our mindset, affirm God’s promises, and overcome mental struggles.

• Understanding the impact of negative thinking
• Recognizing the historical context of self-doubt
• Personal reflections on overcoming past struggles
• Practical strategies for combating negative thoughts
• The importance of affirmations and self-declaration
• Engaging in prayer as a means of surrender
• Reflective exercises to assess personal thought patterns
• Final encouragement and call to share the message

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