What happens when childhood trauma plants seeds of rejection and abandonment in your life? How do you break free from cycles that have shaped your identity and relationships for decades?

In this deeply moving conversation, Pastor LaToya Chrisman takes us through her remarkable journey from foster care to freedom. Placed in the system at just four years old due to her parents' substance abuse, LaToya shares how growing up in South Central LA led her to join a gang at 14, witnessing violence that no child should experience. Yet through it all, God's hand of protection remained.

LaToya reveals the profound truth that our early experiences create patterns that follow us into adulthood. "We become magnets," she explains, attracting what feels familiar even when it's harmful. Host Mariana connects through her own story of growing up with an alcoholic father who passed away when she was ten, showing how different paths of trauma can lead to similar struggles with identity and belonging.

The discussion ventures into territory rarely explored with such honesty – how the absence of parents creates voids in our understanding of ourselves. "A man is what gives a young girl her identity," LaToya shares, explaining how father wounds impact relationships with men, while mother wounds affect our ability to nurture and process emotions.

What makes this episode especially powerful is the hope it offers. Both women have transformed their pain into purpose, becoming beacons for others still walking through darkness. Their candid exploration of forgiveness reveals a liberating truth: our parents could only give what they themselves received. This understanding opens the door to breaking generational cycles.

The conversation culminates in a challenge about legacy: "What will people say about you when you're gone? How are you showing up day in and day out?" It's an invitation to consider not just healing for ourselves, but the impact our healing journey can have on generations to come.

Ready to transform your pain into purpose? Connect with LaToya through her website or social media to learn more about her books, counseling services, and ministry.

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What does it take to raise boys who respect women, contribute equally at home, and make wise choices? The answer may surprise you.

In this heart-stirring conversation, Mariana welcomes Iranda Chavez, mother of three grown sons, who bravely shares her journey through the challenges of boy-mom life. Kicking off the "She's Bold" series following Mariana's successful women's conference, this episode dives deep into the cultural expectations, faith foundations, and boundary-setting strategies that shaped Iranda's parenting approach.

"Boys will not be boys in my household," Iranda declares, recounting how she refused to accept the double standard many Hispanic families apply to sons versus daughters. Instead, she insisted her boys learn household skills, respect women, and understand accountability for their choices. Through personal stories—including her son's encounter with law enforcement after being in the wrong place with the wrong people—Iranda reveals the delicate balance between protection and allowing natural consequences to teach essential life lessons.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Iranda discusses how faith transformed her family dynamics. After witnessing domestic abuse, she was determined her sons would learn to treat women with dignity and respect. This commitment, coupled with intentional prayer and consistent boundaries, eventually bore fruit as her sons matured and recognized the wisdom in her approach. "Now that they're older, they'll tell me 'Mom, I'm so glad you were on me about these certain things because you're right, not everyone's my friend.'"

Today, Iranda has transformed her parenting experiences into a podcast called "Boy Moms Overcoming Obstacles" and contributed to an upcoming book, "Hearts of a Mother." Her message for listeners facing parenting challenges: "If you're going through chaos right now, just hold on to that faith. Things will come to pass in the Lord's timing. Remain faithful and be still."

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God cares more about your heart than your highlight reel as we explore what it truly means to be a woman after God's heart rather than chasing platforms, positions, or appearances. This episode challenges us to examine whether we're developing private character that can sustain public calling.

• Contrasting David and Saul's stories - one who chased God's heart versus one who prioritized appearances
• Our tendency to strive for validation through accomplishments, appearance, and approval from others
• How God uses seasons of hiddenness to develop our character before placing us on platforms
• The transformation process is like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly - painful but necessary
• Questions to reflect on: Are you striving more than surrendering? What does a heart after God look like in your life?
• Ways to cultivate intimacy with God by surrendering control and trusting His process

Join us for the She's Bold Women's Conference this May 2nd - a powerful Friday night of worship, teaching, community, and healing. And if you're ready to grow in God's word, hang out with us every Wednesday night at 7:30 for "Amiga, Ready to Read Your Bible" where we meet virtually to hear God speak. For deeper investment in yourself, reach out to learn more about the 12-week "Living Victoriously in Christ" program.

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SHEs BOLD Women's Conference: grab your ticket!

EmpowerHer Purpose Program

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EmpowerHer Purpose Guide

MAMI on a Mission LLC: info@mamionamission.com

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