What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back?

In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you to see your patterns in a whole new way. Are you ready to uncover the hidden goals that could be keeping you from moving forward?

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What do you do when you love someone deeply, but something still feels off in the relationship? In this week’s episode, I sit down with TV and podcast host Kamie Crawford to tackle one of the hardest situations in love: how to walk away from a relationship that’s full of love but missing the compatibility needed to really thrive.

We break down why love—while powerful—isn’t always enough to sustain a happy, fulfilling partnership. We also share the key questions you need to ask yourself when deciding whether to stay or go. Whether you’re questioning your current relationship or seeking guidance for the future, you can’t miss this conversation.

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So, I want to know what flirting means to you. Does it mean seductively glancing over the bar whilst caressing a cocktail glass? Does it mean subtly leaning over so that he smells your perfume? Or does it mean asking him where the bathroom is, sheepishly turning away, and then walking off to the other side of the room and hoping he just “gets” that you like him?

I’ve noticed that when it comes to flirting: everyone has a different idea of what it is in their head. And too many people make it so complicated. So I want to give you the 3 crucial, foolproof flirting tips that any women can use to get a guy’s attention. If you’re out of practice, this is where to start...

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Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think? Whether it’s overanalyzing a text, fearing confrontation, or people-pleasing to avoid being disliked, this episode is for you. Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen unpack the fear of being disliked and reveal why embracing it can actually make you more attractive.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by the need for approval or struggled to assert yourself in dating or relationships, this episode is here to help.

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What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today’s video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, to find answers.

We talk about the difference between the kind of “hard” that strengthens a relationship and the kind that drains it. From navigating challenges as a team to recognizing when effort becomes sacrifice in the wrong ways, this conversation will leave you with a fresh perspective on what it means to build a lasting, fulfilling connection. If you’ve ever wondered how to create a relationship where both people feel understood and safe, you can’t miss this!

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When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode.

Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back?

If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll only end up pushing them further and further away.

Now, I’m not going to tell you whether or not you should give it another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time.

But what I do know is that if you want a real chance of getting this person back in your life, you must understand this important truth before you take the next step...

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Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over?

In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connections. They explore the roots of anxious attachment, share practical tools for calming your mind, and discuss how to stop catastrophizing when things feel uncertain.

If you’ve ever felt tortured by your thoughts or struggled to stay grounded when dating, this episode will help you find clarity, confidence, and peace.

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Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . . because the right person won’t leave you guessing.

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