• Listen, Mija 🚨Ep. 10: Saints, Sinners, and OnlyFans — Sex Work & Sacred Femininity
    Oct 22 2025
    This episode unpacks the tangled web of stigma, survival, empowerment, and safety that surrounds sex work, porn, and platforms like OnlyFans—especially from the perspective of Latina women who have been shaped by cultural expectations and religious morals. The host reflects on how centuries of misogyny, economic inequality, and shame-based sexual education create our default attitudes, and challenges listeners to reframe the conversation with empathy, realism, and self-determination.Sex Work—The World’s Oldest ProfessionStigma:How Latinx culture, often influenced by Catholicism, frames sex work as inherently immoral.The "good girl vs. bad girl" dichotomy, and how it feeds societal double standards.Survival:Economic realities: low wages, lack of opportunities, immigration status, and how sex work can be a means of survival—especially for marginalized women.Recognizing labor rights in sex work and why criminalization often increases danger. (sex workers in other countries vs US)Empowerment: Reclaiming sexual agency as a Latina means deciding for yourself what feels safe, aligned, and empowering—whether that’s never engaging with sex work or proudly claiming it as your livelihood. Live your best life! Live for you. Topic Breakdown + Discussion Mija, if God didn’t want you to feel good, why’d He give you all those nerve endings?Talking Points:Sex work: stigma vs. survival vs. empowerment (world's oldest profession)Thoughts on OnlyFans: curiosity, judgment, or respect? A way out for many?The porn conversation: what’s real, what’s not, and how it impacts our expectations, do women watch it as much as men? How much is too much?While sex work is often framed in pop culture as glamorous or purely a personal choice, the truth for many women—especially in marginalized communities: is that it’s deeply tied to economic and social inequities.“If we can talk about this without shame, maybe other women in our lives will grow up with fewer fears and more choices. Check out the following resources for more information: Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP USA) – National network offering legal support, safety tips, peer mentoring, and political advocacy.🔗 https://swopusa.orgRed Umbrella Fund – Global fund supporting sex worker-led organizations.🔗 https://www.redumbrellafund.orgThe Cupcake Girls – Offers confidential support including healthcare access, financial assistance, and exit strategies for those who want to leave sex work.🔗 https://thecupcakegirls.orgHIPS – Washington D.C.–based group providing harm reduction supplies, crisis counseling, and legal help.🔗 https://www.hips.orgGlobal Based ResourcesNSWP (Global Network of Sex Work Projects) – International platform amplifying sex worker voices and safety advocacy.🔗 https://www.nswp.orgMaggie’s Toronto Sex Workers Action Project – Canadian org offering peer-led harm reduction, legal advocacy, and health resources.🔗 https://www.maggiesto.orgSt. James Infirmary – San Francisco clinic run by and for sex workers, offering free medical care, counseling, and safety workshops.🔗 https://www.stjamesinfirmary.orgListen to the episode: ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts ⁠⁠| ⁠⁠Amazon Podcasts⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠I Heart Radio⁠⁠Don't forget to like, rate and subscribe! You can also find us on socials here: Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Youtube!Hope you enjoy the episode! Share your own personal stories with us @listenmija_podcast on Instagram or send us a note on: ⁠http://www.listenmijapod.com ⁠Thanks for listening! Jen, Jennie and Stella -- Ep. 10 Music attributionsLook Busy by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Comedic Juggernaut by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Fluffing a Duck by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
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    1 hr and 41 mins
  • Listen, Mija 🔥 EP. 9: Holy Sex, Mija — Purity Culture, Pleasure & Patriarchy
    Sep 29 2025
    In this raw and revolutionary episode, we unpack what it means to be a sexually empowered Latina — on our own damn terms. We explore how our culture, family, religion, and generational narratives have shaped our relationship with sex, pleasure, and the body — and how we’re unlearning shame to reconnect with our divine feminine power.We dive into the myths that hold us back — la Virgen, la mártir, la mujer calladita — and reclaim the truth: our sexuality is sacred, powerful, and ours to define.Personal reflection: Growing up with las tías warning, “cierra las piernas,” being told sex was “dirty,” even though we were surrounded by hypersexualized media and whispers about “puta” and “Virgen” dichotomies.Question: “Why are Latina women still told that our worth lies in our silence, suffering, or sacrifice?”Declaration: “Today, we’re taking that narrative back. Sex is not shameful. Pleasure is not a sin. And the divine feminine is not here to be controlled.”Topic Breakdown + Discussion 🔥 Segment 1: Purity Culture & the Latina Martyr MythThe myth of la Virgen María vs. La Malinche dichotomy: Madonna/whore complex in Latinx culture.The “mujer buena” ideal: submissive, quiet, self-sacrificing, asexual.How purity culture ties into Catholicism and patriarchal control over women’s bodies.Discussion on how these myths manifest in family dynamics, dating, marriage, and sex.💦 Segment 2: Pleasure is Political: Reclaiming the OrgasmWhy many Latinas weren’t taught that sex could be pleasurable, let alone divine.The orgasm gap and its roots in cultural + religious repression.How deconstructing shame allows us to feel fully in our bodies.Bridging sexual and spiritual pleasure: connecting with the divine feminine through embodiment.Why Many Latinas Weren’t Taught That Sex Could Be Pleasurable, Let Alone DivineFor many Latinas, messages about sex growing up came with a heavy mix of cultural norms, religious doctrine, and patriarchal expectations.Marianismo — the cultural ideal that women should be pure, self-sacrificing, and modest — often taught that a woman’s value was tied to her virginity and her role as a caregiver, not a sensual being.Catholic upbringing — for those raised in Catholic households, sexuality was often framed through sin and morality, not pleasure or self-connection. Any expression of desire outside of marriage could be labeled “dirty” or “immoral.”Generational silence — many mothers and grandmothers carried their own shame and trauma, passing down silence as protection. Not talking about pleasure was a way to keep daughters “safe,” even though it left many of us unprepared to claim our sexual agency.This silence created a deep disconnection from the idea that sex could be joyful, healing, or even sacred. Many Latinas weren’t taught that our bodies are not just vessels for others, but sacred spaces for our own delight — which is why reclaiming this truth feels revolutionary.Listen to the episode: ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts ⁠⁠| ⁠⁠Amazon Podcasts⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠I Heart Radio⁠⁠Don't forget to like, rate and subscribe! You can also find us on socials here: Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Youtube!-- Ep. 9 Music attributionsInvestigations by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Fluffing a Duck by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Five Armies by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • Listen, Mija - 💋 EP. 8: CEO of Hoe Life — Dating, DMs & Defining Cheating
    Sep 8 2025
    Hey amiguis!!!Welcome to episode 8! Part 1 in our cheeky 3 part sexy series ! In this episode, we are unpacking the mess, magic, and mental gymnastics of being a grown-ass woman trying to date, build confidence, and redefine what sex and self-love mean after years of shame and silence. This isn’t about “being a hoe” in the messy way we were taught—but more about reclaiming sensuality, curiosity, and boundaries as a Latina millennial with one foot in traditional culture and the other in a TikTok-therapy-era dating world. Mija, it’s not the apps… it’s the algorithm (and maybe your situationship).So what is a C.E. Hoe — a woman in control, healed-ish, and holding space for both hookup culture and higher self.This episode explores how we navigate desire, boundaries, and emotional honesty while trying to model something healthier for our teen daughters. We are not out here in these streets, but we can still be a C.E. Hoe—a woman in command of her sensuality, her values, and her voice.This is for the wives, moms, partners—and yes, the secret rebels—who are trying to live with more intention, less shame, and a whole lot more honesty.Talking Points:What does it mean to be a “C.E. Hoe”? (Owning your dating life & pleasure)Dating as a Latina mom/divorced woman/single queen in 2025App culture: Hinge, Bumble, Tinder—do they still work?Co-worker crushes & office romance: harmless or hell no?Can men and women actually be just friends? We get into it. 👀Defining cheating in the digital age:Is ageism affecting how we date?The Rice Purity Test moment — let’s expose ourselves 👀 Take it here: https://ricepuritytest.com`Pop culture media mentioned in this episode Netflix show - The Tinder Swindler, Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies and Scandal, The Principles of Pleasure, Amazon movie - The Idea of You Podcast - Flesh and CodeHope you enjoy the episode! Share your own personal stories with us @listenmija_podcast on Instagram or send us a note on: ⁠http://www.listenmijapod.com ⁠Listen to the episode: ⁠Spotify⁠ | ⁠Apple Podcasts ⁠| ⁠Amazon Podcasts⁠ | ⁠I Heart Radio⁠Don't forget to like, rate and subscribe! You can also find us on socials here: Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Youtube!Episode music credit - Fluffing a Duck by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
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    1 hr and 36 mins
  • Ep. 7 - Mija, ¿Oíste Eso? La Llorona, El Spookies, and That UFO Your Tía Swears She Saw
    Aug 15 2025
    Hey, hey, hey ya'll! We have another fun one for you this week! “Mija, Did You Hear That?”A look at the spooky, the spiritual, and the stuff our tias swear happened at your cousin’s quince.👻✨ Latinx Ghost Stories: More Than Just ScaryWe all grew up with them—the whisper of La Llorona near a river, the El Cucuy threat when you misbehaved, the chill of a rocking chair creaking with no one in it at abuelita’s house. But here’s the truth we’ve started to reclaim:These aren’t just bedtime stories. They’re cultural memory. They’re warnings. They’re echoes of trauma.Our families didn’t have therapists. They had storytelling, prayer candles, and intuition. Ghost stories were how we passed down what couldn’t be spoken outright—colonial violence, loss, grief, abuse, displacement, and the power of resilience. That’s how our elders survived. We will be exploring a combination of spooky themes from La Llorona to conspiracy theories and more. We will even touch on the idea that aliens built our monuments. or many Latinas and other people from colonized backgrounds, seeing our ancestors’ achievements dismissed or mystified is deeply personal. It denies us pride, continuity, and connection to a lineage of resilience and brilliance. When we say our ancestors built pyramids, we’re claiming our place in the story of humanity—not as victims, but as visionaries.So no, they weren’t aliens. They were architects, engineers, astronomers, poets—and they were Indigenous.🔮 So Why Do These Stories Stay With Us?Because they’re layered:They’re entertainment, yes—but also education.They’re cautionary tales, but also coping mechanisms.They reflect what we couldn’t name out loud—mental health, abuse, colonialism, migration, loneliness.As millennial Latinas, many of us are reclaiming these stories—not just to be scared, but to understand. To ask: What were our ancestors really trying to say?Latinx ghost stories are more than spooky—they’re emotional time capsules. They hold grief, survival, and ancestral truth. Whether it’s La Llorona, El Cucuy, or a ghost in your abuela’s living room, these stories connect us to our past—and protect us in ways Western psychology still hasn’t caught up with.🧿 TL;DR:Latinx ghost stories are more than spooky—they’re emotional time capsules. They hold grief, survival, and ancestral truth. Whether it’s La Llorona, El Cucuy, or a ghost in your abuela’s living room, these stories connect us to our past—and protect us in ways Western psychology still hasn’t caught up with.Hope you enjoy the episode! Share your own personal stories with us @listenmija_podcast on Instagram or send us a note on: http://www.listenmijapod.com Listen to the episode: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon Podcasts | I Heart RadioDon't forget to like, rate and subscribe! You can also find us on socials here: Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Youtube!Thanks for your support!
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    2 hrs and 1 min
  • Ep. 6 - Bruja Rising: Mija, What They Called Witchcraft Was Our Medicine
    Jul 25 2025

    Hola Amiguis!!

    In episode 6, we explors and frame the heart of the brujería movement as an act of spiritual sovereignty, cultural reclamation, and resistance. Listeners will explore how colonization severed our people from sacred earth-based practices and how millennials and Gen Z are reclaiming brujería, curanderismo, and Indigenous spirituality with power and purpose.

    Brujería is not devil worship. It’s not fantasy or superstition. It’s a spiritual technology—a decolonial practice of survival, resistance, healing, and connection. It’s a living, breathing cosmology inherited from generations who passed down wisdom quietly, often in code, behind closed doors, through whispered prayers, teas, candles, dreams, and rituals.

    At its core, brujería is about relationship—to the Earth, to ancestors, to spirit, and to ourselves. It’s about reclaiming what was forcibly taken or shamed out of us: our intuition, our magic, our right to define the sacred on our own terms.

    For many of us millennials (especially queer, femme, Afro-Latinx, and Indigenous folks), brujería is a way to reconnect with our ancestors, our intuition, and our power—after centuries of erasure. It's a rejection of whitewashed spirituality and institutional religion that told us our cultures were savage or sinful.

    This is reclamation. Through altars, tarot, herbalism, astrology, moon rituals, and ancestral veneration, we're healing generational wounds. We’re saying: “I don’t need a middleman to talk to Spirit. My magic is valid.”

    It’s not just about casting spells—it’s about remembering who you are.

    Let's get into it!

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    1 hr and 34 mins
  • Ep. 5 - Mija, Eso También Es Grief: Losing People, Plans, and Parts of Yourself
    Jul 8 2025

    Grief Is a Wound We Inherit: Exploring personal and ancestral grief in our culture.

    Episode Description:
    In this deeply personal and healing episode, we explore the many faces of grief through the lens of Latinx and Latina millennial experiences. From mourning loved ones to grieving lost versions of ourselves, we open up about how our cultural identity, family dynamics, and generational expectations shape the way we process pain and loss. Whether you're navigating fresh grief or carrying ancestral sorrow, this episode holds space for your story.

    In This Episode, We Discuss:

    🎙️ Grief Beyond the Personal: Collective and Cultural Grief in a World on Fire

    Grief isn’t only about losing a loved one. For many Latinas and Latinx millennials, it’s about watching the world burn while being told to carry on with strength and silence. It’s grief in layers—personal, historical, and inherited. Here are some reflections:

    🇺🇸 ICE Raids & Anti-Immigrant Policies:

    ✊🏽 Protests & Uprisings in the U.S.:

    🇵🇸 Palestine, Global Liberation, and Shared Struggles:

    🧬 Why This Grief Feels So Heavy for Us:

    • We carry our own lived traumas and the historical wounds of our ancestors—enslaved, erased, exiled.
    • Many of us are first-generation everything, trying to heal in real time while holding our families together.
    • The world asks us to be strong, not soft—to survive, not feel. But grief needs space. Silence doesn’t save us. Naming grief is a form of resistance.

    🖤 What Does Grief Look Like For Us?

    • Grief for humanity and the current events in the world
    • Personal stories of loss — from the sudden to the slow and expected.
    • How grief showed up in unexpected places: body, sleep, parenting, spirituality.
    • The cultural silence around grieving and how it affects our healing process.

    🌺 How Our Latina Identity Shapes Our Grief

    • Expectations of strength, silence, and being the caretaker.
    • The influence of faith, ritual, and family dynamics.
    • Intergenerational grief and how we carry stories not told.

    🌧️ Different Types of Grief

    • Sudden vs. long-term grief — what each teaches us.
    • Losing a parent, caregiver, or grandparent and the unique heartbreak it brings.
    • The grief of losing yourself — to trauma, survival mode, or caregiving.
    • Moms grieving quietly while holding it all together.
    • Collective grief: mourning for a world in crisis (violence, climate, injustice).

    💬 How We Cope

    • Therapy, journaling, ancestral practices, community circles, and rest.
    • Making space for joy and grief to coexist.
    • How language and Spanglish help us process emotions that don’t always translate.

    ❤️‍🩹 Why We Need to Talk About This More

    • Honoring grief as sacred, not shameful.
    • Breaking cycles of silence so the next generation has tools to heal.
    • Creating culturally grounded, emotionally open spaces for healing.

    Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

    • ⁠Latinx therapy directories⁠

    • ⁠Books and poetry on grief by Latinx authors⁠

    • Community healing circles and virtual support groups

    • Immigrant Rights Resources and Support

    Listener Invitation:
    Have a grief story you want to share? DM us or send a voice note to be featured in a future episode. Your voice matters.

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Ep. 4 - Fantasía Falsa: How Pop Culture Gaslit a Generation of Latinas
    May 24 2025

    This week on Listen, Mija we are talking about pop culture - films from the 80s/90s/2000s that we grew up on from the perspective of the Latina lens!

    The movies of the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s—Love Actually, Never Been Kissed, 16 Candles, She’s All That, Labyrinth, Cruel Intentions, Scream, Fear, Cry-Baby, Romeo + Juliet, Kids, Rent, American Beauty—were sold to us as romantic, iconic, and formative. And they were. But they were also riddled with inappropriate relationships, misogyny, and grooming—masked as love, framed as passion, and packaged in a way that taught an entire generation of girls to crave toxicity


    Watching these movies as a Latina wasn't just about toxic relationships—it was about absence, distortion, and survival.

    It taught you:


    • That your story didn’t matter unless it was whitewashed.

    • That love meant pain—and your culture was either invisible or fetishized.

    • That your body was never just yours—it was either hidden or objectified.


    And yet—you still watched. You still dreamed. You still made space for your identity in a world that didn’t hand you the script.


    We grew up watching stories that told us how to love, how to be loved, and how to erase ourselves to fit into someone else's frame. But we’re older now. We see it differently. We’re starting to tell our own stories—stories where Latinas are the main characters. Where love is soft and safe. Where boundaries are beautiful. Where culture is something to celebrate, not conceal. We're reclaiming our scripts. And that might be the real coming-of-age story.


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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Ep. 3 - Yo Primero, Por Fin: Breaking the Latina Martyr Myth
    May 22 2025

    In episode 3 of Listen, Mija - we get deep exploring the topic about relationships with ourselves. We all had a lot of thoughts on this one! Growing up Latina, many of us were taught—explicitly or silently—that love looks like sacrifice. We’re praised for being selfless, strong, and always there for everyone else. We’re daughters, sisters, comadres, caretakers. But rarely are we taught to be our own first priority.


    From the kitchen to the classroom to our relationships, the message is clear: "Mija, ponte en el lugar de los demás.”Translation? Put yourself last.

    In American culture, where self-empowerment is often encouraged (at least on the surface), navigating our identity as Latinas can be confusing. We want to chase dreams, prioritize our mental health, and set boundaries—but guilt creeps in. We wonder if we’re being selfish, dramatic, or “too much.”

    That cultural tug-of-war impacts how we love ourselves. It shows up in our inability to say no, in how we accept less than we deserve, in how we silence our needs.

    But here's the truth: putting yourself first isn’t betrayal—it's healing. It's rewriting a legacy. When we learn to have a relationship with ourselves, we break cycles. We stop surviving and start thriving.

    So no, self-love isn’t just a bubble bath and a mantra—it’s radical. And for Latinas, it’s revolutionary. Yo primero isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.

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    Don't forget to like, rate and subscribe!


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    ⁠www.listenmijapod.com⁠


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    ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ListenMijaPodcast⁠

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    51 mins