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Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

By: The Language of Love
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 Language of Love is a weekly podcast where Dr. Berman shares her compassionate, humorous, and no-nonsense advice: answering listener questions and interviewing thought leaders and experts on relevant topics. Dr. Berman is ready to help you create the fulfilling and passionate love life you deserve, regardless of your relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Are you ready to get started?© 2021 The Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences Spirituality
Episodes
  • Autism as a Unique Expression of Light with Suzy Miller

    Autism as a Unique Expression of Light with Suzy Miller
    Aug 27 2025
    In this episode of the Language of Love Conversation, I welcome Suzy Miller, a former pediatric speech pathologist whose world was turned upside down when a nonverbal four-year-old boy named Riley communicated with her telepathically. Riley revealed a stunning truth: he needed Suzy’s help to integrate his “light body” with his physical form. This encounter launched Suzy on a journey to redefine autism not as a deficit, but as a superhuman ability, a different way of being that holds a mirror to our own unhealed energies and invites us into a more authentic, heart-centered existence. Together we explore: How those on the spectrum act as mirrors, reflecting the unacknowledged emotions of those around them Why many people with autism struggle with being fully “in their bodies” and what that means energetically The mismatch between their high vibrational frequency and the dense conditioning of our physical world How so-called “problem behaviors” can be understood as communication and energetic processing Practical tools like the Blue Sphere technique for releasing heavy emotions and raising your vibration Ways parents, teachers, and loved ones can authentically connect with these extraordinary beings Suzy’s work is a beautiful call to action for parents, educators, and all of us to shift our perception, embrace deeper authenticity, and learn the language of energy and love. Want to go deeper? Explore Suzy’s book, AWESOMISM!:, and her incredible resources at SuzyMiller.com. Have a story about neurodiversity or awakening? I’d love to hear from you! Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com. For more tools to support your journey of connection and growth, visit my website and explore my courses, including the Good Grief program to help you stay connected to those you love, both here and beyond. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    53 mins
  • Is Wanting More in the Bedroom a Betrayal?

    Is Wanting More in the Bedroom a Betrayal?
    Aug 20 2025
    What if the thing you crave most is the one thing you can’t say out loud? You love your partner. The sex is good. But there’s more inside you—a desire you’ve never voiced. Not because it’s wrong… but because you’re terrified of what might happen if you do. Will they judge you? Will they feel like they’re not enough? Could it change everything? In this Language of Love session, I connect with Kelly, who’s been married for five years and loves her husband deeply. Their sex life? Pretty solid. But there’s a part of her that wants more. She has desires she’s never shared—and she’s terrified that voicing them might hurt his feelings or make him think he’s not enough. So what do you do when you want to grow sexually with your partner, but you’re afraid it could backfire? In this session, we talk through: Why it’s not a great idea to talk about fantasies in the middle of sex (and when to do it instead) How to open up these conversations in a way that feels safe, honest, and even exciting The “Fantasy Box” game I love recommending to couples who want to spice things up together How to find creative middle ground when your fantasies don’t totally match If you’ve ever held back something in the bedroom because you didn’t want to rock the boat, you’re going to feel seen in this one. And if Kelly’s story sounds a little like yours, I’d love to hear from you. Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com—your story could help someone else feel less alone. Want more tools for connection and pleasure? Head over to my website, and check out my latest book, Sex Magic, for a deeper dive into unlocking spectacular intimacy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    8 mins
  • Do You Really Want Sex Or Are You Just Trying to Feel Okay?

    Do You Really Want Sex Or Are You Just Trying to Feel Okay?
    Aug 18 2025
    When that desire for sex hits hard, like I need this now, have you ever paused and thought… is this really about sex? Or is it something else? A need to feel safe? Held? Less alone? In this Language of Love Bite, we’re talking about the kind of sex that doesn’t always come from turn-on, but from a deeper part of us that’s craving regulation. Because the truth is, your nervous system plays a much bigger role in desire than most of us realize. We talk about how your body might be reaching for sex not out of passion, but as a way to self-soothe and how to gently tell the difference. I also share a simple body-based practice you can use anytime to check in with yourself and get really honest about what you’re actually needing in the moment. This isn’t about shame. It’s about choice. And giving yourself the chance to have sex that feels nourishing… not just numbing. We explore: Why your body might crave sex when it’s actually craving safety How past experiences shape the way we reach for intimacy The subtle signs you might be using sex to regulate your emotions A go-to somatic practice (“Body Yes / Body No”) to check what’s really going on inside How to shift from survival sex to sacred, satisfying connection Ever had sex and felt more empty afterward? You’re not alone and there’s nothing wrong with you. There’s just more going on beneath the surface. If you’re ready to explore the deeper layers of your intimacy, grab my book Sex Magic, a powerful invitation to challenge everything you’ve been taught about your sexuality and self-worth. Because sex should feel like coming home to yourself, not like you’re trying to fill an invisible gap. Want to uncover what’s holding you back in bed and beyond? Take the free quiz on my website to get clarity and personalized insights into your intimacy blocks. And while you're there, don’t miss 7 Days to Better Sex, a practical, transformative program that helps you get in the driver’s seat of your sex life, actively creating the passion and connection you truly desire. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    6 mins
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