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In Bed with Koaty & Sumner

In Bed with Koaty & Sumner

By: UBNGO Podcast Studio
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 Join adult influencers and reality TV personalities Koaty & Sumner as they explore the world of love, dating, and relationships from a reality and adult film world point of view. So take off your clothes, it’s time to get in bed with the duo that does more than each other.Copyright UBNGO Podcast Studio Hygiene & Healthy Living
Episodes
  • Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett

    Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett
    Jul 2 2025
    We’re joined by therapist and author Tom Bruett, whose book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men has genuinely impacted our relationship. In this honest and vulnerable conversation, we dive deep into the two stages that rocked us the most: Differentiation and Exploration.

    We talk about what it really means to stay emotionally connected while becoming your own person, how to ask for what you want in bed (without shame), and why open relationships often bring up the deepest communication work. Tom shares what it was like writing his most personal chapter, and we open up about how the book has helped us become better partners.

    💬 Learning to set boundaries without shutting down
    🧠 The power of sex-positive, vulnerable conversations
    ❤️ Why differentiation can feel scary—but lead to deeper love

    And of course, we close it out with a classic Koaty and Sumner game: Red Flag or Growth Lag? We throw out spicy relationship scenarios, and Tom tells us whether it’s a dealbreaker—or just a couple stuck in one of the book’s core stages.

    This episode is heartfelt, hilarious, and deeply helpful for anyone in a queer relationship (or hoping to be in one).
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    54 mins
  • Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties

    Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties
    Jun 25 2025
    In this vulnerable and validating episode, Koaty shares the emotional journey behind cutting off his father—and the years of narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and betrayal that led up to it. We explore how hard it can be to draw boundaries with a parent, especially when manipulation is masked as love. From financial deception to emotional abuse, we break down the signs of a narcissistic parent, why it’s okay to walk away, and how chosen family can sometimes be the safest family. And of course, it wouldn’t be us without a little fun—Sumner closes the episode with a spicy quiz to find out once and for all: does Koaty have daddy issues? This episode is part healing, part chaos, and 100% real.
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    41 mins
  • Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay

    Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay
    Jun 11 2025
    From church pews to OnlyFans views. In this episode, Sumner opens up about growing up Mormon—from blessing sacrament trays as a teenager to being interrogated by bishops about masturbation (yep, really). Koaty plays Mormon Mythbusters and finds out just how weird—and wildly repressive—Sumner’s childhood really was.

    We get into sex shame, secret Mormon wife culture, sacred underwear, and how leaving the Church helped Sumner finally reclaim his sexuality.

    If you’ve ever grown up in purity culture, questioned religion, or just love messy spiritual trauma with a gay twist… this one’s for you.

    👼 Trauma dump meets temple tea. Tap in.
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    53 mins

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