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If I Knew Then: Mom Edition

If I Knew Then: Mom Edition

By: Maria Moreno | Mindful Mother
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If I Knew Then: Mom Edition is the podcast where moms get real. Raw, emotional, and sometimes hilariously honest, this is the space for the lessons we learned the hard way, the things we wish someone had told us, and the truths we’re still figuring out. From sleep-deprived nights to identity shifts, healing, heartbreak, and toddler negotiations that feel like hostage situations, this is unfiltered motherhood.Maria Moreno | Mindful Mother Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • How a Single Mom Overcame Debt and Built Financial Freedom
    Sep 5 2025

    Being a single mom is challenging, but facing financial struggles on top of it can feel overwhelming. In Episode 8 of If I Knew Then: Mom Edition, Maria Moreno talks with Monica, a personal finance coach and author, about navigating single motherhood, divorce, and money challenges while building financial independence.

    Monica shares her story of moving to North Carolina with no family support, the lessons she learned from her immigrant parents about money, and how creative budgeting, cooking, and teaching kids about finances can transform a family’s future.

    What you’ll learn:

    • How to overcome financial challenges as a single parent

    • Money lessons from immigrant parents that stick for life

    • Budgeting and cooking hacks to stretch your dollars

    • Teaching kids about food, finances, and independence

    • How a personal finance coach helps families thrive

    • Tracking cash flow to avoid financial pitfalls

    • Steps to achieve financial independence, no matter your starting point

    Whether you’re a single mom, navigating financial challenges, or looking to teach your children about money, this episode will give you actionable strategies, encouragement, and hope for building financial independence.

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    Where to connect with Monica:
    Linkedin
    ⁠Website: Free 30-minute consultationhttps://www.grabyourslice.com/booking-calendar/initial-consultation

    👩‍💻 About the Host:
    Hosted by Maria Moreno, certified pediatric sleep consultant, life coach, educator, and founder of Mindful Mother. Maria empowers moms to reclaim rest, confidence, and calm without guilt through sleep plans, coaching, and community.

    🌐 Work with me + Resources:
    ⁠➤ Sleep training & parenting support
    📲 Stay Connected:
    Instagram: ⁠@mindfulmother_sleep
    Instagram: ⁠@tumago
    Instagram: ⁠@ifiknewthenpodcast
    Facebook: Mindful Mother
    TikTok: @mindfulmother_sleep
    YouTube: If I Knew Then Podcast

    🛒 Products & Partnerships:
    Blankets: ⁠Tumago Blankets (Etsy)
    Pacifier: Soothebeginnings
    Savings & Investing: Sofi
    Budgeting: Monarch


    🎧 Listen on All Podcast Platforms:
    Spotify: If I Knew Then on Spotify
    Apple Podcasts
    Amazon Music
    iHeartRadio
    Goodpods

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    Thank you for watching! If this episode helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with a mom who needs to hear this message.


    Disclaimer:
    This podcast shares personal experiences and insights for educational and supportive purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or legal advice.

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    36 mins
  • Surviving Narcissism as a Single Mom & Finding the Courage to Leave
    Aug 29 2025

    Being a single mom is hard enough, but what happens when you’re also surrounded by toxic, narcissistic family relationships? In Episode 7 of If I Knew Then: Mom Edition, Catalina shares her brave journey of raising her son while navigating the emotional weight of narcissism, family toxicity, and the struggle to protect her peace.

    She opens up about the pain of not being emotionally present during her son’s childhood, the regrets she carries, and the powerful reminder that it’s never too late to rebuild a relationship with your child.

    ✨ What you’ll learn in this episode:

    • How narcissistic family members can damage motherhood and connection

    • Why emotional presence matters as much as physical presence

    • The courage it takes to walk away, even from family

    • The myth that single moms aren’t “enough” or “lovable”

    • Why your happiness and safety are the foundation of your child’s well-being

    • Hope for rebuilding relationships, no matter the stage of life

    💬 Quotes that will stay with you:
    “I was there for my son, but at the same time, I couldn’t be there for him emotionally. Those years of his childhood will never come back.”
    “You are allowed to leave, even if it’s your partner, your parents, or your family. You owe it to yourself and your child to feel safe and be happy.”

    Whether you’re a single mom, navigating toxic family patterns, or simply need the reminder that you are allowed to choose peace, this episode will give you strength and hope.

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    Where to contact Calatina:

    • Facebook
    • www.catalinapopoveniuc.com

    👩‍💻 About the Host:
    Hosted by Maria Moreno, certified pediatric sleep consultant, coach, educator, and founder of Mindful Mother. I help moms reclaim rest, confidence, and calm, without guilt. From sleep plans and eBooks to coaching and community, my mission is to support the entire journey of motherhood, from newborns to the preschool years and beyond.

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    🌐 Work with me + Resources:
    ➤ Sleep training & parenting support

    📲 Let’s Stay Connected:
    Instagram: @mindfulmother_sleep
    Instagram: @tumago
    Instagram: @ifiknewthenpodcast
    Facebook: Mindful Mother
    TikTok: @mindfulmother_sleep
    YouTube: If I Knew Then Podcast

    🛒 Products & Partnerships:

    • Blankets: Tumago Blankets

    • Pacifier: Soothebeginnings

    • Savings & Investing: Sofi

    • Budgeting: Monarch

    🎧 Listen on All Podcast Platforms:

    • Spotify: If I Knew Then on Spotify

    • Apple Podcasts: Listen on Apple

    • Amazon Music: Listen on Amazon

    • iHeartRadio: Listen on iHeart

    • Goodpods: Find us on Goodpods

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    Thank you for watching! If this episode helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with a mom who needs to hear this message.

    Disclaimer:
    This podcast shares personal experiences and insights for educational and supportive purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or legal advice. If you or your child is in immediate danger, please contact local authorities or emergency services right away. If you are navigating abuse, consider reaching out to a licensed therapist, domestic violence hotline, or support organization in your area. You are not alone, and support is available.

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    20 mins
  • Unpacking Mom Shame, Guilt & the Myth of ‘Doing It All’
    Aug 22 2025
    Welcome back to If I Knew Then: Mom Edition — episode 6. Today, we share a deeply honest conversation about mom burnout, guilt, and the myth of doing it all.Karolina opens up about the heavy weight of societal and self-imposed expectations placed on mothers. From the pressure to “have it all”, to work or stay home, to be the perfect parent and provider, burnout becomes an almost inevitable consequence. She candidly discusses the exhaustion, shame, and isolation many moms face, and how these feelings fuel negative self-talk and unhealthy comparisons within mom communities.We explore the toxic cycle of mom guilt and mom shame, and the damaging effects of competitive parenting culture that distracts us from what truly matters: connection, self-care, and authenticity. Contrary to popular belief, self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s a vital daily practice of reclaiming your energy, setting boundaries, and nurturing yourself so you can show up fully for your children and your life.Our guest shares her personal journey of recovery from burnout, including practical lifestyle changes like honoring food sensitivities, creating clear boundaries with her teenage daughter, and embracing imperfection. She stresses the importance of listening to your intuition, trusting your gut, and stepping away from the unrealistic portrayals of motherhood on social media.In this episode, you’ll hear how:​Burnout manifests subtly and deeply, affecting mental, physical, and emotional health​Mom guilt and shame keep us trapped in a cycle of self-criticism and comparison​True self-care means putting your wellness first, because you can’t pour from an empty cup​Setting boundaries is an act of love, not cruelty, and kids need that stability​Teens need space to grow, and healthy detachment benefits the whole family​Social media often distorts reality, and detoxing can be life-changing​Motherhood is messy, chaotic, and imperfect, and that’s perfectly okayWhether you’re a new mom overwhelmed by expectations or navigating the challenging teen years, this episode offers compassion, validation, and a roadmap to healing and balance.Our guest is a wellbeing coach specializing in working moms. She helps simplify daily routines, reduce stress, and create personalized self-care strategies, because one size does not fit all. Connect with her to learn how to reclaim your energy and find joy in your motherhood journey.Connect with Karolina: Linkedin FacebookMini self-care handbook with some down-to-earth tools mums can use to reduce stress and improve wellbeing instantly - https://subscribepage.io/q9lwuvIf this podcast brings value to your life, please consider giving value back through sharing, kind words, or financial support. Every contribution helps keep the show alive and the mission growing.Ways to Support:⁠Venmo⁠⁠ChashApp⁠Hosted by Maria Moreno, I’m a certified pediatric sleep consultant, coach, educator, and founder of Mindful Mother. I help moms reclaim rest, confidence, and calm, without guilt. From sleep plans and eBooks to coaching and community, my mission is to support the entire journey of motherhood, from newborns to the preschool years and beyond.Work with me + Resources:⁠ ⁠➤ Sleep training & parenting support⁠⁠Let's Stay Connected: ​Instagram: ⁠⁠@mindfulmother_sleep⁠⁠​Instagram: ⁠@tumago⁠​Instagram: ⁠@ifiknewthenpodcast⁠​Facebook:⁠ ⁠⁠Mindful Mother⁠⁠⁠​TikTok: ⁠@mindfulmother_sleep⁠​YouTube:⁠ ⁠If I Knew Then Podcast⁠⁠​Blankets: ⁠Tumago Blankets⁠​⁠⁠Pacifier: Soothebeginnings⁠⁠​⁠⁠Savings & Investing: Sofi⁠⁠​Budgeting: ⁠⁠Monarch⁠⁠Listen to the Podcast on All Platforms:Spotify:⁠ ⁠If I Knew Then on Spotify⁠⁠Apple Podcasts:⁠ ⁠Listen on Apple⁠⁠Amazon Music:⁠ ⁠Listen on Amazon⁠⁠iHeartRadio:⁠ ⁠Listen on iHeart⁠⁠Goodpods:⁠ ⁠Find us on Goodpods⁠⁠Thank you for listening. If this episode helped you, share it with a mom who needs to hear it.
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