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I Love You, But BFFR

I Love You, But BFFR

By: India Jade
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 I love you, but let's be so forreal. Hosted by yours truly, the one and only India (yes that’s my real name), this is the podcast where pop culture meets the realist, and baddest b*#** you know, unapologetically speaking her mind. We’re taking the most iconic, and sometimes disturbing, pop culture moments, and using them to ask the real questions: What is actually going on? Why do we even care? And what are we all thinking but not saying? Most importantly, what do these moments tell us about our own toxic habits that we try to deny? Ily, but bffr, xoxo. IG & Tik Tok: ilybutpodcastIndia Jade Social Sciences
Episodes
  • When Autism Moms Get Exploited in the Name of Community & Healing

    When Autism Moms Get Exploited in the Name of Community & Healing
    Oct 29 2025

    So many moms of neurodivergent and/or disabled kids are told “community will save you”... but what if the same spaces meant to help actually hurt?

    India sits down with Milan Myers, behavioral analyst-in-training, to talk about how ABA therapy, mom support groups, and “healing” spaces can become breeding grounds for manipulation. Caregivers’ exhaustion, faith, and desperation can make them even more vulnerable to exploitation.

    Topics: Cults and Community • Special Needs Parenting • Behavioral Therapy • Neurodivergent Families

    💋Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more
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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • Trust Yourself: How Disconnection Breeds Codependence & Feeds the Patriarchy

    Trust Yourself: How Disconnection Breeds Codependence & Feeds the Patriarchy
    Oct 22 2025

    Why do so many “healing spaces” feel more like cults? We love a good guru, a fearless leader, a savior… until you forget how to make your own decisions. In this episode, movement therapist Cathy (author of Body Wisdom) gets real about why so many of us outsource our intuition and how it can make us vulnerable to manipulation, toxic “healers,” and cult-like communities.

    Topics: Soft girl life, ego-driven spirituality, women’s rights, manipulation, the patriarchy.

    Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more.

    Guest → Cathy Williams www.intuitiveself.com.au
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    55 mins
  • Purity Culture, Cults, and Reclaiming Your Sexuality

    Purity Culture, Cults, and Reclaiming Your Sexuality
    Oct 15 2025

    Preacher's kid turned sexually liberated yoga founder, Sarah Ford, opens up about growing up as an evangelist preacher’s child in Alabama, purity culture, navigating shame, and redefining faith after religious trauma.

    Topics: purity culture • cult survival • faith deconstruction • ADHD in women • healing through yoga

    Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more | Follow Sarah @theSarahFord_
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    1 hr and 19 mins
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