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I Love You, But BFFR

I Love You, But BFFR

By: India Jade
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 I love you, but let's be so forreal. Hosted by yours truly, the one and only India (yes that’s my real name), this is the podcast where pop culture meets the realist, and baddest b*#** you know, unapologetically speaking her mind. We’re taking the most iconic, and sometimes disturbing, pop culture moments, and using them to ask the real questions: What is actually going on? Why do we even care? And what are we all thinking but not saying? Most importantly, what do these moments tell us about our own toxic habits that we try to deny? Ily, but bffr, xoxo. IG & Tik Tok: ilybutpodcastIndia Jade Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Engaged to a Narcissist: Love Bombing, Emotional Abuse & Leaving Before Marriage

    Engaged to a Narcissist: Love Bombing, Emotional Abuse & Leaving Before Marriage
    Feb 4 2026

    Nobody is above getting conned by a narcissist, and I had to learn the hard way.

    In this deeply personal episode, India shares the full story of her engagement, the red flags she explained away, and how love bombing, using therapy to manipulate perception, and quiet control escalated to a boiling point. A raw conversation about discernment, intuition, and leaving before it’s too late.

    Topics: narcissistic abuse • love bombing • emotional manipulation • engagement red flags • couples therapy abuse • healing after toxic relationships

    Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more

    Watch on YouTube every Thursday

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    52 mins
  • Is J. Cole Still a GOAT? Rap Beef, Hip Hop Competition & the State of the Music Industry

    Is J. Cole Still a GOAT? Rap Beef, Hip Hop Competition & the State of the Music Industry
    Jan 28 2026

    Is J. Cole still eligible for “greatest rapper” status after bowing out of the Kendrick Lamar beef, or does hip hop demand competition?

    India and LA-born artist Jerrelle unpack why rap was built on confrontation, why women are carrying today’s beef culture, and how streaming, industry plants, and virality changed the rules of success. A real conversation about artistry, ego, power, and what hip hop actually stands for.

    Topics: hip hop culture • rap beef • J. Cole • Kendrick Lamar • industry plants • streaming era • artists & relationships

    Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more

    Watch on YouTube every Thursday

    Guest → Jerrelle | @callmejerrelle
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    58 mins
  • Why Druski’s Church Skit Made People Uncomfortable & How It Scares Cult Leaders

    Why Druski’s Church Skit Made People Uncomfortable & How It Scares Cult Leaders
    Jan 21 2026

    Druski’s viral church skit sparked outrage, but not because God was being mocked.

    Why does satire of megachurch culture feel so threatening, and how does faith earned trust within oppressed communities become weaponized by charismatic leaders? Using psychology, history, and THE BIBLE, India breaks down the difference between mocking God and exposing manipulation.

    Topics: religious manipulation • megachurch culture • cult psychology • satire & power • faith & discernment • Druski skit

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    Watch on YouTube every Thursday

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    27 mins
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