• How We Choose Our Person

  • May 6 2025
  • Length: 46 mins
  • Podcast

How We Choose Our Person

  • Summary

  • Long-term relationships are message and magical. Why do we choose our person? And what keeps us from choosing them? Expect personal stories, hard questions, and one jaw-dropping insight about handwriting that left everyone speechless.

    Highlights

    • Why your choice of life partner might reflect who you were when you met – and how to evolve together as you change
    • Divorce: What women often know and men don't see coming
    • Mary, James, and Stel get personal: Stories of choosing (and being chosen by) their life partners
    • A deep dive into handwriting analysis: Your pen strokes may reveal hidden patterns in love and life
    • The link between self-awareness, communication styles, and sustaining long-term intimacy
    • Why personal growth (even unconventional tools like vision therapy and dancing alone) might just save your relationship

    Resources:

    • Helen Fisher’s TED Talk: The brain in love
    • Handwriting analysis: Blog
    • The book Eight Dates by John and Julie Gottman: Amazon
    • Strategic Coach:Strategic Coach
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