Miserable moms aren’t cute. In this episode, we’re talking about the “selfish” habits moms actually need: getting a hobby, protecting your peace, replying late, romanticizing your life, focusing on yourself again, and remembering you are still a whole ass human outside of motherhood. The best thing you can give your kids is a mom who likes her life! A mom who teaches them how to live their life for them, not for their mommy.

Because your kids do not need a martyr. They need a mom who feels alive!

If you were the “mature one” who turned being an independent girl into a full time personality… this is for you. I’m talking about how I did everything right and was still annoyed, why people expect you to have it all handled, and the moment I realized it’s actually not cute, it’s exhausting. Its time for remission! Letting things be mid. Asking what YOU want. Saying “idk what do you guys wanna do” and meaning it. Because you’re not just the eldest daughter. You’re literally just a girl!!

Why is being a miserable woman “humble” but loving your life is looked down on? Because losers are trying to bring you down to the reality they're living in.

This episode is for the girls who are trying to level up and getting called “too much” for it. We’re talking about how your confidence isn’t the problem- people just aren’t used to it because they are not operating from that same energy. And yes, sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is accept that you are a little threatening in the best way, just by being you!