In this important conversation, I sit down with Cortney Donelson, author of Loving Them to Death, to talk about one of the most emotionally charged issues in our culture: love.

What if the way culture defines love isn't actually loving? What if affirmation without truth is doing more harm than good?

We unpack how "love" has been redefined to mean unconditional approval, why that definition falls short of the biblical standard, and how Christians are often pressured to compromise truth in order to appear compassionate. Cortney shares why untethering love from God's design doesn't rescue people — it enables destruction.

We also discuss what it really looks like to love people well: speaking truth with courage, refusing emotional manipulation, and anchoring our compassion in the character of Christ.

If you've ever been told you're unloving for holding to Scripture, this episode will equip you to think clearly and respond biblically.

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"Love" is one of the most used—and most argued-about—words in our culture. With over 2.1 billion hashtags on Instagram and 76 million posts declaring "love is love," it's clear that everyone has a definition. But does God?

Christians are often told we're "not loving enough" when we speak about God's design for marriage, the reality of biological sex, or the sanctity of life. We're reminded to "speak the truth in love"—sometimes as a correction, sometimes as a weapon. But before we argue about how to love, we have to ask a more important question: What is love, according to God?

In today's episode, we'll unpack what Scripture tells us to love, what God explicitly tells us not to love, and how to discern whether love is truly present—or merely being used as a slogan.

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What happens when shame feels heavier than grace—and you're not sure God could really forgive that choice? In this powerful and hope-filled conversation, Shanda sits down with Brittany Poppe, Christian abortion recovery coach, pro-life speaker, and host of the globally ranked podcast Does God Forgive Abortion?.

After carrying the weight of her own abortion for years, Brittany found true healing through biblical forgiveness and a restored identity in Christ. Now, she helps other women partner with God in their healing journeys—moving from guilt, shame, and unworthiness into peace, freedom, and hope.

In this episode, Brittany shares her personal turning point, what it practically looks like to "partner with God" in healing, and why faith-filled community is essential for post-abortion recovery. You'll also hear her address common Christian misconceptions about healing after abortion, explain her Abortion Recovery Framework, and unpack why giving women permission to grieve is a vital part of redemption.

Whether you're walking through post-abortion healing yourself, supporting someone who is, or seeking a more biblical understanding of forgiveness and restoration, this conversation is a powerful reminder that God's grace redeems everystory.

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How do we know if what we're walking through is a trial God is using to refine us—or a consequence of our own sin? In this episode, we take a biblical look at suffering, discernment, and the subtle danger of the comfort trap. We'll talk about why our desire for comfort can sometimes lead us to compromise, how Scripture helps us distinguish trials from consequences, and what God actually promises when it comes to comfort. If you've ever wondered why life feels hard—or questioned what God is doing in the middle of it—let's talk about it!

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Narcissism is a word we hear often—but few truly understand what it looks like, how it operates, or the damage it leaves behind.

In this episode, I'm joined by Kenza Haddock, author of Unmasking Narcissism, to have an honest and much-needed conversation about narcissistic behavior, emotional manipulation, and spiritual confusion that often accompanies these relationships.

We talk about how narcissism hides behind charm, victimhood, and even religious language; how to recognize red flags without becoming cynical; and why biblical love does not require enduring abuse or abandoning wisdom. Kenza shares insight into setting healthy boundaries, reclaiming clarity after gaslighting, and pursuing healing without shame.

If you've ever felt confused, drained, or spiritually stuck in a relationship—and wondered whether you were being "unloving" for questioning it—this conversation will bring clarity, validation, and hope rooted in truth.

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What happens when our feelings don't line up with truth? In this episode, we unpack what it means to be emotional versus emotionally mature, why moodiness affects relationships, and how Scripture calls us to self-control—not emotional suppression. From hormones to habits, we examine what explains our emotions and what never excuses sinful behavior.

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In this episode, I'm joined by Ward Sanford to discuss his series on Jerusalem through the writings of first-century historian Josephus. We explore Josephus as an eyewitness to the Jewish War, the destruction of Jerusalem, and what his historical accounts reveal about life in the city during one of the most pivotal moments in biblical history.

Together, we examine how Josephus' records help illuminate the cultural, political, and religious climate of Jerusalem, how his testimony intersects with Scripture, and why understanding this historical context strengthens our confidence in the biblical narrative. This conversation offers valuable insight for anyone interested in church history, biblical worldview, and the reliability of Scripture.

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As a new year approaches, many people feel pressure to "fix" themselves after holiday overindulgence — often through extreme restrictions that never last. In this episode, we talk about how to set realistic, sustainable health and fitness goals for 2026 without guilt, shame, or an all-or-nothing mindset.

We also take a biblical look at an often-misunderstood topic: Is gluttony a sin? What does Scripture really say about overeating, self-control, and the desires of the flesh? Together, we explore how our physical habits connect to our spiritual lives and how to pursue health in a way that honors God rather than feeds guilt or obsession.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to set realistic health and fitness goals for 2026

• Why extreme restriction usually backfires

• How to build sustainable habits with balance

• What the Bible teaches about gluttony and self-control

Whether you're joining the challenge or simply want a healthier, more balanced approach to food and fitness, this episode will help you think clearly, biblically, and realistically about caring for your body.

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