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HERself

HERself

By: Abby and Amy
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As women and mothers of young children, it can be easy to compare ourselves to others. But your life isn't supposed to look like hers! Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. Are you wanting more ease in your marriage? Or more enjoyment as a parent? Are you looking for a strategy to the health challenges you have been facing recently? Do you feel like you have been staring at a stranger in the mirror since becoming a mother? Abby and Amy get vulnerable with topics around partnership, motherhood, health, and self improvement by interviewing authors, therapists, experts and everyday mothers. Our conversations will meet you with solutions and solidarity as you find a life path that feels aligned for you. If this sounds like you, hit play on your favorite episode title and make sure you're following the HERself podcast.

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  • 286. Is It Being Defensive or Is It Narcissism? With Dr. Jaime Zuckerman
    May 19 2025

    *trigger warning, abusive relationships*

    We feel it’s important to have open and honest discussions about heavy topics in this safe space that is the HERself podcast. In today’s episode, we will be asking the hard questions about narcissism with Dr. Jaime Zuckerman, licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic abuse. Dr. Jaime will help us understand the difference between a person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, narcissistic tendencies, or defensiveness. If you think you may be a child of a narcissistic parent, Dr. Jaime shares ways to navigate that relationship. And if you’re the friend of someone you feel may be in an intimate narcissistic abusive relationship, Dr. Jaime has some insights on how to be a supportive, available friend.

    Love bombing - sounds great, but is it really a good thing? Dr. Jaime will give us the details of love bombing and why you should be wary of this tidal wave of infatuation. All of the information Dr. Jaime shares with us today is eye opening and important to hear. Whether you’re in the dating world or a committed relationship, you’ll be given the tools to prevent getting into a narcissistic relationship, how to identify if you are in one, and know how to get out. Healing is important to us, so we’ve linked Dr. Jaime’s resources down below if you or someone you love needs them.


    Links & Resources:

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    Follow Dr. Jaime Zuckerman on Instagram

    Dr. Jaime’s Website and therapy group, The Z Group

    Listen to Dr. Jaime’s Podcast, Next Up: Narcissism with Dr. Z

    Purchase Dr. Jaime’s Workbooks; “Find Your Calm”, and “Find Good Habits”


    Let’s connect!

    HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcast

    Join our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!

    HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcast

    MEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskiefer

    MEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyro

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    40 mins
  • 285. Beyond the Group Chat: The Power of Real-Life Friendship with Anna Goldfarb
    May 12 2025

    Modern day friendships - why do they feel so hard? Did you know each of your friendships have an “about” section for your origin story? Why do I still feel lonely even though I have close friends?

    Friendships enrich our lives so much, but we understand that it can be hard to maintain old friendships and find the time to make meaningful new ones as busy moms! We are so pleased to have author, speaker, and seasoned journalist Anna Goldfarb on today’s episode to share her perspective on modern day friendships. While you may have several groups of friends (think friends from growing up, work friends, mom friends), those groups seldom overlap. Anna dives into WHY this has caused the new age problem of leaving us feeling lonely or isolated in friendships. We loved this idea she brought up about everyone having an “about section” for each of your friendships, and why that can actually help you to better understand your current friendship status and relationships with others. This episode is such a fun and energetic take on adult friendships that had us laughing along the way! We’ve talked about friendship plenty of times in other episodes, but this episode brought some new ideas forward. We’d love to hear what your takeaways were from today’s episode, and don’t forget to reach out to a friend and tell them you love them!


    Links & Resources:

    Free sample pack with purchase of LMNT

    10% off at BetterHelp

    Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!

    Follow Anna Goldfarb on Instagram

    Anna’s Website

    Join Anna’s Substack, Friendship Explained with Anna Goldfarb

    Purchase Anna’s Book; “Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections”

    And check out this free excerpt of the book!


    Let’s connect!

    HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcast

    Join our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!

    HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcast

    MEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskiefer

    MEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreen


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    45 mins
  • 284. How to Talk to Our Kids About Bullying with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler
    May 5 2025

    As our kids continue to age, the topic of bullying is becoming more front and center. Especially with our pre-teens as they enter what our guest refers to as, “the crucial years”, ages 5-12, where they are rapidly developing into complex people. The conversation today with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler, Licensed Clinical Psychologist and author of the book titled, “The Crucial Years” provides an honest conversation for how we can raise empathetic and kind children who understand the implications of bullying. We’ll cover everything from how to talk to your kids about bullying, how they can learn to respond if they see someone being bullied, and what to do if they’re being bullied themselves. Dr. Sheryl shares techniques, prompts, and scripts to encourage conversation with your kids surrounding bullying that we found SO helpful. We also talk about keeping the lines of conversation open when it comes to puberty and our developing kids. This episode is jam packed with amazing information, and we would love it if you shared what hit home for you in your Instagram stories or share the episode with a friend!


    Links & Resources:

    Free Shipping at GOODR with code ‘HERSELF’

    Check out Maui Nui Venison and the limited HERself collection!

    Check out your nearest Forage Kitchen

    Follow Dr. Sheryl Ziegler on Instagram

    Dr. Sheryl’s Website

    Startwiththetalk.com

    Listen to Dr. Sheryl’s Podcast: Dr. Sheryl’s PodCouch

    Preorder Dr. Sheryl’s Book; “The Crucial Years”, releasing on May 6th


    Let’s connect!

    HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcast

    Join our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!

    HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcast

    MEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskiefer

    MEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreen


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    1 hr

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