• Self-Care Survival | Deb Davis, Nicole Havelka and Di Hilstad
    Sep 2 2025
    Running your own business is rewarding, but let’s be honest—it can also be exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes downright soul-sucking. In this episode of Gratitude Geek, I chat with three powerhouse solopreneurs—Deb Davis, Nicole Halveka, and Di Hilstad—about survival-level self-care strategies for women over 40. From setting boundaries and asking for help to creating your personal “Survivor’s Toolkit,” we cover practical, real-world ways to protect your energy, thrive in your business, and still find time to breathe. Whether you’re facing burnout, health challenges, or just want to reclaim your calendar, this episode is packed with actionable tips to help you survive—and even enjoy—entrepreneurship. Meet the Host Kandas Rodarte is a business coach, podcaster, and internet marketing pioneer who has been helping women solopreneurs over 40 grow businesses that fit their lives for decades. Living with metastatic breast cancer since 2014, she understands firsthand the importance of self-care, boundaries, and working smart—less hustle, more impact. Meet the Guests Deb Davis is an accomplished headshot photographer and author, known for her stress-free sessions and expert expression coaching. She serves as President of Professional Photographers of Michigan (2024–2025) and is an elite Associate with the Peter Hurley Photography Group. Deb helps professionals over 40 show up fully, inside and out, using photography as a tool to highlight confidence and authenticity. Her personal journey as a breast cancer survivor has reshaped her approach to self-care and legacy, making her a relatable guide for solopreneurs navigating life and work simultaneously. Nicole Halveka is a burnout recovery and prevention coach who helps solopreneurs thrive amid chaos. With a background in institutional church leadership and years of navigating conflict and change, Nicole emphasizes spiritual practices, intentional planning, and community support as keys to sustainable success. She founded her coaching business to pass along strategies that help women over 40 avoid burnout while building businesses that reflect their true values. Dianna “Di” Hilstad is a bold, creative entrepreneur and solopreneur coach who helps women build businesses that feel authentic. Known for blending strategy with sass, Di has reinvented herself multiple times, including navigating breast cancer, a hysterectomy, and a broken ankle. She champions asking for help, setting boundaries, and thinking outside the box, making her insights invaluable for women balancing health, life, and business. Links Deb: https://upage.in/deb Nicole: http://defythetrend.com/ Di: http://instagram.com/dihils Energy Mapping: https://designingyour.life/insights/find-your-flow-with-energy-maps/ Full Show Notes: https://kandasrodarte.com/287 Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to Self-Care for Solopreneurs01:01 – Deb Davis: Self-Care Journey and Insights01:50 – Nicole Halveka: Burnout Recovery and Business Growth03:40 – Facing Mortality: Deb’s Perspective on Legacy06:46 – Creating a Survivor’s Toolkit for Solopreneurs12:00 – Establishing Boundaries and Recognizing Limits19:15 – Di Hilstad: Asking for Help and Pausing When Needed22:35 – Lessons on Self-Care and Community Support25:18 – Setting Boundaries Through Asking for Help27:59 – Balancing Giving and Receiving29:08 – Understanding and Enforcing Boundaries31:51 – Impact of Personal Stories on Relationships37:40 – Navigating the Sharing of Personal Experiences40:07 – Lightning Round: Quickfire Insights === Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, comment & share! Join the Gratitude Geek community and stay updated with exclusive content, behind-the-scenes insights, and more. Sign up for our email list here: http://kandasrodarte.com/subscribe Support Gratitude Geek Podcast At Gratitude Geek, we aim to spread gratitude, sow seeds of appreciation, and harvest a bounty of generosity and kindness. As a listener, reader, and subscriber, you are part of this mission, and we are honored to have your support. If possible, please help finance the show: http://kandasrodarte.com/support Affiliate Disclosure: Some links in the show notes may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show! Gratitude Geek is part of the Podmatch Network. Learn how Podmatch can help you grow your visibility: http://kandasrodarte.com/podmatch
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  • Why Chasing Joy Is Better Than Chasing Money | Gretchen Schoser
    Aug 26 2025

    How one entrepreneur turned a mental health crisis into a mission-driven business

    Is money really the measure of success—or is joy the real currency of entrepreneurship?

    In episode 286 of Gratitude Geek Podcast, host Kandas Rodarte talks with Gretchen Schoser, founder of Schoser Talent and Wellness Solutions and co-host of the award-winning podcast Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads.

    After surviving a mental health crisis, Gretchen rebuilt her life and business from the ground up. Today she helps small business owners embrace people-first leadership, employee wellness, and authentic growth strategies. Together, we explore how gratitude, resilience, and humor can transform not only your business—but your entire outlook on success.

    This conversation is packed with wisdom for female solopreneurs, creative entrepreneurs, and small business owners who want to grow with purpose instead of pressure.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
    • Why joy—not money—creates sustainable business success
    • How to reinvent yourself after personal or professional setbacks
    • Practical wellness habits to help entrepreneurs thrive
    • How gratitude builds stronger client and team relationships

    Time Stamps:

    00:00 – Intro: Chasing Joy vs. Chasing Money
    02:15 – Gretchen Schoser’s Mental Health Journey
    07:40 – From Pain to Purpose: Launching Schoser Solutions
    12:10 – People-First Leadership for Small Business Owners
    18:25 – Gratitude as a Business Growth Strategy
    23:50 – Using Humor & Honesty in Podcasting
    29:30 – Reinventing Entrepreneurship After Setbacks
    35:00 – Wellness Habits for Entrepreneur Success
    42:15 – Small Business Hiring & Team-Building Tips
    48:20 – Advice for Female Solopreneurs Over 40
    53:00 – Final Takeaways: Choosing Joy Every Day

    Connect with Gretchen Schoser:

    🌐 Website: https://schosersolutions.com
    🎙️ Podcast: https://goesoninourheads.net

    📖 Full Show Notes: https://kandasrodarte.com/286

    📥 Grab your free guide: Move the Needle: 8 Bold AI Experiments for Small Business Momentum → http://kandasrodarte.com/bold

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  • 3 AI Tools I Use Everyday | Kandas Rodarte
    Aug 19 2025

    In this solo episode of Gratitude Geek, I tackle a controversial claim about artificial intelligence:

    “The underlying purpose of AI is to allow wealth to access skill while removing from the skilled the ability to access wealth.” – @jeffowski

    I call BS.

    Instead, I share how AI actually levels the playing field and helps solopreneurs like me grow their businesses. You’ll hear how I use three powerful tools every day:

    • NotebookLM for research and repurposing podcast/blog content

    • ChatGPT (aka “River”) for brainstorming, clarity, and even pep talks

    • Canva’s AI tools for quick, professional graphics that save time

    Plus, I’ll update you on what’s new on the Gratitude Geek blog, and I’m announcing a brand-new free guide: 8 Bold Experiments to Move the Needle in Your Business.

    🔗 Download the free guide here → http://kandasrodarte.com/bold
    🔗 Explore the blog → http://kandasrodarte.com/blog
    🔗 Full Show Notes: http://kandasrodarte.com/285

    Whether you’re curious about AI, skeptical of the hype, or looking for practical tools to help your small business, this episode will give you fresh perspective (and a few bold experiments to try).

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  • How Sharing Your Story Can Win Clients and Build Confidence | Robert B. Foster
    Aug 12 2025

    Are you missing out on clients because you’re not telling your story? In this episode of Gratitude Geek, Kandas Rodarte talks with Robert B. Foster—speaker, coach, and author of Shut Up and Grind—about the power of storytelling to grow your business and boost your confidence.

    Robert shares how to turn your life lessons into your most valuable marketing tool, connect authentically with clients, and find the courage to speak up even when it feels scary. From knowing when (and when not) to share personal details to building resilience through public speaking, this conversation is packed with practical strategies and inspiring examples.

    If you’ve ever wondered how your unique journey could help you stand out in business, this episode will show you how to share it in a way that resonates and converts—on your own terms.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
    • Why storytelling is one of the most underrated marketing tools for solopreneurs
    • How to decide which parts of your story to share—and which to keep private
    • The difference between authentic confidence and performative presence
    • How to reconcile ambition with self-care
    • Why prioritizing yourself is good for your business and your clients
    Links:
    • Free Worksheet: Prioritize Yourself Without Guilt – https://robertbfoster.com/
    • Robert’s Book: Shut Up and Grind - https://amzn.to/4ow40aT (affiliate link)
    • Full Show Notes: http://kandasrodarte.com/284

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 Intro – Meet Robert B. Foster
    01:57 From restaurants to fitness to speaking
    06:22 Why client connection starts with staff connection
    09:08 Turning pain into purpose
    11:45 Knowing when to share your story
    20:13 Reconciling “grind” culture with self-care
    25:07 Confidence vs. fake social media presence
    31:48 Storytelling as a marketing tool
    36:27 The power of a tribe and accountability
    40:17 Prioritizing yourself without guilt
    43:52 Imposter syndrome and expertise
    46:29 A storytelling formula that inspires
    51:10 Robert’s moment of gratitude

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    About Gratitude Geek
    Gratitude Geek is the podcast for micropreneurs who dare to build bold brands and lasting connections—on their own terms. Hosted by Kandas Rodarte, each episode dives into authentic marketing, relationship building, and sustainable business growth without hustle culture. http://GratitudeGeek.com

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  • Is Your Business Franchisable? Tips to Scale with Heart | Brittney Lincoln
    Aug 5 2025

    Franchise strategist Brittney Lincoln shares what female solopreneurs need to know about scaling through franchising, building systems, and leading with heart.

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    Franchising isn't just for big corporations—it's a growth strategy female solopreneurs can use to scale smart and with heart.

    In episode 283 of Gratitude Geek, I sit down with franchise strategist and connector Brittney Lincoln, founder of Females in Franchising and VP at Limitless Franchise Growth. We dig into what makes a business franchisable, how to scale without burning out, and why helping others succeed might be your best path to growth.

    Whether you're curious about turning your business into a franchise or just want to run your solopreneur biz more efficiently, this conversation is packed with systems, mindset shifts, and powerful takeaways.

    What You'll Learn

    • Why franchising isn’t just for big corporations—and how solopreneurs can benefit
    • The 4 questions to ask before turning your business into a franchise
    • How your personality and passion play a role in franchising success
    • The surprising stats on women in franchising—and why that needs to change
    • The difference between franchising and licensing (and which is right for you)
    • How to systematize your solopreneur business like a mini-franchise
    • The power of storytelling in brand growth (Wendy’s, Cheese Lady, and more)
    • What franchise consultants do and why you shouldn’t buy without one
    • How helping others succeed can accelerate your own business growth
    • Brittney’s mission with Females in Franchising and how to get involved

    Connect with Brittney Lincoln

    🌐 Website: https://www.limitlessfranchisegrowth.com/

    🖇️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brittney-lincoln-39356843/

    📝 Full Show Notes: https://kandasrodarte.com/283

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    Affiliate Disclosure: Some links in the show notes may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show!

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    46 mins
  • What If Your Biggest Doubts Are Actually Superpowers? | Dawn Ledet
    Jul 29 2025

    Struggling with self-doubt as a solopreneur? Self-trust coach Dawn Ledet reveals how your mindset, inner dialogue, and follow-through skills can unlock success after 40.

    So many female entrepreneurs over 40 are held back not by lack of talent or hustle—but by self-doubt and second-guessing. In this episode, self-trust coach Dawn Ledet shares how your inner dialogue can become your biggest asset (instead of your sneakiest saboteur).

    We dig into her 3E Success Method, how to rebuild self-trust after failure, and why having your own back might be the key to consistency and clarity in business.

    If you’ve ever struggled to make decisions, follow through, or bounce back from perfectionism, this episode will help you see doubt in a whole new light.

    Listen now to hear:
    • Why self-doubt might be pointing to your hidden strengths
    • The 3 essential skills every entrepreneur needs to succeed
    • The difference between confidence and self-trust
    • Real-world tools for getting things done—even when you don’t feel like it
    • How to start rebuilding trust in yourself todayConnect with Dawn Ledet

    Connect with Dawn Ledet

    • Website: theselftrustcoach.com
    • Books: https://amzn.to/3U0Aa0g
    • Podcast: The Self Trust Solution
    • Free Resource: 7-Day Self Trust Boost
    • Instagram: @dawnledetcoach
    • Facebook: @dawnledetcoach
    • LinkedIn: Dawn Ledet
    • Show notes: http://kandasrodarte.com/282

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    44 mins
  • Business After Breast Cancer | Deb Krier
    Jul 22 2025
    What happens when cancer crashes your life and your livelihood? In episode 281 of the Gratitude Geek podcast, I sit down with entrepreneur and cancer thriver Deb Krier to talk candidly about living with Stage 4 breast cancer while still showing up for your clients, your business, and most importantly—yourself. Deb and I don’t sugarcoat anything. We’ve both walked through cancer diagnoses, nerve damage, port drama, chemo fog, and endless unsolicited “cures.” And yet—we kept going. Sometimes we paused. Sometimes we powered through. And we both learned how to run our businesses in radically new ways. This is the episode I wish existed when I was first diagnosed. It’s equal parts support group, strategy session, and a little redhead sass. In This Episode, We Talk About: What “working through cancer” really looks likeTools and therapies (traditional and woo) that actually helpHow to decide what business tasks to keep, delegate, or dropThe mental game of staying visible while your body is falling apartWhy we should stop apologizing for our boundariesDeb’s philosophy: “You’re the boss. Not cancer. Not your doctor. You.” Connect with Deb Krier Deb Krier’s Website: https://tryingnottodie.liveDeb’s Facebook Group: Support Group on FacebookDeb on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/deborahkrierDeb’s Podcast: The Business Power HourEpisode Show Notes: https://kandasrodarte.com/281 About Deb Krier: Deb Krier is the founder of TryingNotToDie.LIVE, a platform that empowers individuals navigating cancer to live boldly and on their own terms. A seasoned marketing and PR professional, Deb brings the same fearless spirit to her work as she does to her personal health journey. Diagnosed with Stage 4 triple positive breast cancer in 2015 and later thyroid cancer, Deb has refused to let illness define her. She now inspires others to take ownership of their journey, build resilient communities, and find purpose—no matter the diagnosis. Gratitude Shoutout: Deb’s moment of gratitude? This conversation. And I’m right there with her. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro: When business and cancer collide02:30 Deb’s first diagnosis: Stage 0 to Stage 4 overnight06:15 Chemo, septic shock, and working from a hospital bed09:40 Why Kandas stopped her podcast—and what brought it back13:10 Ports, Herceptin, insurance battles, and treatment evolution19:30 Complementary therapies: What helped, what didn’t24:00 Oncologists vs primary care: Why you need both27:10 When to fire your doctor (and how to find a better one)31:30 Humor as medicine: Princess Anastasia Beaverhousen enters36:00 The real deal with medical marijuana and biosimilars40:20 Cancer’s impact on business decisions and boundaries44:10 Deb’s advice for newly diagnosed entrepreneurs47:00 Kandas’ take: cancer doesn’t define your business48:30 Moment of gratitude & wrap-up If you're living with cancer and still running your business—or supporting someone who is—this episode is for you. Cancer might change your schedule, your capacity, and your boundaries. But it doesn’t get to take your voice. Stay groovy, my friends. === Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, comment & share! Join the Gratitude Geek community and stay updated with exclusive content, behind-the-scenes insights, and more. Sign up for our email list here: http://kandasrodarte.com/subscribe Support Gratitude Geek Podcast At Gratitude Geek, we aim to spread gratitude, sow seeds of appreciation, and harvest a bounty of generosity and kindness. As a listener, reader, and subscriber, you are part of this mission, and we are honored to have your support. If possible, please help finance the show: http://kandasrodarte.com/support Affiliate Disclosure: Some links in the show notes may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show! Gratitude Geek is part of the Podmatch Network. Learn how Podmatch can help you grow your visibility: http://kandasrodarte.com/podmatch
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  • Joy-Driven Success: Transform Your Life & Business | Kimberley Mitchell
    Jul 15 2025

    What if joy isn’t a fleeting feeling but the ultimate business strategy?

    In episode 280, Air Force veteran, mental health advocate, and transformational leader Kimberly Mitchell — known as the "Joy Warrior" — shares her Journey to Joy System. Kimberly reveals how healing your inner world and rewriting limiting beliefs can unlock unstoppable success in life and business.

    We explore why so many women struggle with money mindsets, how to turn fear into fuel, and why curiosity (not hustle) is the ultimate growth tool. From roller skating as an adult to reframing joy in daily tasks, Kimberly’s stories will have you rethinking what’s possible for you and your business.

    “Joy isn’t a reward at the finish line — it’s the fuel that gets you there.” — Kimberly Mitchell

    Key Takeaways
    • Joy as a business strategy, not just a feeling
    • Why healing your beliefs is the foundation of success
    • How to transform money mindsets with respect and gratitude
    • The power of curiosity and rewriting your personal story
    • Embracing joy in "irrational" or unexpected ways to reconnect with yourself

    Connect with Kimberly Mitchell

    🖇️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oekimm/

    📝 Show Notes: https://kandasrodarte.com/280

    Timestamps:

    • 0:00 — Welcome & Introduction
    • 2:00 — From Air Force to Corporate: Kimberly’s Journey
    • 7:30 — Discovering the Power of Inner Work
    • 12:00 — Overcoming Fear & Limiting Beliefs
    • 17:00 — Joy as a Business Strategy
    • 22:00 — Intention & Reframing
    • 27:00 — Applying Joy Practically in Business
    • 31:30 — Diversity, Openness & Community Impact
    • 36:00 — Managing Money with Joy
    • 41:00 — Finding Joy in Tedious Tasks
    • 45:00 — Embracing Fun & Irrational Joy
    • 48:00 — Legacy, Curiosity & Empowering Women
    • 49:30 — Gratitude & Closing

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    51 mins