We often ask for growth, but are we willing to pay the price for it? The scariest thing about moving forward isn't the work itself—it's the fear of the unknown. When we don't have a clear picture of what’s ahead, we tend to run back to the toxic "comfort" of what we know.

In this episode, we explore the internal roadblocks that keep us stuck in old cycles. We dive deep into why your desire for control is actually the enemy of your progress and how to embrace the "ING"—the nonstop process of rebuilding, healing, and transforming.

In this episode, we discuss:

- The Cost of Growth: Why growth is a "precious and expensive" investment that requires you to count the cost.

- The Mirror of Pride: Why we often think a message is for someone else's ears rather than our own heart.

- The Power of Grace: Learning that grace is the divine ability to do what you couldn't do just moments before.

Tell us in the comments: What is one area of your life where you've been choosing control over growth? Let's support each other in the comments below.

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We’ve been taught how to be wives and how to be mothers… but were we ever taught how to be friends?

In this Grace & Truth conversation, Pastor Tiffaney and her guests expose the silent competition that destroys women’s circles, from the “eye” we give each other when we walk in the room, to friendships that stay “neutral” when you’re the one hurting.

This is real sisterhood and real conversation: why women struggle to trust each other, how jealousy shows up subtly, what loyalty actually looks like, and how to tell if someone is truly a safe place.

In this episode, we get real about:

- Why women “size each other up” (and where it really comes from)

- The difference between spirit-led friendship vs. performative friendship

- Why some women forgive men faster than they forgive women

- How to handle friendships when you’re growing… and they’re not

- The role men play (intentionally or unintentionally) in competition between women

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What happens when you think you missed God’s moment, but heaven says you didn’t? In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James and Tiffaney unpack the truth about God’s timing, Kairos moments, and the seasons we wish we would have known more back then.

From missed opportunities to divine delays, this conversation brings clarity, healing, and hope for anyone questioning where they are in life right now. You’ll hear real stories about:

• The difference between Chronos time and Kairos time
• Why preparation matters more than opportunity
• How disappointment can actually be divine positioning
• When “missing it” is really God protecting you
• The danger of entitlement vs. the power of humility
• Why God sometimes calls you to build your own table

Watch, listen, and lean in. This conversation may shift how you see your season. Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this. Available now on all podcast platforms.