• #49 BUSH THONGS, HOLIDAY CONFESSIONS & BEING THE BACHELORETTE WITH RACHEL LINDSAY
    Dec 24 2025

    SANTA HASN’T TOUCHED MY SNOW GLOBES IN 84 YEARS 😩🎅

    IT’S A HOLIDAY MIRACLE! Rachel Lindsay—attorney, former Bachelorette, and my ride-or-die since Day 2 (not Day 1, RUDE)—joins me on this chaotic, shroom-fueled, ADHD-suspecting, bush-celebrating Christmas episode. We talk Cowboys heartbreak, BravoCon secrets, our iconic Bachelor beginnings (yes, I was the dolphin), and why tamales might just ruin Christmas. Oh, and we played a lil’ holiday confession game that honestly turned into a therapy session.


    If you're literally not okay this season, SAME.

    Grab some wine, take a breath, and press play, baby 🎧


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    45 mins
  • #48 RED FLAGS, CUBIZIA & NAVIGATING THE CHAOS OF YOUR 20s WITH ASHLYNN NEUMAYER
    Dec 17 2025

    Okay, so this week on Literally, Not OK, I’m joined by my twin flame, TikTok queen, and Cubiza founder herself—Ashlynn Neumayer . We’re talking all about how she went from corporate cubicle tears to FULL-TIME CONTENT BADDIE (hello, viral DJ sets in the office??), her tragic love life (relatable), and why Dallas dating is literally a horror movie.


    Ashlynn is funny, real AF, and we both overshare like it’s our job (well... it kinda is). This is the episode for anyone who’s literally not okay and just trying to romanticize their life through seasonal depression, TikTok trends, and apple-flavored Olipops.


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    46 mins
  • #47 GETTING GHOSTED, BEING SOBER & THE DATING CULTURE IN DALLAS WITH ELSEBEATS
    Dec 10 2025

    OMG HELLO MY LOVES!!! 💕 You are NOT ready for this episode of Literally Not Okay because I sat down with the queen of the streets herself — the ICONIC dating journalist taking over Dallas… ELSBEATS!


    We talk all things dating, ghosting, shirtless men on the Katy Trail, espresso cups of ENERGY, and the actual tea behind why dating in Dallas is LITERALLY NOT OKAY 😵‍💫 Plus I spiral about my closet, my malfunctioning brain, and how my husband is nitpicking me to death — love you, Tyler 😘


    We also get into red flags, green flags, pen pals on Hinge, and how hot men are scared too. Y’all need to hear this one. It’s a whole dang therapy session with a side of Matcha (jk they were dirty!!)


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    33 mins
  • #46 BETRAYAL LISTS, REVERSE SNOBBERY & KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE FUN WITH COURTNEY NOONAN
    Dec 3 2025

    HELLO MY LOVES!!! This week’s episode of Literally Not Okay is UNHINGED in the BEST way. I’m joined by fashion queen, reality TV icon, and influencer OG Courtney Noonan (yes, Kerr, but we’re manifesting the name change lol). From Barbie vaginas and clogging toilets to coffee & titties saving marriages – NOTHING is off-limits and honestly, I’ve never related more. 🤝


    We deep dive into:

    Marriage name-change trauma

    Reverse snobbery (STOP asking “where are you headed?”)

    Leaf blowers, floaters, and betrayal lists

    Being the loyalist hoe for your friends 💅

    Influencer hot takes + fashion icks

    Why men’s toes should NEVER see an airport


    Grab your espresso martini, maybe vape (don’t), and come hang out with us for the funniest hour of your week.


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    56 mins
  • #45 BUSH THONGS, FRIENDSHIP BREAKUPS & HOW TO BE CONFIDENT WITH CASHAY PROUDFOOT
    Nov 26 2025

    On this week’s episode of Literally Not Okay, the radiant, hilarious, and horny QUEEN herself Cashay Proudfoot is back — and we dive deep into the chaos.


    Plus — we unpack the pressure to be hot and happy online, Cashay’s healing era, and how her grandma’s passing led to a MAJOR mindset shift.


    It’s unfiltered. It’s hilarious. It’s therapy. It’s chaos. It’s what you need.


    Subscribe, rate, and drop a review if you also haven’t had sex in a while and are one DM away from doing something reckless. 😅


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    34 mins
  • #44 WHY PARENTS NEVER CHANGE AND MEN CAN’T BE SICK WITH ROSEBUD BAKER
    Nov 19 2025

    This week on Literally Not Okay, I’m joined by the one and only Rosebud Baker — actress, comedian, writer, and my brain twin 🧠💥 We talk everything from Netflix specials and wiener costumes (yes, really) to our mutual realization that our parents are never changing. EVER.


    We’re waking up at the crack of dawn (read: 11:30AM) to get real about marriage, motherhood, why men are allergic to being sick, and why being alone might actually be... hot?


    Buckle up bitches — it’s chaos, it’s healing, it’s hilarious... and it's literally not okay.


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    📺 Watch her special The Trick Is The Trick now on Netflix!


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    26 mins
  • #43 CRYING ON THE INTERNET, FRIENDSHIP BREAKUPS & BEING TOO MUCH WITH EMMA PAIGE
    Nov 12 2025

    This week on Literally, Not Okay, I’m joined by the baddest bitch herself, Emma Paige — host of the Too Much podcast — and we are in rare form.


    Emma spills it ALL, including the insane backstory behind her former podcast, her literal legal drama, being erased from the internet, and how she came back hotter and more powerful than ever. We also talk boob jobs, the New York City vortex, girl math with martinis, real estate depression, dating with boundaries, and the art of not giving a single F.


    It’s giving unbothered, it’s giving eloquent, it’s giving… justice. You're gonna love this one.


    Make sure to follow Emma at @emmastoomuch on all the things and stream Too Much wherever you get your podcasts!


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    New episodes every week!


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    31 mins
  • #42 FAMILY VALUES, BAD HOOKUPS & HOW TO BE A DADDY WITH NIKO EMANUILIDIS
    Nov 5 2025

    He was obsessed with you... texting every day, planning your wedding in week two — and now he’s gone?? 🤬


    This week on Literally, Not Okay, I sit down with The Daddy Academy himself, Niko Emanuilidis, to figure out why guys love bomb and then ghost, what it actually means when they say "I'm just not a big texter," and how to stop spiraling over mixed signals. 🙃


    We talk:

    💥 Love bombing vs genuine connection

    🚩 Red flags on first dates

    👻 Post-nut clarity (yep, we went there)

    🧠 Why emotionally intelligent men are rare AF

    💋 The importance of a good first kiss (sorry, Nick Viall)

    & why your dating life is literally... not okay.


    Let’s unpack the chaos together.


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    🎟️ Grab tickets to Niko’s live show: Nov. 7 @ City Winery NYC

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    56 mins