Ever wondered what’s actually changing when the scales drop? Is it just fat, or could diets be quietly affecting your muscle mass, bone density, or even your long-term health?

This week, I’m sharing a personal story about my own fat loss journey, my new smart scales (yes, I was sceptical at first too), and how one weigh-in made me question everything we think we know about "losing weight." From muscle loss to metabolic age, we go deeper than the scales.

We’ll talk about:

- Why the number on the scale doesn’t tell the full story

- The *real* difference between fat loss and weight loss

- How restrictive dieting can actually harm your body

- Why long-term goals and lifestyle changes are key

- The myths, fads, and TikTok traps to look out for

Plus, I open up about my own transformation – from chasing quick fixes to training for High Rocks and loving the long game.

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Let’s get your fit together – for good.

In this episode of Get Your Fit Together, Ashley Loren dives deep into how our childhood experiences and relationships with our parents shape our body image, confidence, and relationship with food. Through personal reflection, Ashley shares how generational patterns of self-esteem, judgment, and food perceptions have influenced her own journey toward body acceptance and self-love.

Ashley opens up about the subtle but profound ways her upbringing shaped her views on weight loss, fitness, and self-worth, and explores how the expectations placed on us as children can carry into adulthood. She discusses how her mother’s attitudes toward food and body image impacted her, and how, as a parent herself, she is now mindful of the messages she sends to her own children.

Ashley also delves into the challenges of breaking free from old thought patterns and conditioning, acknowledging how important it is to look back with self-compassion, while also working to move forward. If you’ve ever wondered how your past shapes your present relationship with food, your body, or your self-esteem, this episode will resonate with you.

Key Takeaways:

- How childhood relationships with parents can influence our body image, confidence, and relationship with food.

- The impact of generational trauma and conditioning on our self-esteem and weight loss journeys.

- The importance of breaking free from negative thought patterns and building self-love, respect, and body acceptance.

- Ashley’s personal reflection on her relationship with her parents and how it’s shaped her journey toward self-empowerment.

- Practical insights on how to heal from past conditioning and cultivate a healthy mindset for lasting change.

If you’re interested in doing the deep self-reflection work Ashley talks about, reach out to her on Instagram for personalised coaching, or see the link here

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In this episode of Get Your Fit Together, Ashley dives into the power of simple nutrition swaps that can help you make big changes without overwhelming yourself.

As a busy mum of two, Ashley knows how hard it can be to juggle meals for the family while staying on track with your health goals.

She shares her journey of overcoming the struggles with diet and how making small, sustainable changes led to big improvements in her body, mindset, and overall well-being.

Ashley discusses:

- How she’s found confidence in her body after weight loss, muscle toning, and mindset shifts.

- The importance of meal planning and prepping (without overcomplicating it).

- Easy nutrition swaps for protein-rich meals that won’t break the bank or take hours in the kitchen.

- The key to balancing protein with fiber, and why it's essential for overall gut health.

- How focusing on your basal metabolic rate (BMR) and maintenance calories can make a huge difference in how you approach your diet.

- Real-life examples of healthy swaps Ashley makes, including high-protein wraps, lean meats, and even delicious protein bars (yes, there’s a tasty one that’s just like Snickers!).

Ashley also touches on the importance of eating what you enjoy—without restriction—because food should fuel your body *and* bring joy. If you’ve been struggling with restrictive diets or feeling like you have to sacrifice flavor for health, this episode is for you!

Want more tips? Check out Ashley’s YouTube video on calculating your maintenance calories,

Follow along for more simple tips to help you reset your nutrition and feel your best!

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