EPISODE OVERVIEW
What does leadership look like when everything is on the line?
In this deeply moving episode of For Love & Money, I’m joined by Peter Baines OAM — humanitarian, leadership expert, founder of Hands Across The Water, and author of the powerful new book Together We Can (his fourth book).
Peter’s career began in forensic policing, investigating homicides and leading international disaster victim identification teams following events such as the 2002 Bali bombings and the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami. But it was his work in Thailand after the tsunami — and a chance meeting with children who had lost everything — that set him on a completely different path.
Twenty years on, Hands Across The Water has raised more than $40 million, supporting children and young people through long-term care, education and opportunity.
To mark the 20th anniversary of the tsunami, Peter undertook an extraordinary 1,400-kilometre run across Thailand in just 26 days — the equivalent of 33 marathons — an experience that he captures in his latest book, Together We Can.
But this conversation isn’t really about endurance.
It’s about collective effort, presence, belief, and what becomes possible when people come together around a shared purpose. Peter shares the leadership lessons forged through crisis, the power of community, and why doing hard things — together — matters more than ever.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE
- Why Peter believes love has a role in business and leadership
- What two decades of forensic and disaster work taught him about presence
- The moment that led to the founding of Hands Across The Water
- Why charity growth is not the ultimate measure of success
- The story behind Together We Can and the Run to Remember
- What it takes to lead when success is uncertain and failure is possible
- How leaders “bring the weather” — and why that matters
- The cost of doing big things alone, and the power of doing them together
- Peter’s vision for the next five years of Hands Across The Water
ABOUT PETER BAINES OAM
LEADERSHIP EXPERT. POWERFUL STORYTELLER. EVERYDAY HERO. Investigating homicides, leading international teams into scenes of crisis and disaster is not your normal path to global keynote speaker and business consultant. It was this unique path that provided insights into leadership which are so different yet offer relevant reflections and learnings to businesses facing change, growth or challenges of their own. Peter worked in countries following major crisis including Indonesia, Japan, Thailand and Saudi Arabia. His grounding came from two decades as a forensic investigator that saw him unravel the mysteries and discover the secrets of criminals thought rested solely with them. Prior to finishing his career as a forensic investigator he would spend time working with both Interpol in Lyon, France and the United Nations Office of Drug and Crime advising on Counter Terrorism and capacity building. But it was the work in Thailand that brought the biggest change. In response to the needs of the children left without a home or parents he would form Hands Across the Water and commence fundraising in Australia to build them a home. Almost twenty years after starting the charity, he now spends much of his time helping other charity and business leaders on how they can and indeed should benefit from their engagement with their community partners through corporate social responsibility programs.
In 2024, to acknowledge the 20th anniversary of the 2004 tsunami he ran 1400km’s in just 26 days in Thailand averaging 60kms a day in the heat and humidity of Thailand the equivalent of running 33 marathons in 26 days.
When he is not engaged in work, you will find him driving his tractor on the farm where he lives with his wife, Claire, raising cattle and nurturing the ground on which they live. His other interests that he embraces with a passion is as a helicopter pilot flying at every opportunity he gets and crossing the finish line of ultra marathons with his dogs Burton and Frankie.
In 2025, Peter was identified as one of the top five most influential Australians working in Thailand.
LINKS & RESOURCES
Together We Can — Peter Baines: Buy the book, buy the audiobook, get a sample chapter.
Hands Across The Water website
Peter Baines — Leadership & Speaking
Watch a short video about Run to Remember