”In this week’s episode of First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about one of their most personal and ongoing challenges—building a supportive village while living far away from their home base. As partners, parents, and individuals, they reflect on how community is essential not just for raising kids, but for sustaining a healthy relationship.This letter to their future children is a reminder: your support system matters, and building one intentionally is a life skill worth learning. The hosts get honest about their wins and misses in creating that village, and share the kind of family and community they hope their kids will be better at building for themselves.Poll Question:When it comes to dating, which birth order position makes the best partner?OldestMiddleYoungestOnly ChildMake sure to like, subscribe, comment, and follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm to join the conversation and share your answer

On this week’s episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are getting real about MISTAKES. What’s the difference between a genuine accident and a true mistake? And once it happens—then what?

The couple opens up about the times they’ve stumbled, how they made things right (or at least tried to), and how they handle the lingering feelings of regret. It's an honest and heartfelt look at taking accountability, growing from your missteps, and learning to forgive yourself and your partner.

And yes—we’re even asking: was it just a mistake… or was he being a jerk?

This episode is about owning your truth, learning, and moving forward with love. Don’t miss it!

This week’s poll:
Can you come back from a big mistake in a relationship?

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It’s a celebration! This week on First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, we’re showering our amazing host Lindsey with birthday love. In true podcast fashion, we turn this personal moment into a meaningful conversation about gratitude, appreciation, and the joy of celebrating life’s big and small wins.

Aaron and Lindsey dive into what makes a good gift—is it the thought that counts, or does the price tag matter? They also reflect on the milestones of the past year and the power of pausing to appreciate how far you’ve come.

Whether you’re in celebration mode or need a reminder to give yourself some flowers, this episode is for you!

This week’s poll:
Do you prefer a thoughtful gift or an expensive gift?

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