I like planning ahead, no one knows my next move, you can hurt me and still don’t know my moves. I would rather play chess than checkers. If you don’t show your moves, then they exposé themselves and all their tricks. You think you win, but really you lost. Did it hurt yes, but I have nothing to hide. I use to play chess a lot. Man when those tables turn and they thought they played you but they played themselves. You had a chance but you had to be loud. Being loud doesn’t always mean you’re innocent, just means you can’t hide what you did. Each court case takes time, but being smart and not saying anything and being humble, and always three steps ahead, it’s no wonder why everything starts to unfold. I’m not afraid because the truth always wins and when you have a wonderful team, four lanes isn’t about changing paths , it’s about understand you were put on this path to expose the wrong and show what is right. You were given the toughest battles because you could handle it but also prove that a Christian doesn’t need to be loud but to show who they truly are through their actions. Actions always speak louder than words. At the end of the day it’s not about you, it’s about helping others but making light that this can happen to anyone. It is scary, terrifying and can get emotional at times, but going through this you weren’t by yourself. You chose to go through this and to testify, to face the fear to make change for many. Many wouldn’t choose to speak because of how scary it is, but when you know you didn’t do nothing wrong. You know you will prosper and be proven innocent, you just have to patient. The ones who play stupid games will win stupid prizes. God gave you this for a reason, that you never made this about you, it will never be about you. It won’t be first time and it won’t be my last time. No matter what you go through, you got this.

was mentally, sexually, physically and verbally abused by a forty year old man that I wasn’t related to. I was choked, have scars from lighter burns, I was hit and yelled at. It started when I nine but progressed worse, before my thirteenth birthday. I didn’t find God, God found me. I will admit I am not perfect, I have hurt others with my words. I have lashed my anger out. I made mistakes, but I always chose to do the right thing. To make amends and correct my mistakes, because you never know when you may need that individual again. I had the actual judge and lawyer come to my house, the judge personally delivered the verdict to me, because I couldn’t be in the same room. I hid my phone, but I collected evidence that could be used against him. I got a lifetime restraining order, and he can’t be in the same state as me. Having your door spilt I half infront of you, to see the rage of a man and no one is home to protect you. For years I didn’t tell my dad, not because I didn’t want him to know, I just didn’t want to lose him for doing something stupid. There is a type of guilt and shame that you carry, I became someone I didn’t recognize. I was the one to blame, I caused this or it was made this up for attention. That’s why many survivors don’t share their story. Many of us still look over our shoulders, because we will never feel safe. This was my low tide, but I eventually learned to break the chains and share my survival story. It still hurts, it still brings tears and my voice still shakes, I still have nightmares, but I am in better place. I never used my pain to hurt others. It took a lot of work to heal, even though once you leave that situation. You have to deal with the consequences it has on your health. You have to unlearn the bad habits and everything you learned while you were in survival mode. When you are in survival, you are a completely different person. Once you’re free, your punishment for things that you didn’t cause is the health problems that comes afterwards. You become sick because your body is so used to being survival mode. Matt Hearn was the first once who knows my story, because he did a sermon on this topic. I miss him, but I know he is in better place. I had so many wonderful people who are in my life, especially the one who is reading this. I haven’t forgotten the ones who have been there for me. Who stood up for me, even when I didn’t ask for it. I do appreciate it and I haven’t forgotten it. My relationship will always remain strong with the Lord, I am not perfect but I know I am forgiven even when though I don’t deserve it.

I loved competitions especially when it came to writing or math. I got in first place twice and second place once doing multiplication problems but timed. I love doing math in my head but hate writing it out. My grandfather was a math teacher, bus driver and principal. I started learning cursive, math and writing at very young age. I learned English through music and I learned how to walk with a buggy. I couldn’t walk or talk until I was five years old. I was delayed but that didn’t keep me back. I got the love for music and weather from my grandfather. I know how to play the clarinet, guitar, piano and violin but it’s been a while. Ebenezer Middle School got in second place with the band competition. I type fast because each year I took a typing class to become efficient in typing. No matter where the current goes I chose to thrive, try new things and step out of my comfort zone. I loved being in front of crowds. I am not afraid of crowds. I am not afraid to make a change or address what needs to be changed. From Cornelia, Georgia, Rincon, Georgia, Pooler, Georgia to Savannah, Georgia, so many memories happened. What many didn’t know even though my elementary school and middle school years I was in Effingham County. I was in West Chatham Middle School Yearbook in the very back. I did a lot of events with Kelly Tours and somehow my picture at twelve ended up in the yearbook. I wasn’t just associated with Effigham County but also Chatham County as well. Each path has a connection, it will make sense why we run into certain people. Why some leave and why some stay forever. Sometimes many who cross our path is to either to teach us a lesson or to show us what we are missing.

Listening to “See you again”, “Start all over” , “The Best Of Both Worlds”, “The other side of me”, “This is the life”, “Nobody’s Perfect”, “Rock Star”, “Life’s what you make it”, “Bigger than us”, “You and me together”, “Ordinary Girl”, “I’m still good”, “You always find you’re way back home”, “Dream”. By Miley Cyrus. I got to meet Miley Cyrus on Tybee Island, when she was filming “Hannah Montana, Miley Cyrus” “The Movie. I was in crowd that is in the movie. I was nine years old. I was in the Sponge Bob movie as well, but as background (Trees), when they filming in Downtown Savannah, during my eight grade year. I got to meet Patrick Dempsey, He is McDreamy on Grey’s Anatomy. He raced with the number 58 in the Rolex 24. The Rolex is a 24hr race, that I been to four times. A funny story, I was wearing a Maine jacket, which Patrick Dempsey was from. I didn’t know until he asked me if I was from Maine, I said no. I am from Mykolaiv, Ukraine. Also Eric Dane, McSteamy passed away two months ago in 2026. He was also on Grey’s Anatomy. I got to swim with the manatees. I don’t listen to today’s music it doesn’t feel the same or hits the same. “Ready set, don’t go” by Billy Ray Cyrus and Miley Cyrus, The starting line to the rest of my life. Walking across that graduation stage, I knew where I was heading. “Breakaway” By Kelly Clarkson, I won’t forget where I came from. “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts, You help each person that you can, I never asked for nothing in return, because at the end of the day it’s not about me. That one good dead, will stay with that individual for the rest of their life. The Savannah Civic Center, my very first concert was Taylor Swift, to my very last event my graduation. Eight years ago, each summer is to remember. I don’t hate Savannah, there is so many things to cherish and to be thankful for and does out rank the bad things. Savannah will always hold a close place to my heart.

Growing up, I used to read and still read a lot, but the story that interested me the most was Romeo & Juliet. I always been into literature. I got third place for my poem when I was in third grade at Rincon Elementary School. Writing wasn’t just something I loved, it was therapy for me. Metaphors became something I loved using when writing out my life. The only difference was each story I wrote didn’t have a tragic ending but a happy ending or a positive ending with wisdom. I learned to write in many different languages for many competitions for several colleges. I got in second place for two competitions for Ebenezer Middle School and New Hampstead High School, while still recovering from surgery. Try to memorize a speech that is three pages in French or Spanish for a competition. While representing a country or college. Then give your speech in front of 300 to 1,000 people. I’m not scared of crowds. I represented the Republic Of Congo not Republican Of Congo and that’s where French came in, then I represented all the colleges on the east coast. This was a 4-h competition. That’s where Spanish came in. The 4-h competition is one of the largest on the east coast. The way I memorize the speech’s was recording it on a tape player and listening to it everyday then speaking it, so you didn’t have to look on the paper constantly. The tape player I record all my lessons on as well and that’s how I learned. I could move the recordings to my phone that’s what I would listen to everyday at school, not just music. That’s how I prepared for tests, papers or quizzes.

Surviving the Great War was realizing that they were playing with fire. Somewhere in the haze I’ve sensed I have been betrayed. Breaking someone’s confidentiality to only act like the victim . You knew what you were doing, but you didn’t think I would expose you. There is no place to hide but the bed you created of lies. Don’t show up or act like I forgot. I don’t forget. You just want this to go away, but it won’t. I survived the Great War while you are in misery. What you did backfired on you. Not only did you destroy your reputation and credibility, I heard since I left that company is in pieces. Not my problem, maybe you should have listened to my warning but I’m not the one who is suffering. It’s always interesting how when I walk away everything breaks into pieces. All this time I was the one holding everything together. You will never find another person like me and many of you are learning that the hard way.

Don’t act like your kind, I don’t care if you’re the Superintendent or not you don’t disrespect me. I did have the highest GPA in my class and was offered the valedictorian but I turned it down. Not only were you doing college during your senior year, you were taking care of your grandparents. My grandfather was sick and I didn’t think he was going to make it. Telling me this is once in a lifetime opportunity, that you may never get it again and you should reconsider your decision. No, my grandfather means more to me than a title, plus I will get it again. Your arrogant attitude and rude remarks wouldn’t be taking lightly. There is no back peddling now or taking back what you said. You said it and now you will have to live with it. I had many try to fail me or tell me I would never make it. For only for them to not only lose their license but to not be able to teach again. I’m not someone who forgets or who should be messed with. Christmas was the last holiday with my grandfather before he passed away on August 23rd, 2019. You only act kind to cover your narcissistic ways. It didn’t work now did it?

A day I wouldn't forget, trying to ruin my birthday. Trying to create a scheme to get out of the consequences of your actions, putting all the blame on me. When the truth came out, you ran away. Playing the victim in your own drama that you caused. You thought you would get away with it. I remember everything, I just waited for the right time. While you continue to run your mouth and play the victim. It was just evidence that was adding up. I will never forgive you for what you did. I chose to heal but I made my move. You thought you won, laughing with your friends, gossiping about me in front of me. You had no idea what was about to come. Acting like a child stuck in high school. When you are older than me and close to being in your forties, I guess you never grew up. Just being the typical bully, thinking you were above the law and everyone else's. The ego and narcissism would soon be exposed for everyone to see. I didn't need to tell my side of the story because your lies exposed that. I learned my lessons. The only two things I regret is trusting you and saying some things that weren't appropriate, but at least I can admit and I can admit how I can't forget how it made me feel. Can't forget how it made me heal, I don't hate you, but I would never treat you the same way you treated me. I gave respect and I cared about you. I also helped you, but you humiliated me, for what? You did all of this for your own gain? I don't care for your apology or excuse. You have a chance, but you didn't take it. You only want to apologize now because you got caught and krama has caught up with you. Your story will never add up and you will never tell the whole story. You will only tell the parts that benefit you and leave out all the good things I did and just tell the bad parts. Well now the whole story is out, no more benefiting or playing the good guy. Those days are over. Does your relatives know you broke the law? You violated my privacy and rights? You also violated HIPPA? You broke my confidentiality to a whole place and no I won't put this down. You chose to run your mouth and share things that I didn't give you permission to share. You wanted to be a doctor? You would do this to someone else? You can move on and act like nothing ever happened, but the guilt will soon follow. When You're Relatives Read this, you are not innocent or the victim that you claim to be. You are someone who likes to hurt others and use their pain as gain because you were a supervisor not just an everyday person that you claim to be.