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I wanted to do something different to end season 3 of Dem Bois Podcast. So, in this episode, you will hear a voice you’ve already heard. Alexander Rey Perez is back and today we are talking all about empowerment, mental health, and personal journeys. Alexander shares insights from his experiences, emphasizing the importance of self-worth, community support, and the healing power of travel. We also reflect on the significance of trusting yourself and the journey of self-discovery.

We talk:

09:54 - Navigating mental health and community support

16:21 - Traveling as a pathway to trust and empowerment

23:41 - Andrxgenisis LLC: A new beginning

31:52 - Final thoughts on empowerment and self-discovery

Read more about Alexander in his bio below:

Alexander Rey Perez is a sovereign, multidimensional divine being led by heart. A two-spirit man of trans experience, spiritualist, and social justice advocate, he bridges activism, healing, and creativity to inspire transformation. As the founder of Andrxgenisis, he cultivates spaces for radical authenticity, holistic empowerment, and systemic change. With over 13 years in advocacy, his work integrates lived experience, ancestral wisdom, and strategic leadership. A speaker, oracle, and conscious creator, he uplifts truth, resilience, and liberation, challenging scarcity mindsets and igniting collective awakening through storytelling, energy work, and spiritual embodiment.

• https://beacons.ai/alexanderreyperez

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What does loving yourself actually mean? In this episode, we answer that question. Today I sit down with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez, sharing their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and the importance of community support. Alexander discusses the significance of his name, the meaning of being two-spirit, and the unconditional love he received from his grandmother. He emphasizes the importance of self-love as a continuous journey and the need to nurture one's inner child. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced in the transition journey and the power of vulnerability and connection in healing.

We talk:

11:47 - Alexander’s transition journey and family support

19:57 - The power of unconditional love

24:01 - Self-love and personal growth

29:49 - The importance of nurturing the inner child

Episode References

Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 8 - Advocating for Trans Lives with Luckie Alexander

Andrxgenisis

Read more about Alexander in their bio below:

Alexander Rey Perez is a sovereign, multidimensional divine being led by heart. A two-spirit man of trans experience, spiritualist, and social justice advocate, he bridges activism, healing, and creativity to inspire transformation. As the founder of Andrxgenisis, he cultivates spaces for radical authenticity, holistic empowerment, and systemic change. With over 13 years in advocacy, his work integrates lived experience, ancestral wisdom, and strategic leadership. A speaker, oracle, and conscious creator, he uplifts truth, resilience, and liberation, challenging scarcity mindsets and igniting collective awakening through storytelling, energy work, and spiritual embodiment.

• https://beacons.ai/alexanderreyperez

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Visibility equals possibility! You hear it all the time on this show, but now I’m giving you a peak behind the scenes of how that phrase operates at Dem Bois Inc. Today, on Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with Zyon Aijon, one of our brand collaborators, and we discuss the creative process behind our “visibility equals possibility” merch. Zyon also highlights the importance of feeling safe and celebrated in his new location and his aspirations for community building and social change.

We talk:

03:04 - Zyon's journey and creative freedom

11:46 - The meaning of visibility equals possibility

15:47 - The impact and risk of visibility in the community

20:12 - Future aspirations and community building

Episode References:

Dem Bois Pod Ep 31 - Speaking Truth to Power Leading Up to Knowing Your Worth with Amari Leach

Dem Bois Pod Ep. 37 - Advice for Mental Health and Passion for Social Work with Emilio Perdomo

Dem Bois Pod Ep. 53 - Finding Spiritual Balance and Peace Amongst Obsession with Zyon Aijon

Read more about Zyon in his bio below:

Zyon Lewis is a black trans artist born in Bridgeport, CT and raised between there and the south. He is a Vegan, Artist, Leader, activist and Innovator. He is a music artist, making music under the alias “1000 Percent”. He also produces gaming, lifestyle, creative and motivational content. He has been a digital artist/graphic designer since age 13. Zyon started his medical transition (HRT) August 19th, 2021 and he had top surgery in March of 2022. He continues to live his truth daily, by finding balance and peace in his daily experience.

• Connect with Zyon
• Space nVADRS (eSports Team): https://nvadrs.square.site/
• Giftedyoung1 - IG

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In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Maxx and I discuss his journey of healing and learning, identity, and the complexities of navigating race and gender in various spaces. Maxx shares personal experiences with choosing their name, living up to societal expectations, going to the military, and the impact of grief after losing their mom. We emphasize the importance of support systems, friendships, and the need for research and self-awareness in today's fast-paced world.

We talk:

05:51 - Navigating race and gender in professional spaces

14:29 - Military experience and gender identity

26:39 - Grief and loss of a parent

38:45 - Advice on healing and moving forward

50:53 - Research and critical thinking in the digital age

Episode References:

Dr. Joy DeGruy

Dem Bois Podcast Ep #85 Exploring Nonbinary Identity and Queer Masculinity with Kelz

Read more about Maxx in his bio below:

I'm from Charleston SC. I love food. I’m a chef on a break. I lost my mom about 2 years ago so coping and dealing with that is really all I have been focusing on. I have a wife and a 10 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. My son is a dog. Learning and healing is the journey I’m on.

• Facebook - Statria Maxwell

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I’ve said it once on this podcast and I will say it again: you don’t have to have surgery to be a trans man! You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. You just have to feel comfortable in your body and do what is best for you! And that is what this episode of Dem Bois Podcast is all about. Today I sit down with Demarco Lord, and he shares his journey as an intersex male of trans experience and discusses the challenges faced by the Black LGBTQ+ community in the South. We discuss the need for mental health support and resources for marginalized individuals and the importance of resilience and love in moving forward.

We talk:

11:50 - Intersex identity and personal experiences

21:01 - Challenges and triumphs in the south

40:11 - Creating inclusive spaces in mental health

49:13 - Navigating social media and mental health

59:59 - Building infrastructure for trans rights

Episode References:

Dunwoody Health Center

Read more about Demarco in his bio below:

ADVOCATES OF THE SOUTH INC. , was founded by a intersex male of Trans experience, through the lived experiences with dealing with the many disparities in the South, lack of resources and oppression in black communities ADVOCATES OF THE SOUTH INC. was born.

A message from the Founder: DeMarco T Lord

When we say all, Black lives matter, when we say no one left behind, it begins to bring a true Love and an atmosphere that we can all thrive in.

• advocatesofthesouth.com
• facebook.com/Advocatesofhesouthinc

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Gender affirming care is not just for trans folks. It is for everyone! And gender affirming care doesn’t have to mean surgery. It could mean wearing clothes that feel comfortable to you! And we dive deeper into this topic on this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today, my guest Nat Moghe shares their journey of navigating identity, community, and activism. They discuss the importance of visibility, mutual aid, and the need for intersectional discourse in the fight for trans rights.

We talk:

08:59 - Navigating transphobia and mental health

20:53 - The intersection of gender and culture

29:34 - The future of gender affirming care

35:41 - The impact of masculinity on the trans community

43:46 - Challenging misconceptions about trans existence

54:45 - Taking action in a challenging political climate

Episode References:

A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures

Frances Thompson

The Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love, book by Sonya Renee Taylor

Read more about Nat in their bio below:

Nat Moghe (they/he) is a South Asian, transmasc, queer content creator and activist. As a workplace justice organizer he works to improve programs and policies to ensure that all working families have paid time to care, and advocates for fair and inclusive workplaces through community engagement. They are passionate about addressing the intersection of racial justice and LGBTQIA+ rights. They recently were appointed to the Board of Directors for Trans Lifeline, and are also a volunteer gender advocate with the Trans Advocacy & Care Team, providing free and sliding-scale peer counseling to other trans and nonbinary folks. Nat graduated from the University of Pittsburgh with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and Gender, Sexuality, and Women's Studies.

• https://www.instagram.com/thetadvocate/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/nat-moghe-330b6914b/
• https://www.instagram.com/natmoghe/

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If you don’t learn anything else from this podcast, please learn to choose yourself first! In a way that’s what this episode is all about. Today on Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Jay Moten shares his journey of self-discovery and healing through self-care practices such as yoga, meditation, and breathwork. He discusses the intersectionality of race, gender, and identity, and how these elements shape his experiences as a trans man. Jay emphasizes the importance of community support and the need for safe spaces for trans individuals, particularly men of color.

We talk:

05:55 - Jay’s journey of identity and name selection

14:27 - Spirituality and personal growth

20:41 - Transitioning and finding community

33:25 - Exploring family and identity

41:58 - Finding wholeness beyond labels

51:43 - Integrating self-care practices

01:01:06 - Creating a legacy through storytelling

Episode References:

Camp Lost Boys

Uncloak Foundation

Intentional Man Project

Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 85 with Kelz

Read more about Jay in his bio below:

Jay Moton is a dedicated teacher, speaker, healer, and guide, passionate about fostering authentic transformation and self-discovery. Since embarking on his yogic journey in 2007, Jay has integrated Yoga, Breathwork, Meditation, and Sound Healing into his work, helping individuals cultivate self-love and deepen their inner awareness. As the lead facilitator of The Intentional Man Project, he creates space for transmen to find community, connection, and inner alignment. Known for his heart-centered and uplifting approach, Jay inspires compassion and personal growth. Through his classes, workshops, and retreats, he empowers individuals to release fears, transcend limitations, and embrace their highest potential.

• Instagram: @jaysonmoton

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It is really important to center grace in your life, especially right now with everything going on in the world. So I’m excited to introduce today’s guest on Dem Bois Podcast, because he went so far as to use the word “grace” in his name. In this episode, Grayson Thompson, a Black Jamaican American queer transgender cowboy poet and mental health therapist, shares his journey of identity, family dynamics, and the art of writing. He discusses the significance of his name, the complexities of his relationship with his mother, and the impact of his transition on his life and work. Grayson also reads his poetry, which reflects his experiences and thoughts on love, loss, and acceptance, emphasizing the importance of visibility and representation in the LGBTQ+ community.

We talk:

03:03 Grayson’s name and identity journey

11:46 The role of a mental health therapist

20:23 The significance of family and legacy

31:34 Eldership and visibility

43:15 Reflections on life and death

50:52 The importance of community and support

Episode References:

Donahue (TV Series 1967–1995)

8 Mile (2002)

Sand Bodied Florida Boy

Foglifter Journal

Read more about Grayson in his bio below:

Grayson Thompson [he/him] is a Black, Jamaican-American, queer transgender cowboy poet who moonlights as a mental health therapist. A mouthful, Grayson is Foglifter Press's 2024 Start A Riot! Chapbook Prize Winner with “Sand Bodied Florida Boy” (June 2025) and Winner of Write Bloody Publishing's 2024 Jack McCarthy Book Prize (forthcoming September 2025). Grayson has been featured in Cathexis Northwest Press, Cleaver (nominated for Best of the Net Anthology), Poetry Online, and other spaces. A teaching assistant for poet Buddy Wakefield’s Writer’s Anonymous, he supports emerging and established writers. A wanderer, he lives in Northern California and in awe of the ocean

• Instagram: @graysonwritespoems
• Writing: www.graysonwritespoems.com
• Mental Health: www.graysonlthompson.com

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