• Emergency Hysterectomy After Twins Birth with Stephen Dause - Podcast 327
    Jul 2 2025

    Today we continue our father of twins interview series with Stephen Dause, father of twin girls. Listen as we explore his twin parenting journey, including:

    • Finding out they'd have twins just after 24 year old adopted son moved out
    • Concerns and anxiety about sleep and wife’s health
    • Going to the hospital twice during pregnancy
    • Choosing a MFM specialist over traditional OB
    • TAPS and TTTS monitoring
    • At 34 weeks, gestational hypertension sent Mom to hospital
    • C-section delivery
    • Emergency hysterectomy to stop bleeding after birth
    • Dad's emotions dealing with traumatic birth experience
    • Power outage when they got home from hospital
    • Taking time off work to take care of babies and his wife
    • Child care plans - finding a daycare
    • Daily schedule for 4.5 month olds
    • and more...
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    33 mins
  • Maintaining Dad's Mental Health During a Twin Pregnancy
    Jun 11 2025

    Hey Dads, it's completely normal to need support during the twin pregnancy. Yes, support for you.

    During a twin pregnancy, the physical and emotional spotlight is naturally on your partner, but your role, your mental health, and your emotional well-being matter deeply.

    Here are some ideas on how to maintain your mental and emotional footing during this intense time.

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    8 mins
  • How to Prep Your Home for Twins Without Cluttering Everything
    May 28 2025

    When I found out we were having twins, on of my first thoughts after the initial shock wore off was: "Where are we going to put all their stuff?"

    Our modest three-bedroom home suddenly felt tiny. But after some creative planning and real-world experience, I discovered you don't need two of everything or a mansion to raise happy, healthy twins.

    Here's how to prepare your home without drowning in baby gear.

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    10 mins
  • Common Overblown Fears of Expectant Twin Fathers
    May 14 2025

    Fathers expecting twins often have specific concerns that tend to be exaggerated or misguided.

    You just don't know what you're getting yourself into and that leads to some irrational fears.

    I know, I've been there.

    Here are some of the most common fears that you don't need to stress out about.

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    14 mins
  • Successfully Grocery Shopping Alone with Infant Twins
    Apr 16 2025

    As a father of twins who's done countless grocery runs, I'm going to share what actually works when you need to brave the supermarket alone with your infant twins. This isn't theoretical advice—these are battle-tested strategies that have saved my sanity during that challenging first year (and beyond) with twins.

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    11 mins
  • How to cope with comparison of your twins to singleton milestones by well-meaning friends and family
    Apr 2 2025

    As a father of twins, you've probably heard it all: "Shouldn't they be walking by now?" or "My son was talking in full sentences at this age!" These well-meaning comments from friends and family comparing your twins to singleton milestones can be frustrating and sometimes even worrying. Let me share some perspective and practical advice on how to handle these situations with confidence.

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    12 mins
  • How to handle competing twin needs when they're both urgent
    Feb 28 2025

    As a father of twins who has weathered countless "double emergencies," I'm here to tell you that yes, you will survive those moments when both babies need you desperately at the exact same time.

    Whether it's one spitting up while the other has a diaper explosion, or both wailing for different urgent reasons, these situations are inevitable with twins.

    Here's my battle-tested approach to handling these high-stress moments.

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    11 mins
  • Avoiding Twin Comparisons (how twin parents can encourage individuality)
    Feb 5 2025

    The urge to compare twins is one of the most natural yet challenging aspects of parenting multiples.

    Each of your twins is a unique individual so let's discuss some practical ideas to avoid comparisons and celebrate each child's unique journey.

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    13 mins