Guest Name
Tuyet Nguyen, Oregon State Benefits Specialist & RealEstate Broker
Email: tuyetn121@yahoo.com
Phone: 503-318-6821
Summary
Timika S. Chambers speaks with Tuyet Nguyen, an Oregonbenefits specialist and part-time real estate agent, about how her Vietnamese American childhood shaped the way she parents her teenage daughter. Nguyen shares how she is building a more open, supportive relationship than the oneshe experienced, and why listening, presence, compassion, and helping children use their voices matter.
Keywords
#parenting, #breakingcycles, #VietnameseAmerican, #family,#parent-child communication, #safespaceforteenagers, #work-life balance,#Oregonrealestate, #familysupport #Tillamook #Oregoncoast #coastalliving
Key Topics
· Tuyet Nguyen immigrated to the United Statesfrom Vietnam at about age two and grew up with six siblings.
· Her parents ran a restaurant and worked longdays, leaving Nguyen to spend much of her childhood with her siblings and often keep worries to herself.
· Nguyen says she and her 17-year-old daughtertalk openly, sharing a closeness she did not have with her parents as a child.
· She encourages her daughter’s interests,including arts, dance, sports, and outdoor adventures such as camping and crabbing.
· A solo mother-daughter camping trip became amoment of connection: her daughter set up the tent and made the fire while Nguyen worked through her nerves.
· Nguyen emphasizes compassion, humility, respectfor elders, and speaking up to help someone being bullied when it is safe to do so.
· She recommends making time to listen andnoticing changes in a child's mood or behavior, creating a safe space for them to share what is happening.
· Nguyen balances protecting her daughter withgradually allowing more independence and helping her build coping skills.
· Outside parenting, Nguyen works as an Oregonbenefits specialist and a part-time real estate agent; she bought her first home at 21 and hopes to open a Vietnamese coffee shop or deli.
Takeaways
· I naturally started doing it justbecause I didn't have it when I was younger.
· You need to have compassion and respect.
· When you see something wrong, you need to saysomething, if you're in a safe space to do it.
· I would encourage them to listen to your child.You know, have that time.
· You really have to listen to them if they'retelling you something.
· You always have to take time for yourself.
· You have to work to take care of yourresponsibilities, but you also have to find time for yourself mentally.
· You're creating that safe space for them to beable to talk to you about things if something's bothering them.
Sound Bites
· "I think it's important to havegoals."
· "You need to have compassion andrespect."
Chapters
· 00:00 Introducing the season's focus on familystories and parenting
· 02:44 Tuyet's work helping Oregon families andhomebuyers
· 03:49 Outdoor time, family traditions, and asolo camping weekend
· 07:42 How childhood shaped a more openmother-daughter bond
· 13:09 Honoring her parents' sacrifices whilechoosing a different path
· 17:12 Work-life balance, self-care, and beingemotionally present
· 20:10 A future dream of opening a Vietnamesecoffee shop
· 21:40 Teaching compassion and speaking up forothers
· 26:01 Listening closely to teenagers andcreating a safe space
· 29:46 Balancing protection with independence andcoping skills
· 32:06 Real estate, buying a first home at 21,and serving clients
· 35:21 Closing reflections on breaking cycles andbuilding love
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