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Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

By: Brian Janes and Mark Dembo
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Coming Inside OUT is a heartfelt podcast where hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo create a safe space for gay fathers, men coming out later in life, and anyone exploring their identity within the LGBTQ+ community. Through candid conversations they explore the emotional journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the power of living authentically.

Each episode dives into real stories of courage, healing, and connection—covering topics like mental health, therapy, mixed-orientation marriages, dating, fatherhood, and community support. Whether it’s navigating guilt and shame, celebrating Pride, or confronting societal challenges, Brian and Mark remind listeners that no one walks this path alone.

It’s never too late to come home to yourself. Tune in for inspiration, solidarity, and a reminder that authenticity is not just freedom—it’s leadership.

📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com 🌈

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Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, gay parent, gay podcast, gay men, personal growth, gay fathers, pride,

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Episodes
  • Ep 24 - Coming Out, Coming Home: Gay Dad’s Journey. Closeted No More. Father’s Goodbye, Son’s Truth
    Dec 11 2025

    In this deeply personal episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark and Brian open up about the emotional terrain of the holiday season, weaving together themes of coming out, grief, family, and the ongoing journey toward authenticity.

    Mark shares a heartfelt reflection on his father’s recent passing and the profound impact of having come out to him shortly before he died. His story invites listeners into the complex intersection of love, fear, relief, and loss—capturing the power and vulnerability of sharing one’s truth. As Mark puts it, “I’m glad I had the chance to tell him.”

    The conversation moves into the challenges many LGBTQ+ individuals face during the holidays, when family dynamics, traditions, and expectations can bring both comfort and pain. Brian and Mark discuss how grief can resurface during this time, how being “the outsider” can shape gatherings, and why letting go of preconceived expectations can create space for more authentic experiences. The hosts also explore the unique journey of coming out later in life, including what Mark jokingly refers to as his “gay adolescence.” They touch on dating, navigating relationships with openness, and the importance of vulnerability in forming deeper connections. Along the way, they highlight the crucial role of community—especially for gay fathers seeking belonging and support.

    Through honest dialogue and lived experience, they remind listeners that personal growth often emerges from embracing one’s true self, even in seasons marked by transition. The episode closes with words of gratitude and encouragement, offering listeners resources, solidarity, and the reassurance that no one has to walk this journey alone.

    Cominginsideout @gmail.com

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    Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, holiday season, grief, vulnerability, authenticity, family dynamics, community, relationships, personal growth T

    akeaways: Mark reflects on his father's passing and its impact on his life. Coming out can be a source of fear, but also empowerment. The holiday season can evoke mixed emotions for many. Grief can complicate family dynamics during holidays. Vulnerability is key to authentic relationships. Gratitude can be found even in difficult times. Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Dating can be challenging, especially later in life. It's important to let go of expectations in social situations. Personal growth often comes from embracing one's true self

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    54 mins
  • Ep 23 - Gay, Growing, and Grounded Fathers - Beyond the Closet: The Ongoing Journey of Coming Out.
    Nov 14 2025

    In this heartfelt episode of Coming Inside OUT, Brian and Mark open up about their personal experiences as gay men, exploring the deep themes of love, vulnerability, authenticity, and the ongoing process of coming out. They reflect on their own family dynamics, relationships, and the ways personal growth continues to shape their lives.

    The conversation dives into how love is expansive—not finite—and how vulnerability can create stronger bonds with family, friends, partners, and community. Brian and Mark also discuss the challenges of superficiality within the gay community and how “personal armor” can keep people from building the genuine connections they crave. Together, they emphasize the power of living intentionally, designing a life with purpose, and embracing change at any stage of life.

    From Halloween stories to the transformative impact of journaling, the hosts share honest reflections that remind listeners it’s never too late to come out, evolve, or rediscover themselves. They anchor the episode in the importance of community support for anyone navigating their sexuality or identity.

    Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, vulnerability, personal growth, gay community, family dynamics, authenticity, love, support

    Takeaways: Love can be many different things and is not finite. Coming out is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Building authentic connections is crucial for personal growth. Superficiality in the gay community can be a barrier to genuine relationships. It's important to be intentional about designing your life. Vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships with family and friends. Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and connection. It's never too late to come out or make life changes. Living authentically can lead to a sense of being anchored in life. Community support is vital for those navigating their sexuality.

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    49 mins
  • Ep 22 - Gay Fathers - Real Talk, Coming Out, True Pride, Fatherhood, Freedom, and Finding Yourself
    Oct 22 2025

    In this heartfelt episode, Mark and Brian open up about their personal journeys of coming out, embracing authenticity, and learning to live without shame. Through honest conversation, they explore the emotional complexities of self-acceptance, the power of vulnerability, and how community support can transform isolation into connection.

    From navigating family dynamics to rebuilding self-worth, the hosts reflect on the process of integrating who they were with who they’ve become. This episode reminds listeners that coming out isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong act of courage, healing, and growth.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.

    Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.

    🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.

    📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LoveisLove #gayparents

    Keywords: coming out, LGBTQ+, self-acceptance, emotional vulnerability, community support, personal growth, authenticity, relationships, pride, mental health

    Takeaways: Over 2,700 events were held for the No Kings rallies. Attending marches can create a sense of community and support. Coming out is a unique journey for everyone. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Supportive friendships enhance emotional well-being. Unlearning shame is crucial for self-acceptance. Integrating past and present selves is an ongoing process. Healing involves sharing stories and experiences. Authenticity leads to deeper connections with others. The journey of self-discovery continues throughout life.

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    52 mins
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